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Rhetts_mama · 05-07-2010, 12:51 PM

My evil twin would want to say something like..."Would you like Jaime to give you some fashion tips?"

On a more serious note, who the heck CARES whether a dog is wearing a dress or a bow in their hair?! Even before I had small dogs, I would have never said anything like this to anyone any more than I would tell them they need to learn how to dress their kid!

Tinx · 05-07-2010, 02:00 PM

I can't believe how malicious some people can be! I always say if you have nothing good to say don't say anything at all. Sometimes I think it's best not to say
Anything. It's just not worth getting yourself upset.

maryeverett1 · 05-07-2010, 02:12 PM

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Originally Posted by MI Yorkielover

I like this response

. Quick and spot on! I was brought up with the idea that if you can't say something nice...say nothing at all, but this woman clearly had it coming!

Great comment Jacks, as always! Bottom line really is that this person was JEALOUS of your dog!! Sad but true! When people are nasty they prove they are insecure and jealous! That girl in the check out line story probably couldn't afford a little dog and was being nasty because of it! I'm so sick of rude people in general lately! I could roast them all together over an open pit!! LOL!

ArmaniMan · 05-07-2010, 02:17 PM

Well I just posted photos of my kids in their new outfits from Ashlee (FairyTails Fashions) on facebook and one of my "friends" replied "LOL, this is a bit much, even for you"... so if anyone has any nice responses I am taking suggestions

Rhetts_mama · 05-07-2010, 02:20 PM

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Originally Posted by ArmaniMan

Well I just posted photos of my kids in their new outfits from Ashlee (FairyTails Fashions) on facebook and one of my "friends" replied "LOL, this is a bit much, even for you"... so if anyone has any nice responses I am taking suggestions

I want to see the pictures!!!

ArmaniMan · 05-07-2010, 02:41 PM

they are posted in the YT Seller Feedback and Reviews

Rhetts_mama · 05-07-2010, 02:45 PM

OMG! Those are sooo cute. I definitely need a little girl to doll up.

spiritwings1202 · 05-07-2010, 02:49 PM

Some people are so opinionated!! I had someone look at Pixie once and say ridiculous!! I just laughed and said No she is cute!!

Ringo1 · 05-07-2010, 03:12 PM

Gosh. Just reading these posts is making me mad. Why do people care if your dog has on a cute t shirt or something??

I was never about dressing my dogs (before I got Lucy); but, even then, would NEVER have said anything to someone who did.

DaniMarie · 05-07-2010, 03:31 PM

Honestly, and no one hate me for saying this.....but I understand the general attitude of dresses looking "silly" on dogs.

Most people think they do.

I put sweaters and scarfs on my Poppy and I get comments from ALL of my friends like "Poor dog...." as if I'm torturing her, and I kindly let them know that she does not produce and under-coat and therefore gets cold and needs a sweater, just like we do when it gets cold.

I would NEVER tell someone their dog looks silly in anything, that's ridiculous. I take it from my friends because, well...they're my friends and I take it as just normal teasing...but it does bother me a little when it is something like a sweater in December when I know that if I were to not put a sweater on her, she would be in danger of freezing.

I don't get angry about it, I just brush it off, at least I know my baby is warm.

The dress thing.....well, personally I would feel a little silly putting a dress on a dog...but that's me. I think other dogs look absolutely ADORABLE in dresses, it's just not my cup of tea.

Just brush it off...they don't live in your house or live with your dog, they are a meaningless person that passes by in your day.

Your

is the important one!

dwerten · 05-07-2010, 03:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

It is disgusting how some people are so ignorant and rude! I believe some people are just jealous of these little dogs beauty and the attention they get.

I bet she looked so cute in her dress.

lol i think you nailed it here as the way i see it the rude people are ignorant as they have no common sense on how to treat others lolllll

Also they are very unhappy people usually trying to make others around them unhappy so smile walk away and go buy your baby a new dress and bow

mommadog1 · 05-07-2010, 04:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Carol607

Just got back from a local park where they are doing a dog agility event. Jamie was dressed in lightweight spring dress. We watched for a while and one of the trainers came up to me and said "aren't you embarassed about putting a dress on a dog?" I was surprised but answered " well are you embarassed about putting a dress on yourself?" She mumbled something back. Anyway after we left, I thought of some better comeback lines. But really why are people so judgemental and what would be your comeback line or would you just ignore the person?

Had a great time anyway.

