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Princes mom · 12-10-2009, 09:17 PM

I have a gate that crosses our stairwell, so no one goes upstaires. When we have guests with children, I always keep an eye on them. Some parents can be very careless when it comes to their own children.

HendrixandLucy · 12-10-2009, 10:57 PM

I would have done the same thing.

One of my biggest pet peeves in the world is parents who do not discipline their children. I do not have kids yet, but I used to be a full time live in nanny for some very un-disciplined kids and I think it is awful! UGHHHH!!!! What a rude woman to not repremand her child.... and how awful that the child would even behave that way. YUCK YUCK YUCK!!! What a little devil--- you are right!

I am glad your baby is ok! I hope he bites that little brat next time he comes around

HendrixandLucy · 12-10-2009, 11:00 PM

My above post was totally inappropriate... haha..... but still...... our furbabies are just as important as children

Lilyshuman · 12-10-2009, 11:08 PM

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Originally Posted by Princes mom

I have a gate that crosses our stairwell, so no one goes upstaires. When we have guests with children, I always keep an eye on them. Some parents can be very careless when it comes to their own children.

Yup me too!

shiver · 12-11-2009, 02:44 AM

the child is around dogs because his mom has two yorkies.in the post i wrote i said that his mom and i go on play dates with our yorkies.so yes he should know better!!!!

danyellm · 12-11-2009, 03:52 AM

I still don't agree with your handling of the boy or people who physically discipline other peoples children,perhaps you should have dragged the mother out of your home by her ear for not watching her child

Cookie2 · 12-11-2009, 06:33 AM

I went through this many times. I would always put my dogs in my room or my bathroom that is very big. These two kids that would visit with their parents always wanted to get the dogs. I would say NO and explain that they were too small. These kids were wild little things and the mom was no help! I used to have to LOCK the bathroom with a key and I would always catch them trying to jiggle the doorknob. One day I had my smallest yorkie in a popup tent, it was clipped closed with two safety pins on the zipper. The kid was so frustrated that he flipped the tent over and over.

But I NEVER hit or touched those kids. But I slowly stopped those visits for good. I understand how you feel but grabbing another child by the ear is something that most people will not do because it is not their child and I feel the same way.As bad as they were I just kept them seperated and did not enjoy the visit because the whole time I was watching out for my yorkie.

Gen

Bianca · 12-11-2009, 07:24 AM

You should have got the dog then informed the mom. You never put your hands on a child especially if they aren't yours. He is five years old and you say he should have known better? I have raised 3 sons and 5 year olds don't have the full understanding of their consequences yet. He should have for sure been punished and corrected , but not by you. If anyone put their hands on my children they would have a big problem , big problem. I ,as a mother, would have my eyes on my child the whole time and for sure would have made him/her apologize and I would be so very apologetic, but you would have had a problem once you put your hands on my son. I don't mean to be rude, but it's just how I feel.

misslissa · 12-11-2009, 09:52 AM

i have a ten year old brother a 7 year old nephew a 4 year old cousin and a 1 year old god son (and many others all the way up to 16) and all of them know how to handle a dog even a small dog when my cousin was about 3 her grandma got a chi and the first thing she did was get it out of the cage but then she held it like a baby and was very gentle with it and this dog was mean a five year old with a dog at home should have acted better and i would have spanked him on his bottem weather the mom would forgive me or not

BamaFan121s · 12-11-2009, 11:04 AM

I read through again and have to change my opinion now. The mother should have disciplined the kid, but I don't feel like you should have taken it upon yourself to 'grab' him, regardless. If someone had done that to my child, I would likely render them physically incapable of even dialing a phone.

livingdustmops · 12-11-2009, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

I read through again and have to change my opinion now. The mother should have disciplined the kid, but I don't feel like you should have taken it upon yourself to 'grab' him, regardless. If someone had done that to my child, I would likely render them physically incapable of even dialing a phone.

HaHa..you crack me up...so how did you raise such a sweet, well behaved, pretty young lady (who I would steal in a New York second) ... to come live with me and Bella. I bet I would never have to raise my voice with her...did you start when she was in the womb? Seriously you have to wonder why this little boy did this when he has been around this dog before...but I have to agree ... in todays environment you don't touch other people's kids...but when I was a kid everyone was allowed to hit me on the fanny or to report me to my parents..my parents always took their side...meanies...

BamaFan121s · 12-11-2009, 11:44 AM

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Originally Posted by livingdustmops

HaHa..you crack me up...so how did you raise such a sweet, well behaved, pretty young lady (who I would steal in a New York second) ... to come live with me and Bella. I bet I would never have to raise my voice with her...did you start when she was in the womb?

I have yet to figure out why how I mananged it.

I guess I did something right somewhere.

joeys mom · 12-11-2009, 11:46 AM

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Originally Posted by dennabelle

I can say I agree with what you done, because the same happened at my wedding on Dec. 5. We were married in our house had dogs in crate in bedroom. Next thing I know in the middle of our vows the dogs came running out. Now my door was shut so these kids went in there and let them out. Needless to say their parents don't watch them that good. Luckily my mom was there and grabbed them up and held them until we were finished. Come to find out they killed their toy poodle by squeezin him and parents want to get another dog

....Thank goodness grandma was there and saved my furbabies.

