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Misti1 · 02-01-2010, 02:45 PM

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Originally Posted by Vwitscher

Wheww, GIRL! You got it goin' on! You're right he'll be missin' it but you go on. The right one's out there.

awwwwww thanks

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 04:27 AM

Ok God presented me the perfect way to handle this...I also make wedding cakes and one of my brides gave me this link to her website (brides do that now, they have a whole website about the wedding now), so I saw the story of her and her groom, and sent Mr. Mr. the following email

Dear R--,

This is the love story from the wedding site of a couple whose cake I will be making in June. You stated the other night that I will have trouble finding a man because of my two little dogs. Seems this brother is taking on a lot more than that.

M_______

Highly Favored!-The Bride's story

I am from Memphis, TN. I currently reside in Corpus Christi, TX because of my job. I am a Yeoman "Executive Administrative Assistant" for the US Navy. I am the oldest of three children, and my two brothers and I are very close. I have four children (three daughters and a son) ages 16, 9, 7, and 6. In my free time I enjoy singing, dancing, giving back to the community and decorating. Lately, I've been consumed with wedding planning. I have always served as a coordinator for other people, but it is totally different when it is your own wedding and you are trying to plan the perfect day! Even if everything goes wrong, the only thing I really care about is that Robert is going to be there, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. Mrs. Robert ----- , II has such a profound ring to it!
I love you Robert! I pray that God Bless our union!

Sooooooooooooo he called me and said that he hoped he did not offend me by his statement, and he didn't mean it "that way", basically, apologized, and then we made plans as to when we will work out again. I'll keep you posted.

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 04:31 AM

But all of this begs to ask the question.....can a non- dog, or non-yorkie (you know that kind who can't stand "little dogs", who needs a "man's dog"), make it in this world.

I have been smiling for years over stories you guys post about SO's who say NO DOGS, NO MORE Yorkies, etc, who fall in love later.

red98vett · 02-02-2010, 04:40 AM

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Originally Posted by Misti1

Not really in the sense you would think of "hot"

He's tall
dark
ok looking
in my age range
Well employed
devoted to chruch
volunteer with meals on wheel EVERY first Saturday of the month
intelligent
articulate
used to send me flowers often
likes to travel
collects windchimes and Buffalo soldier memorbilia
financially sound
can fix anything eletrical around the house
and some other stuff I can't put on a yorkie board

sounds pretty smokin to me ! I stopped a long time ago being obsessed with how men look - it's what's inside that counts....course tall and dark isn't anything to sneeze at

he sounds like he's a good person girl - I hope you guys do work things out...just take it one day at a time - you'll know in your heart if things are for real or not

ps.....We have a Buffalo soldier memorial going on - I saw on the news they even recreated some of them by their bones - and all I can say is it's about time they got the recognition they deserve !

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 05:15 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

sounds pretty smokin to me ! I stopped a long time ago being obsessed with how men look - it's what's inside that counts....course tall and dark isn't anything to sneeze at

he sounds like he's a good person girl - I hope you guys do work things out...just take it one day at a time - you'll know in your heart if things are for real or not

ps.....We have a Buffalo soldier memorial going on - I saw on the news they even recreated some of them by their bones - and all I can say is it's about time they got the recognition they deserve !

Thanks Red.
The reason I mentioned his collection is I think that it takes some class and cultural awareness, or a value of things to collect something. It shows that the people who do that search for asethetic beauty,.

I hope we can work it out too.

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 05:19 AM

Oh yeah,

He mentioned that the basis of his original statement was whether or not the girls would resent someone else in my life and do the jealousy thing. I told him that the girls have shown that the LOVE men. Prefer them to me as a matter of fact.

I also said that my original yorkie always cut up when I got too close to her :daddy:, We used to kiss just to watch her cut up sideways.

The girls have been around me and another person, but have not shown that side yet.

He mentioned he dated another lady whose little dog growled whenever he got close to her.

I guess for him it was just something he said in conversation, but for me, with this being our "second time around", I'm analuzing everything very closely.

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 06:25 AM

That's analyzing

Cerise · 02-02-2010, 07:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Misti1

Whew Guys, I just got home from work and read this thread... seems like the overwhelming idea is I should leave him alone. I want to thank all of you for the love...

Here is what he is missing out on.

That is a FABULOUS picture! Girl you and Maya look GREAT!

His comment was stupid and insulting!

celstu1 · 02-02-2010, 08:17 AM

Ya know what? I got a man.... plenty of men... owning 2 little dogs... he is just a guy who cares much for animals. My boyfriend thought he'd never date a girl with dogs. He takes care of and adores my boys sooo much it amuses me!

It warms my heart too! He's a keeper!

Cerise · 02-02-2010, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by Misti1

Not really in the sense you would think of "hot"

He's tall
dark
ok looking
in my age range
Well employed
devoted to chruch
volunteer with meals on wheel EVERY first Saturday of the month
intelligent
articulate
used to send me flowers often
likes to travel
collects windchimes and Buffalo soldier memorbilia
financially sound
can fix anything eletrical around the house
and some other stuff I can't put on a yorkie board

LOL! Sounds like a nice man.

