What should I do if I'm not home for 9 hours while I work? - YorkieTalk.com Forums

Iloverosie · 02-17-2009, 07:49 PM

I work monday to friday and normally my boyfriend takes care of her in the daytime. Unfortunately, he is going away for a few months to work so I'll have to figure something out in the meantime. I think leaving her in her crate all day is depriving her of her playtime. Should I keep her in one room and put peepads down. Also, my boyfriend is worried since we've only had Rosie for a few weeks that being gone for 2 months will affect his relationship with Rosie. What are your opinions on this?

dangeruss · 02-17-2009, 08:56 PM

I would get a x-pen something like this...

http://www.amazon.com/Precision-Pet-Ultimate-Exerc...

put pads down on one side and food & water, toys and bed on the other.

If she's already spent quality time within those weeks with your boyfriend, she won't forget the bond after only a few months. His scent will remind her very quickly.

Cheers!

QuickSilver · 02-17-2009, 09:46 PM

I'd recommend getting a dog walker so she gets a little exercise and companionship during the day.

LuvmyYorkies2 · 02-17-2009, 09:55 PM

That is too long of a time for a puppy to be alone, especially in a crate. It is critical during the puppy stage when potty training as they need to be given the ability to use the bathroom quite frequently....especially if you want good results. Crating is a good method for training a puppy if it is done correctly...if it is not, crating can actually backfire. You don't want them to see the crate as "imprisonment".

If you are gone that long, I suggest gating her in the kitchen area or some are where you can lay some potty pads on one end and her bed, toys, a little food & water on the other.

Best of luck to you.

babybuddy · 02-18-2009, 05:22 AM

I work long hours too...usually 9-10 hours M-Th, and I usually keep my little guy in my master bath with a baby gate at the door. I keep pee pads on one side of the room, food, toys and bed at the other side. Try to be consistent with your routine in the morning, and eventually your baby will get used to you being away. My fiance' and I had a hard time being consistent with our routine since he works random hours (sometimes long, sometimes short, and sometimes he would have days at a time off), so our little guy has some seperation anxiety. He usually cries, and then barks a little when we are not in the room with him, and starts to pace and tries to jump over the baby gate. Hopefully you won't have this problem if you are consistent. Good luck!

Britster · 02-18-2009, 09:01 AM

Get an ex-pen or something a little bigger than a crate! And it may sound ridiculous, but have you thought about doggie daycare? Maybe not 5 days a week but 2 or 3 days. The place near me is $10 a day.

JoeyP · 02-18-2009, 12:29 PM

I am gone that long sometimes
and I do agree that IS too long to keep a puppy crated
That will only leave them open to peeing and pooping in the crate
and will lead to anxiety behaviors

They will need to be penned off somewhere more open

cj125 · 02-18-2009, 02:00 PM

I'm a little upset that you want to leave a 9 1/2 week old puppy home alone for 9 hours a day? (Not including nighttime)

I'm not trying to be mean but.... Dogs are pack animals - they are not meant to be alone. They NEED interaction with other animals or people.

Your puppy is very young. She should have been with her Mom and littermates until she was 12 weeks old. She would have learned alot about biting, barking, potty training, and socialization if she had been with them longer. (all things you have been asking about)

Are you walking her after you get home? Playing with her? She needs to release some of that energy that she's built up after sleeping and being alone all day. Her play time should be spaced out - not all at once or she can get run down.

If you have to leave her alone please use a large xpen. Put her pee pads, bed, water bottle, small food dish, toys and something that smells like you in there. I'd leave the radio or tv on.

I'm sorry - I really don't mean to sound so harsh. I just don't understand leaving these little ones alone so much. Hubby and I rush home so that ours aren't alone too long. We even take turns on who does the errands.

You could get a second one so that she has a buddy

codence · 02-18-2009, 02:29 PM

My boyfriend and I are gone for work 13 hours a day, 4 days a week. When considering a dog we decided on two or none due to our schedules. We got two yorkies, and...they've stayed at my parents EVERY work day so far

My version of doggy day-care. And my mom loves to take care of her furry grandkids! Main thing is your puppy means a lot to you, so take care to give it the best daily life you're able to provide. I personally have have never left my two longer than 5 maybe 6 hours tops. And I agree with the others, no crate.