She thinks of them as grand-furbabies and loves them to pieces lol..

I perfer to reference my relationship to my daughters pomerian as my " GRANDDOGGER" when I was showing her wedding pictures I stated "would you like to see my granddogger" they of course half listening thought I said granddaughter, you should have seen their faces when they say my cute little Tiffany. It can bring a few laughts sometimes. I two am glad grandma was there at that time or your honeymoon might not have been. It could have been spent looking for your babies. Good outcome! Parents sometimes just don't think!!!!

livingdustmops · 12-11-2009, 11:54 AM

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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

I have yet to figure out why how I mananged it.

I guess I did something right somewhere.

Yes you did...

shamrocks · 12-11-2009, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by Bianca

You should have got the dog then informed the mom. You never put your hands on a child especially if they aren't yours. He is five years old and you say he should have known better? I have raised 3 sons and 5 year olds don't have the full understanding of their consequences yet. He should have for sure been punished and corrected , but not by you. If anyone put their hands on my children they would have a big problem , big problem. I ,as a mother, would have my eyes on my child the whole time and for sure would have made him/her apologize and I would be so very apologetic, but you would have had a problem once you put your hands on my son. I don't mean to be rude, but it's just how I feel.

That is how I feel as well.

12-10-2009, 09:17 PM	#16
Princes mom YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,566	I have a gate that crosses our stairwell, so no one goes upstaires. When we have guests with children, I always keep an eye on them. Some parents can be very careless when it comes to their own children. __________________ Prince, rest in peace. We miss you and love you so much.

12-11-2009, 03:52 AM	#21
danyellm Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: ny Posts: 761	I still don't agree with your handling of the boy or people who physically discipline other peoples children,perhaps you should have dragged the mother out of your home by her ear for not watching her child __________________ Danyell yipyapyorkies.com Getting a Yorkie is our only chance to choose a relative

12-11-2009, 09:52 AM	#24
misslissa YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: canton ohio us Posts: 1,574	i have a ten year old brother a 7 year old nephew a 4 year old cousin and a 1 year old god son (and many others all the way up to 16) and all of them know how to handle a dog even a small dog when my cousin was about 3 her grandma got a chi and the first thing she did was get it out of the cage but then she held it like a baby and was very gentle with it and this dog was mean a five year old with a dog at home should have acted better and i would have spanked him on his bottem weather the mom would forgive me or not __________________ Don't say I love you unless you mean it, but if you do say it a lot. People forget.

12-11-2009, 11:04 AM	#25
BamaFan121s Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Alabama Posts: 11,432	I read through again and have to change my opinion now. The mother should have disciplined the kid, but I don't feel like you should have taken it upon yourself to 'grab' him, regardless. If someone had done that to my child, I would likely render them physically incapable of even dialing a phone. Last edited by BamaFan121s; 12-11-2009 at 11:07 AM.

12-10-2009, 10:57 PM	#17
HendrixandLucy Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 234	I would have done the same thing. One of my biggest pet peeves in the world is parents who do not discipline their children. I do not have kids yet, but I used to be a full time live in nanny for some very un-disciplined kids and I think it is awful! UGHHHH!!!! What a rude woman to not repremand her child.... and how awful that the child would even behave that way. YUCK YUCK YUCK!!! What a little devil--- you are right! I am glad your baby is ok! I hope he bites that little brat next time he comes around

12-10-2009, 11:00 PM	#18
HendrixandLucy Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 234	My above post was totally inappropriate... haha..... but still...... our furbabies are just as important as children

12-11-2009, 02:44 AM	#20
shiver Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: bronx new york Posts: 97	the child is around dogs because his mom has two yorkies.in the post i wrote i said that his mom and i go on play dates with our yorkies.so yes he should know better!!!!

12-11-2009, 06:33 AM	#22
Cookie2 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: Florida Posts: 1,568	I went through this many times. I would always put my dogs in my room or my bathroom that is very big. These two kids that would visit with their parents always wanted to get the dogs. I would say NO and explain that they were too small. These kids were wild little things and the mom was no help! I used to have to LOCK the bathroom with a key and I would always catch them trying to jiggle the doorknob. One day I had my smallest yorkie in a popup tent, it was clipped closed with two safety pins on the zipper. The kid was so frustrated that he flipped the tent over and over. But I NEVER hit or touched those kids. But I slowly stopped those visits for good. I understand how you feel but grabbing another child by the ear is something that most people will not do because it is not their child and I feel the same way.As bad as they were I just kept them seperated and did not enjoy the visit because the whole time I was watching out for my yorkie. Gen

12-11-2009, 07:24 AM	#23
Bianca No Longer a Member Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: New York Posts: 761	You should have got the dog then informed the mom. You never put your hands on a child especially if they aren't yours. He is five years old and you say he should have known better? I have raised 3 sons and 5 year olds don't have the full understanding of their consequences yet. He should have for sure been punished and corrected , but not by you. If anyone put their hands on my children they would have a big problem , big problem. I ,as a mother, would have my eyes on my child the whole time and for sure would have made him/her apologize and I would be so very apologetic, but you would have had a problem once you put your hands on my son. I don't mean to be rude, but it's just how I feel.