Cindy, I’m so sorry about the loss of your precious Tiki. Having lost two of my own babies too soon I know the drive / need for answers and the grief and pain that can follow an unexpected death ,it can be a pretty lonely place. As hard as it may be to admit, sometimes the answers we get still don't relieve the heartache. We must remember as well that not everything is in our control. We might like to think it is, hope that it is, but there are times it simply isn't…
Your coming here for comfort, compassion and support was perfectly understandable. I’m sorry if you feel you didn’t get that…..Realize that you do not need anyone else's approval to mourn the loss of your pet, nor must you justify your feelings to anyone and that not everyone will always come through in the way we expect….Just know the joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The power of the love and companionship they provide to us and yet asking for nothing in return is a blessing we all should cherish. I wish you all the best and I hope down the road your memories of Tiki will bring you comfort ….RIP Tiki……..
__________________ B.J.mom to : Jake J.J.  Jack & Joey, momma misses you..... The joy found in the companionship of a pet is a blessing not given to everyone. The two most powerful words when we’re in struggle: me too.. |