Amazing how people think they can just open their fat mouths and say anything they want these days..

I think that was a good answer, you confused her..haha

mommadog1 · 05-07-2010, 04:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Carol607

Just got back from a local park where they are doing a dog agility event. Jamie was dressed in lightweight spring dress. We watched for a while and one of the trainers came up to me and said "aren't you embarassed about putting a dress on a dog?" I was surprised but answered " well are you embarassed about putting a dress on yourself?" She mumbled something back. Anyway after we left, I thought of some better comeback lines. But really why are people so judgemental and what would be your comeback line or would you just ignore the person?

Had a great time anyway.

A good comeback .."Well she picked it out.." hehe ok it sounds funnier in MY head

mommadog1 · 05-07-2010, 04:33 PM

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Originally Posted by ArmaniMan

I dont know why people constantly feel the need to put down other people... I guess to make them feel better...

That's it exactly. Bullies need to bully others to make themselves feel better..very sad..

mommadog1 · 05-07-2010, 04:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

It is disgusting how some people are so ignorant and rude! I believe some people are just jealous of these little dogs beauty and the attention they get.

I bet she looked so cute in her dress.

I agree, I was just thinking the same thing.. Jealousy for sure!!

05-07-2010, 02:17 PM	#19
ArmaniMan I ♥ Armani & Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 3,895	Well I just posted photos of my kids in their new outfits from Ashlee (FairyTails Fashions) on facebook and one of my "friends" replied "LOL, this is a bit much, even for you"... so if anyone has any nice responses I am taking suggestions __________________ Armani & Chloe

05-07-2010, 02:41 PM	#21
ArmaniMan I ♥ Armani & Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Upstate NY Posts: 3,895	they are posted in the YT Seller Feedback and Reviews __________________ Armani & Chloe

05-07-2010, 02:49 PM	#23
spiritwings1202 Pixie and Daisy Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: CT USA Posts: 2,680	Some people are so opinionated!! I had someone look at Pixie once and say ridiculous!! I just laughed and said No she is cute!! __________________ Proud Mom of Daisy and Pixie

05-07-2010, 03:31 PM	#25
DaniMarie Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Boston, MA Posts: 138	Honestly, and no one hate me for saying this.....but I understand the general attitude of dresses looking "silly" on dogs. Most people think they do. I put sweaters and scarfs on my Poppy and I get comments from ALL of my friends like "Poor dog...." as if I'm torturing her, and I kindly let them know that she does not produce and under-coat and therefore gets cold and needs a sweater, just like we do when it gets cold. I would NEVER tell someone their dog looks silly in anything, that's ridiculous. I take it from my friends because, well...they're my friends and I take it as just normal teasing...but it does bother me a little when it is something like a sweater in December when I know that if I were to not put a sweater on her, she would be in danger of freezing. I don't get angry about it, I just brush it off, at least I know my baby is warm. The dress thing.....well, personally I would feel a little silly putting a dress on a dog...but that's me. I think other dogs look absolutely ADORABLE in dresses, it's just not my cup of tea. Just brush it off...they don't live in your house or live with your dog, they are a meaningless person that passes by in your day. Your is the important one! __________________ Mommy to Poppy & her kitty siblings: Sophie, Lily and Cubbie

05-07-2010, 12:51 PM	#16
Rhetts_mama Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,959 Blog Entries: 1	My evil twin would want to say something like..."Would you like Jaime to give you some fashion tips?" On a more serious note, who the heck CARES whether a dog is wearing a dress or a bow in their hair?! Even before I had small dogs, I would have never said anything like this to anyone any more than I would tell them they need to learn how to dress their kid!

05-07-2010, 02:00 PM	#17
Tinx Currently Suspended! Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: South Africa Posts: 63	I can't believe how malicious some people can be! I always say if you have nothing good to say don't say anything at all. Sometimes I think it's best not to say Anything. It's just not worth getting yourself upset.

05-07-2010, 02:45 PM	#22
Rhetts_mama Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 5,959 Blog Entries: 1	OMG! Those are sooo cute. I definitely need a little girl to doll up.

05-07-2010, 03:12 PM	#24
Ringo1 Ringo (1) and Lucy too! Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: On the Edge of Glory Posts: 3,447	Gosh. Just reading these posts is making me mad. Why do people care if your dog has on a cute t shirt or something?? I was never about dressing my dogs (before I got Lucy); but, even then, would NEVER have said anything to someone who did.