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AbbysMom08 · 12-31-2011, 02:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Sweeti

What about ALL the people that were so kind ? They way out number the other kind. God bless you

Amen!

zedhead · 12-31-2011, 02:52 AM

I can see Her point. I would have been offended in Her situation too.

candigirl · 12-31-2011, 05:34 AM

I can too, especially in her current emotional state noone should have to deal with that. I never thought her posts looked unusual and troll-like. The loss of her pup was still fresh when she came here looking for answers, and that came through in her posts. I'm sorry that some people felt the need to tear this person down in her time of need. I read the very ugly comments before they were removed and was completely shocked and disappointed- there is no excuse for it. Tikidog I hope that you realize that the few who judge you do not even come close to the amount of us who support you. Please know that YT will always be open to you and we hope to see you again. tc

Jeepmom · 12-31-2011, 05:41 AM

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Originally Posted by zedhead

I can see Her point. I would have been offended in Her situation too.

LunasMomma · 12-31-2011, 06:16 AM

Cindy, I really hope that after you've had a chance to catch your breath a little and the pain is not so fresh, that you'll come back. Please know that 99.9% of the members here are very kind and have the best of intentions. There is no excuse for those that attacked you and I'm so sorry for that, especially at this painful time

If you don't decide to rejoin us, then I wish you and your little Sadi well and I hope that in time, your heart will heal and you won't blame yourself anymore for something that you didn't know.

HUGS!!!!!!

Wylie's Mom · 12-31-2011, 07:27 AM

Cindy - I know you requested no PMs. But I hope you'll read a PM I just sent you.

Lovetodream88 · 12-31-2011, 07:54 AM

They are talking about the breaks you took because most people would just walk away from the computer and not post the message until they could come back and finish typing it that's all. Most people will not remember after a year what you posted a year ago. I am sorry you feel you have to leave. There are people in the world who don't always say what we want to hear or come off as mean and uncaring and its just best to ignore that no matter how hard and just try to focus on all of the nice and caring people who tried to help you. Again I am sorry for your loss.

Lovetodream88 · 12-31-2011, 07:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweeti

What about ALL the people that were so kind ? They way out number the other kind. God bless you

I think sometimes people in general seem to think about the negative more then the positive.

chachi · 12-31-2011, 08:05 AM

I hope you stay because you received alot of care and compassion from alot of people. One thing I have learned in life is I cant control what all people think of me or say about me. You are grieving so I know you are sensitive but I hope you will reread all of the posts and see how much support you had. Dont let the comments of a couple of people make you feel you must leave

yorkieusa · 12-31-2011, 08:10 AM

This makes me so very sad.

Ringo1 · 12-31-2011, 08:30 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweeti

What about ALL the people that were so kind ? They way out number the other kind. God bless you

Absolutely. This OP had more support than not.

However, I know I cannot control whether she chooses to leave or stay so I will have to let it go.

TraciG · 12-31-2011, 08:45 AM

This situation is just heart breaking. As I was reading Cindy's posts, I felt her pain and got all teared up trying to imagine what she just went through. It was more than loosing her beautiful Tiki....sounds like she is in a remote area with minimal vet care, she came here for answers and comfort out of desperation. I think alot of words of comfort have been given from alot of compassionate posters along with info about raisins and grapes. If anything I have learned something from this horrific situation. God bless you Cindy.