But... I think he's insecure when it comes to the love you have for your furbabies. In other words...he's JEALOUS! There are men like this and unless you can see him falling in love with your furkids, I would say just be friends and not try to take it to another level. The reason is if he does not adore your furbabies, living with them eventually will drive him to resentment and cause issues in your relationship. Yes, you would fall out over two little beautiful Yorkies. You and your babies deserve better comments and treatment.

chattiesmom · 02-02-2010, 08:51 AM

Eligible men need to pass the "Nap Test". Need I say more

There is a poem that I received (from someone, somewhere long long ago). I have had the same little piece of paper away in my billfold for over 40 years.....

I cannot give what you ask
But if you will take what I can offer
We can find a way to share

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 09:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

That is a FABULOUS picture! Girl you and Maya look GREAT!

His comment was stupid and insulting!

Thanks for the compliment, I called his hand on the comment.

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 09:50 AM

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Originally Posted by celstu1

ya know what? I got a man.... Plenty of men... Owning 2 little dogs... He is just a guy who cares much for animals. My boyfriend thought he'd never date a girl with dogs. He takes care of and adores my boys sooo much it amuses me!

it warms my heart too! He's a keeper!

i love it

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 09:52 AM

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Originally Posted by Cerise

LOL! Sounds like a nice man.

But... I think he's insecure when it comes to the love you have for your furbabies. In other words...he's JEALOUS! There are men like this and unless you can see him falling in love with your furkids, I would say just be friends and not try to take it to another level. The reason is if he does not adore your furbabies, living with them eventually will drive him to resentment and cause issues in your relationship. Yes, you would fall out over two little beautiful Yorkies. You and your babies deserve better comments and treatment.

Well the way I look at it. He has a lovely home and I have a lovely home, and we each should maintain our own spaces. When he get s tired of us, he can GO HOME lol.

Misti1 · 02-02-2010, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by chattiesmom

Attachment 306851Eligible men need to pass the "Nap Test". Need I say more

There is a poem that I received (from someone, somewhere long long ago). I have had the same little piece of paper away in my billfold for over 40 years.....

I cannot give what you ask
But if you will take what I can offer
We can find a way to share

If that is NOT the cutest darn thing I ever saw!

02-02-2010, 04:27 AM	#77
Misti1 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 3,051	Ok God presented me the perfect way to handle this...I also make wedding cakes and one of my brides gave me this link to her website (brides do that now, they have a whole website about the wedding now), so I saw the story of her and her groom, and sent Mr. Mr. the following email Dear R--, This is the love story from the wedding site of a couple whose cake I will be making in June. You stated the other night that I will have trouble finding a man because of my two little dogs. Seems this brother is taking on a lot more than that. M_______ Highly Favored!-The Bride's story I am from Memphis, TN. I currently reside in Corpus Christi, TX because of my job. I am a Yeoman "Executive Administrative Assistant" for the US Navy. I am the oldest of three children, and my two brothers and I are very close. I have four children (three daughters and a son) ages 16, 9, 7, and 6. In my free time I enjoy singing, dancing, giving back to the community and decorating. Lately, I've been consumed with wedding planning. I have always served as a coordinator for other people, but it is totally different when it is your own wedding and you are trying to plan the perfect day! Even if everything goes wrong, the only thing I really care about is that Robert is going to be there, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. Mrs. Robert ----- , II has such a profound ring to it! I love you Robert! I pray that God Bless our union! Sooooooooooooo he called me and said that he hoped he did not offend me by his statement, and he didn't mean it "that way", basically, apologized, and then we made plans as to when we will work out again. I'll keep you posted. __________________ Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club

02-02-2010, 04:31 AM	#78
Misti1 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 3,051	But all of this begs to ask the question.....can a non- dog, or non-yorkie (you know that kind who can't stand "little dogs", who needs a "man's dog"), make it in this world. I have been smiling for years over stories you guys post about SO's who say NO DOGS, NO MORE Yorkies, etc, who fall in love later. __________________ Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club

02-02-2010, 05:19 AM	#81
Misti1 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 3,051	Oh yeah, He mentioned that the basis of his original statement was whether or not the girls would resent someone else in my life and do the jealousy thing. I told him that the girls have shown that the LOVE men. Prefer them to me as a matter of fact. I also said that my original yorkie always cut up when I got too close to her :daddy:, We used to kiss just to watch her cut up sideways. The girls have been around me and another person, but have not shown that side yet. He mentioned he dated another lady whose little dog growled whenever he got close to her. I guess for him it was just something he said in conversation, but for me, with this being our "second time around", I'm analuzing everything very closely. __________________ Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club

02-02-2010, 06:25 AM	#82
Misti1 Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Memphis, TN Posts: 3,051	That's analyzing __________________ Member of the Spoiled Rotten Club

02-02-2010, 08:17 AM	#84
celstu1 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: New Hampshire Posts: 10,534	Ya know what? I got a man.... plenty of men... owning 2 little dogs... he is just a guy who cares much for animals. My boyfriend thought he'd never date a girl with dogs. He takes care of and adores my boys sooo much it amuses me! It warms my heart too! He's a keeper! __________________ “Petting, scratching, and cuddling a dog could be as soothing to the mind and heart as deep meditation and almost as good for the soul as prayer.” ― Dean Koontz

02-02-2010, 08:51 AM	#86
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Eligible men need to pass the "Nap Test". Need I say more There is a poem that I received (from someone, somewhere long long ago). I have had the same little piece of paper away in my billfold for over 40 years..... I cannot give what you ask But if you will take what I can offer We can find a way to share __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com