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lillymae 07-05-2010 09:26 PM
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Originally Posted by jmdt (Post 3187900)
in my opinion one must walk in anothers shoes to criticize or judge them. I believe in compassion. People come here for help and advice. Sometimes just to tell us the crazy antics our babies do. I say tread lightly it might be you someday that needs the compassion. We don't come here for a lecture.
Let's try to stick to the subject of the thread.

Amen !

AllDogBoots 07-06-2010 05:58 AM
If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.

chachi 07-06-2010 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188328)
If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.
I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.

manolos mom 07-06-2010 06:06 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188328)
If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.
Agree, they are on other Forums stirring the pot. :confused:

AllDogBoots 07-06-2010 06:09 AM
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Originally Posted by chachi (Post 3188335)
I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.
I suppose that I'm the type of person that can turn the other cheek or ignore if something bothers me. But I do hear what you are saying. The forum really is becoming difficult to peruse through without seeing some kind of drama somewhere. I haven't thought about the people that just leave because they don't want to be here.

BaxtersMommy 07-06-2010 06:10 AM
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Originally Posted by manolos mom (Post 3188336)
Agree, they are on other Forums stirring the pot. :confused:
I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!

AllDogBoots 07-06-2010 06:12 AM
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Originally Posted by BaxtersMommy (Post 3188341)
I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!
Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?

107barney 07-06-2010 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188328)
If people are leaving because of drama then they are part of the drama.
:thumbup: Totally agree with this. That is why you hear about their grand departures.

chachi 07-06-2010 06:15 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188343)
Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?
Thats what everyone needs to do. This is not the first forum created to bash YT members and admins and it wont be the last I am sure

BaxtersMommy 07-06-2010 06:16 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188343)
Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?
Very true. Hopefully it will stop now that Bonny requested that thread to be closed.

manolos mom 07-06-2010 06:17 AM
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Originally Posted by BaxtersMommy (Post 3188341)
I don't understand why they don't just let it go. They continue to come here hiding their IP addresses and fueling the fire. It is dumb. That is why I decided to just start a silly thread. Sometimes you just gotta laugh!
Agree, Dana there is so much going on behind the scenes. People who left YT complained about it being so negative and hostile but they continue the Drama on their "lets be positve forums" and continue to come back to YT and stir up more drama. Please, YT is not going away and never will. It will only become Better and Stonger after all of this is said and done.

rbelland 07-06-2010 06:19 AM
[QUOTE=manolos mom;3188349]Agree, Dana there is so much going on behind the scenes. People who left YT complained about it being so negative and hostile but they continue the Drama on their "lets be positve forums" and continue to come back to YT and stir up more drama. Please, YT is not going away and never will. It will only become Better and Stonger after all of this is said and done.[/QUOTE]

:thumbup::thumbup: Could not have said that better.

cj125 07-06-2010 06:48 AM
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Originally Posted by chachi (Post 3188335)
I respectfully disagree. Some drama people do leave but Ive seen alot that just participate in positive threads leave becuse they are tired of how the forum going. Honestly Ive been here 5 yrs and Ive never seen such turnaround.
I have to agree with you on this too, Chachi. :D

Lou 07-06-2010 06:52 AM
I have to agree with Chachi too!
Ya'll remember a member we used to have name Crystal's Mom? she was the sweetest thing but eventually stopped posting because the drama was getting to her. After all it is about the dogs not the people.

lillymae 07-06-2010 06:57 AM
You see, this is my point. Still talking about people that aren't even here. Move on, Let it GO !!!

Ringo1 07-06-2010 07:08 AM
I agree that we need to let the people that have left - go. Forget about them and concentrate on our own forum. That forum that is supposed to be so 'positive' really is not. So . . let's just do what we do best - help the dogs by helping their owners. And, yes, we can all take a look at our posting style - myself included.

YT is so great about helping others - a helping hand is always ready and willing even if the tone is not always what one would like. Even if one gets bashed in the breeder forum - they still hand out their phone numbers for someone really in need.

And for all the drama complaints, those threads are the ones that get the most response! I see it on all internet forums . . not just YT.

Sometimes they do get old and sometimes, they are just more interesting. Perhaps there is a happy medium we can reach.

I still love YT!

cj125 07-06-2010 07:46 AM
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Originally Posted by AllDogBoots (Post 3188343)
Perhaps they would let it go if both sides would let it go? Can't they (whomever that is) just be ignored and perhaps the fuel will run out?
Exactly! :thumbup:

And there's no doubt in my mind that YT will be around for however long Admin wants it to be - which I hope is for a long, long time.