Nancy1999 · 12-31-2011, 09:20 AM

Cindy, I'm very sad you had to experience such a negative situation when you came here. I can completely understand how you could be embarrassed, I would be too. I don’t understand why people are so skeptical anymore. I think it may be “blame the victim” phenomena, if we can blame the victim, we can tell ourselves that would never happen to us. I’m sure you’ll be experiencing many raw emotions in the next few days, and I hope you don’t make any decisions now. I, for one, would really like to know you better, there are so many wonderful people here, and truthfully, it’s a wonderful resource for learning to care for the Yorkie. Give your heart a chance to heal. I just want to add that you have been amazing gracious throughout this whole ordeal.

jp4m2 · 12-31-2011, 10:55 AM

Cindy, I’m so sorry about the loss of your precious Tiki. Having lost two of my own babies too soon I know the drive / need for answers and the grief and pain that can follow an unexpected death ,it can be a pretty lonely place. As hard as it may be to admit, sometimes the answers we get still don't relieve the heartache. We must remember as well that not everything is in our control. We might like to think it is, hope that it is, but there are times it simply isn't…

Your coming here for comfort, compassion and support was perfectly understandable. I’m sorry if you feel you didn’t get that…..Realize that you do not need anyone else's approval to mourn the loss of your pet, nor must you justify your feelings to anyone and that not everyone will always come through in the way we expect….Just know the joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The power of the love and companionship they provide to us and yet asking for nothing in return is a blessing we all should cherish. I wish you all the best and I hope down the road your memories of Tiki will bring you comfort ….RIP Tiki……..

myteddybear · 12-31-2011, 11:18 AM

Just a sad way for YT to come across.

Cindy I am very sorry for your loss. I am glad you did get a lot of compassion and good advise and apologize for the few who were unkind. I know that even though there was plenty of support the few bad eggs makes us all stink. When your hurting the smallest amount of negativity will hurt more than it would normally.

Thoughts and prayers for your healing and all my good wishes for you, your husband and your little girl.

12-31-2011, 06:16 AM	#155
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	Cindy, I really hope that after you've had a chance to catch your breath a little and the pain is not so fresh, that you'll come back. Please know that 99.9% of the members here are very kind and have the best of intentions. There is no excuse for those that attacked you and I'm so sorry for that, especially at this painful time If you don't decide to rejoin us, then I wish you and your little Sadi well and I hope that in time, your heart will heal and you won't blame yourself anymore for something that you didn't know. HUGS!!!!!! __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

12-31-2011, 07:27 AM	#156
Wylie's Mom Furbutts = LOVE Donating Member Moderator Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Phoenix, AZ Posts: 35,889 Blog Entries: 2	Cindy - I know you requested no PMs. But I hope you'll read a PM I just sent you. __________________ ~ A friend told me I was delusional. I nearly fell off my unicorn. ~ °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Ann \| Pfeiffer \| Marcel Verdel Purcell \| Wylie \| Artie °¨¨¨°ºOº°¨¨¨° Last edited by JMuedog; 01-01-2012 at 10:58 AM. Reason: removed quote

12-31-2011, 07:54 AM	#157
Lovetodream88 Yorkie mom of 4 Donating YT Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: LaPlata, Md Posts: 23,249	They are talking about the breaks you took because most people would just walk away from the computer and not post the message until they could come back and finish typing it that's all. Most people will not remember after a year what you posted a year ago. I am sorry you feel you have to leave. There are people in the world who don't always say what we want to hear or come off as mean and uncaring and its just best to ignore that no matter how hard and just try to focus on all of the nice and caring people who tried to help you. Again I am sorry for your loss. __________________ Taylor My babies Joey, Penny ,Ollie & Dixie Callie Mae, you will forever be in my heart! Last edited by JMuedog; 01-01-2012 at 11:00 AM. Reason: removed quote

12-31-2011, 08:05 AM	#159
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I hope you stay because you received alot of care and compassion from alot of people. One thing I have learned in life is I cant control what all people think of me or say about me. You are grieving so I know you are sensitive but I hope you will reread all of the posts and see how much support you had. Dont let the comments of a couple of people make you feel you must leave __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

12-31-2011, 08:10 AM	#160
yorkieusa Crazy about Kacee! Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 21,173	This makes me so very sad. __________________ Karen Kacee Muffin 1991-2005 Rest in Peace My Little Angel

12-31-2011, 02:52 AM	#152
zedhead No Longer a Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Duluth, Mn. Posts: 140	I can see Her point. I would have been offended in Her situation too.