Jewly · 02-19-2009, 01:39 PM

I have not gotten my Yorkie pup yet she will not come home till March 6th but this is what I plan. I did it before with my Dachshund and it worked great. I to am gone 9 hours a day and hate crates. I have converted a big closet that is in our bathroom into her room. Has a bed, water, food, toys in it and a Litter Box I used a underbed rubbermaid storage container with dog litter. I put a baby gate up to keep her in the room. She uses the litter box weather I am home or not now just automatically goes to it. Took her a few NO's and correction with accidents. The key is to be consistant and only take them to the litter box not out side to go potty till they have the litter box thing figured out never reward them for goign outside they will just do that naturally when they are out there. I'm a true beliver in the litter box because Puppies tend to tear up the puppy pads and in the past it has taught some of mine to go on rugs. Just a suggestion. Hope it helps. And they will cry and cry and howl for a while when left but just like a baby at day care as soon as you are out of sight and mind they will stop and be content.

masaemasae · 02-19-2009, 03:05 PM

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Originally Posted by Iloverosie

I work monday to friday and normally my boyfriend takes care of her in the daytime. Unfortunately, he is going away for a few months to work so I'll have to figure something out in the meantime. I think leaving her in her crate all day is depriving her of her playtime. Should I keep her in one room and put peepads down. Also, my boyfriend is worried since we've only had Rosie for a few weeks that being gone for 2 months will affect his relationship with Rosie. What are your opinions on this?

I understand what you are going through. My husband and I have a 3 month old puppy. Do you work far?

My puppy stays in an area that is puppy-proofed with a baby gate (kitchen to be exact). She has her pee pee pad in one corner (away from her bed and play area). She also sleeps there at night so she is used to the area as her home (I have learned early when my parents had a chihuahua that it's not good to sleep with your puppy. Higher chance of having an separation axiety). She never goes on the carpet so she has mastered the potty training as well.

If you can, I would come back during lunch or have a family member stop by. We try not to leave her for more than 5-6 hours. We spread her toys all over her area when we are gone. And when we are home, she plays with us and the toys are put away (that way when she sees the toy, she's busy with it for awhile). I don't really leave my puppy with a bone when I'm gone since I don't want her to chew unsupervised, puppies can accidentally choke on bones. My husband and I also walk her in the morning before leaving. This is our little schedule:

7AM-feed her (my husband and I get ready for work)
7:30AM-walk her around 2 blocks (she poops)
8AM-work
12PM-lunch (one of us or both come back)
6PM-we return and feed her, walk her.

Around 9-10PM we usually walk her again. If you leave your puppy home and she sleeps while you are gone, by the time you get home, the puppy is ready to play. So we walk her again. Our little one gets walks 2-3 times a day. And we brush her usually before going to bed.

It seems like a lot of work but trust me, if you get the routine down you will be fine. If you can't come back for lunch, definitely try to have someone come and check up on your puppy. I would evertually like to send my puppy to a day care but she's not done with all her shots and she needs to get spayed before going there. I work so I understand. When I'm at work, I'm on this forum trying to kill time and thinking about my baby.

Good luck

masaemasae · 02-19-2009, 03:09 PM

One more thing... when you see your puppy after a long period of time, don't be super excited. Our trainer has advised us to remain calm and normal so there isn't a significant difference when we return. But it's hard... when my husband and I get back home during lunch or after work, we are SOOOO excited to see her!!

02-17-2009, 07:49 PM	#1
Iloverosie Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: PEI, Canada Posts: 13	What should I do if I'm not home for 9 hours while I work? I work monday to friday and normally my boyfriend takes care of her in the daytime. Unfortunately, he is going away for a few months to work so I'll have to figure something out in the meantime. I think leaving her in her crate all day is depriving her of her playtime. Should I keep her in one room and put peepads down. Also, my boyfriend is worried since we've only had Rosie for a few weeks that being gone for 2 months will affect his relationship with Rosie. What are your opinions on this?

02-17-2009, 08:56 PM	#2
dangeruss YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Michigan Posts: 8	I would get a x-pen something like this... http://www.amazon.com/Precision-Pet-Ultimate-Exerc... put pads down on one side and food & water, toys and bed on the other. If she's already spent quality time within those weeks with your boyfriend, she won't forget the bond after only a few months. His scent will remind her very quickly. Cheers! Last edited by dangeruss; 02-17-2009 at 09:00 PM. Reason: forgot link

02-17-2009, 09:46 PM	#3
QuickSilver Thor's Human Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: San Francisco, CA Posts: 5,929 Blog Entries: 31	I'd recommend getting a dog walker so she gets a little exercise and companionship during the day. __________________ If you love something, set it free. Unless it's an angry tiger.