This place has so much to offer and all of the information and friendships are being overshadowed by the egoes of a few.

YorkieMother 07-06-2010 08:21 AM
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Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom (Post 3172409)
I don’t know the right way to say this, so I’ll just say it plainly…

I'm hoping everyone on this board can stop and consider whether it is possible for them to be more compassionate to their fellow members.

You don’t have to love everyone. You don’t have to like everyone. You don’t have to like anyone, for that matter. But we do ask that you be respectful…that you try to be compassionate.

None of us have walked in anyone else’s shoes but our own, as far as I know. So until one of us has that capability, let’s not pretend we are overly fit to judge.

Words hurt people. Insinuations can hurt just as much as words. Before you post something…think of how you would feel if it was posted to YOU.

We don’t have to gush over each other (although it is welcome :)), we don’t have to be fakey-nicey. You don’t have to be a Pollyanna. But please, do remember that every action, kind or otherwise, has consequences – in some way or another.

Thanks for reading this and for making YT such a wonderful place! :)

Amen and if that does not work the ignore button does if someone is upsetting you use it. I have and it has made thing her much more pleasent.

JL

ladyjane 07-06-2010 12:42 PM
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Originally Posted by YorkieMother (Post 3188506)
Amen and if that does not work the ignore button does if someone is upsetting you use it. I have and it has made thing her much more pleasent.

JL
Yes, ignore can be a best friend! :)

hartygirl 07-06-2010 12:54 PM
Or it can be totally confusing! I had someone on ignore once and I could not ever tell what everyone was talking about! I missed an entire thread because they were the only one responding to everything! Lol!

miabellaamoure 07-06-2010 01:02 PM
Considering the amount of YT:aimeeyorkmembers and YT:animal36threads going on here...the few hiccup threads here & there are unfortunate but still "few" when you think about it. ;)

WalnutHill 07-06-2010 01:05 PM
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Originally Posted by hartygirl (Post 3188852)
Or it can be totally confusing! I had someone on ignore once and I could not ever tell what everyone was talking about! I missed an entire thread because they were the only one responding to everything! Lol!
So, how do you "ignore" someone and what happens if you do? I have never considered it, but I'd like to know how it works, LOL :)

hartygirl 07-06-2010 01:08 PM
It really is just a few, so YT continues to be a great place to come and to learn.

The people that log off YT and continue to put the learning practices to work are the real winners here, the others that log off and try to create ways to cause havoc are something else completely.

hartygirl 07-06-2010 01:12 PM
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Originally Posted by WalnutHill (Post 3188865)
So, how do you "ignore" someone and what happens if you do? I have never considered it, but I'd like to know how it works, LOL :)
There is an ignore button, it prevents you from seeing what the "ignored" person has posted. You can still see it if someone quotes them though.

I don't use it anymore, I grew up and just don't take things personally anymore.

miabellaamoure 07-06-2010 01:19 PM
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Originally Posted by hartygirl (Post 3188873)
There is an ignore button, it prevents you from seeing what the "ignored" person has posted. You can still see it if someone quotes them though.

I don't use it anymore, I grew up and just don't take things personally anymore.
:cheer:whoot-whoot!!!:cheer:

kalina82 07-06-2010 03:08 PM
i agree that we should all just move on. forget about what's been happening and lets just get back to what we all love about YT, our yorkies. lets just call a "do over" and start fresh

Patti 07-06-2010 06:35 PM
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Originally Posted by kalina82 (Post 3188987)
i agree that we should all just move on. forget about what's been happening and lets just get back to what we all love about YT, our yorkies. lets just call a "do over" and start fresh
Amen!

megansmomma 07-06-2010 07:29 PM
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Originally Posted by chachi (Post 3188346)
Thats what everyone needs to do. This is not the first forum created to bash YT members and admins and it wont be the last I am sure
:eek: Really? Who would have ever thought? :rolleyes:

CJxDanielle 07-06-2010 08:14 PM
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Originally Posted by lillymae (Post 3188388)
You see, this is my point. Still talking about people that aren't even here. Move on, Let it GO !!!
:thumbup:
Seems like that isn't very positive, is it?

Sooner people decide to move on the better. If you keep letting drama from "faceless" internet people whom you may never meet get in the way of enjoying a forum created for the dogs, not the people...
. . .well then shame on you, right?

PANAMA69 07-06-2010 08:28 PM
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Originally Posted by rontiss1 (Post 3177372)
i will memorize this proverb! Thank you.

Gil and his babies!
Aww thankyou:hug:, this proverb will help me to remind me what really matters.


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