12-31-2011, 05:34 AM	#153
candigirl YT Addict Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Toronto, Ont Posts: 333	I can too, especially in her current emotional state noone should have to deal with that. I never thought her posts looked unusual and troll-like. The loss of her pup was still fresh when she came here looking for answers, and that came through in her posts. I'm sorry that some people felt the need to tear this person down in her time of need. I read the very ugly comments before they were removed and was completely shocked and disappointed- there is no excuse for it. Tikidog I hope that you realize that the few who judge you do not even come close to the amount of us who support you. Please know that YT will always be open to you and we hope to see you again. tc

12-31-2011, 08:45 AM	#162
TraciG Donating YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Ft. Wayne, IN, USA Posts: 522	This situation is just heart breaking. As I was reading Cindy's posts, I felt her pain and got all teared up trying to imagine what she just went through. It was more than loosing her beautiful Tiki....sounds like she is in a remote area with minimal vet care, she came here for answers and comfort out of desperation. I think alot of words of comfort have been given from alot of compassionate posters along with info about raisins and grapes. If anything I have learned something from this horrific situation. God bless you Cindy. __________________ *Brutus is mommas boy!*

12-31-2011, 09:20 AM	#163
Nancy1999 I ♥ Joey & Ralphie! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Arizona Posts: 25,396 Blog Entries: 2	Cindy, I'm very sad you had to experience such a negative situation when you came here. I can completely understand how you could be embarrassed, I would be too. I don’t understand why people are so skeptical anymore. I think it may be “blame the victim” phenomena, if we can blame the victim, we can tell ourselves that would never happen to us. I’m sure you’ll be experiencing many raw emotions in the next few days, and I hope you don’t make any decisions now. I, for one, would really like to know you better, there are so many wonderful people here, and truthfully, it’s a wonderful resource for learning to care for the Yorkie. Give your heart a chance to heal. I just want to add that you have been amazing gracious throughout this whole ordeal. __________________ NancyJoey Proud members of the CrAzYcLuB and YAP! ** Just Say No to Puppymills – Join YAP! Yorkshire Terrier Club of America – Breeder Referrals Last edited by JMuedog; 01-01-2012 at 11:01 AM. Reason: removed quote

12-31-2011, 10:55 AM	#164
jp4m2 Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys Posts: 5,056	Cindy, I’m so sorry about the loss of your precious Tiki. Having lost two of my own babies too soon I know the drive / need for answers and the grief and pain that can follow an unexpected death ,it can be a pretty lonely place. As hard as it may be to admit, sometimes the answers we get still don't relieve the heartache. We must remember as well that not everything is in our control. We might like to think it is, hope that it is, but there are times it simply isn't… Your coming here for comfort, compassion and support was perfectly understandable. I’m sorry if you feel you didn’t get that…..Realize that you do not need anyone else's approval to mourn the loss of your pet, nor must you justify your feelings to anyone and that not everyone will always come through in the way we expect….Just know the joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The power of the love and companionship they provide to us and yet asking for nothing in return is a blessing we all should cherish. I wish you all the best and I hope down the road your memories of Tiki will bring you comfort ….RIP Tiki…….. __________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J. Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too..

12-31-2011, 11:18 AM	#165
myteddybear Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Cambridgeshire, England Posts: 1,208	Just a sad way for YT to come across. Cindy I am very sorry for your loss. I am glad you did get a lot of compassion and good advise and apologize for the few who were unkind. I know that even though there was plenty of support the few bad eggs makes us all stink. When your hurting the smallest amount of negativity will hurt more than it would normally. Thoughts and prayers for your healing and all my good wishes for you, your husband and your little girl. __________________ Please help save Lennox! http://www.savelennox.co.uk/ Let your voice be heard so Lennox can go home