Ok God presented me the perfect way to handle this...I also make wedding cakes and one of my brides gave me this link to her website (brides do that now, they have a whole website about the wedding now), so I saw the story of her and her groom, and sent Mr. Mr. the following email
Dear R--,
This is the love story from the wedding site of a couple whose cake I will be making in June. You stated the other night that I will have trouble finding a man because of my two little dogs. Seems this brother is taking on a lot more than that.
M_______
Highly Favored!-The Bride's story
I am from Memphis, TN. I currently reside in Corpus Christi, TX because of my job. I am a Yeoman "Executive Administrative Assistant" for the US Navy. I am the oldest of three children, and my two brothers and I are very close. I have four children (three daughters and a son) ages 16, 9, 7, and 6. In my free time I enjoy singing, dancing, giving back to the community and decorating. Lately, I've been consumed with wedding planning. I have always served as a coordinator for other people, but it is totally different when it is your own wedding and you are trying to plan the perfect day! Even if everything goes wrong, the only thing I really care about is that Robert is going to be there, and I can't wait to spend the rest of my life with him. Mrs. Robert ----- , II has such a profound ring to it!
I love you Robert! I pray that God Bless our union!
Sooooooooooooo he called me and said that he hoped he did not offend me by his statement, and he didn't mean it "that way", basically, apologized, and then we made plans as to when we will work out again. I'll keep you posted.
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