02-17-2009, 09:55 PM	#4
LuvmyYorkies2 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southern Maryland Posts: 1,739	That is too long of a time for a puppy to be alone, especially in a crate. It is critical during the puppy stage when potty training as they need to be given the ability to use the bathroom quite frequently....especially if you want good results. Crating is a good method for training a puppy if it is done correctly...if it is not, crating can actually backfire. You don't want them to see the crate as "imprisonment". If you are gone that long, I suggest gating her in the kitchen area or some are where you can lay some potty pads on one end and her bed, toys, a little food & water on the other. Best of luck to you. __________________ Yolanda I Love My Girls Diva & Foxxy & Lexi

02-18-2009, 09:01 AM	#6
Britster Action Jackson ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 17,814	Get an ex-pen or something a little bigger than a crate! And it may sound ridiculous, but have you thought about doggie daycare? Maybe not 5 days a week but 2 or 3 days. The place near me is $10 a day. __________________ ~ Brit & Lights! Camera! Jackson! CGC ETD TKP ~ Follow Jackson on Instagram: https://instagram.com/jacksontheterrier

02-18-2009, 05:22 AM	#5
babybuddy Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Trevose, PA, USA Posts: 103	I work long hours too...usually 9-10 hours M-Th, and I usually keep my little guy in my master bath with a baby gate at the door. I keep pee pads on one side of the room, food, toys and bed at the other side. Try to be consistent with your routine in the morning, and eventually your baby will get used to you being away. My fiance' and I had a hard time being consistent with our routine since he works random hours (sometimes long, sometimes short, and sometimes he would have days at a time off), so our little guy has some seperation anxiety. He usually cries, and then barks a little when we are not in the room with him, and starts to pace and tries to jump over the baby gate. Hopefully you won't have this problem if you are consistent. Good luck!

02-18-2009, 12:29 PM	#7
JoeyP YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Miami, FL,USA Posts: 1,005	I am gone that long sometimes and I do agree that IS too long to keep a puppy crated That will only leave them open to peeing and pooping in the crate and will lead to anxiety behaviors They will need to be penned off somewhere more open __________________ Mike and Zach's Dadd

02-18-2009, 02:00 PM	#8
cj125 Mia, Max and Moe's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Las Vegas, NV Posts: 4,403	I'm a little upset that you want to leave a 9 1/2 week old puppy home alone for 9 hours a day? (Not including nighttime) I'm not trying to be mean but.... Dogs are pack animals - they are not meant to be alone. They NEED interaction with other animals or people. Your puppy is very young. She should have been with her Mom and littermates until she was 12 weeks old. She would have learned alot about biting, barking, potty training, and socialization if she had been with them longer. (all things you have been asking about) Are you walking her after you get home? Playing with her? She needs to release some of that energy that she's built up after sleeping and being alone all day. Her play time should be spaced out - not all at once or she can get run down. If you have to leave her alone please use a large xpen. Put her pee pads, bed, water bottle, small food dish, toys and something that smells like you in there. I'd leave the radio or tv on. I'm sorry - I really don't mean to sound so harsh. I just don't understand leaving these little ones alone so much. Hubby and I rush home so that ours aren't alone too long. We even take turns on who does the errands. You could get a second one so that she has a buddy __________________ *Connie* Mia Max Moe

02-18-2009, 02:29 PM	#9
codence Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Hesperia, California, USA Posts: 55	My boyfriend and I are gone for work 13 hours a day, 4 days a week. When considering a dog we decided on two or none due to our schedules. We got two yorkies, and...they've stayed at my parents EVERY work day so far My version of doggy day-care. And my mom loves to take care of her furry grandkids! Main thing is your puppy means a lot to you, so take care to give it the best daily life you're able to provide. I personally have have never left my two longer than 5 maybe 6 hours tops. And I agree with the others, no crate. __________________ Cody "Dogs are not our whole life, but they make our lives whole."

02-19-2009, 01:39 PM	#10
Jewly Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Johnson City, TX. USA Posts: 19	I have not gotten my Yorkie pup yet she will not come home till March 6th but this is what I plan. I did it before with my Dachshund and it worked great. I to am gone 9 hours a day and hate crates. I have converted a big closet that is in our bathroom into her room. Has a bed, water, food, toys in it and a Litter Box I used a underbed rubbermaid storage container with dog litter. I put a baby gate up to keep her in the room. She uses the litter box weather I am home or not now just automatically goes to it. Took her a few NO's and correction with accidents. The key is to be consistant and only take them to the litter box not out side to go potty till they have the litter box thing figured out never reward them for goign outside they will just do that naturally when they are out there. I'm a true beliver in the litter box because Puppies tend to tear up the puppy pads and in the past it has taught some of mine to go on rugs. Just a suggestion. Hope it helps. And they will cry and cry and howl for a while when left but just like a baby at day care as soon as you are out of sight and mind they will stop and be content.

02-19-2009, 03:09 PM	#12
masaemasae Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: Los Angeles, California Posts: 45 Blog Entries: 1	One more thing... when you see your puppy after a long period of time, don't be super excited. Our trainer has advised us to remain calm and normal so there isn't a significant difference when we return. But it's hard... when my husband and I get back home during lunch or after work, we are SOOOO excited to see her!!