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Cares4Dogs · 01-20-2010, 06:02 AM

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Originally Posted by bjh

It is quite possible this was an accident. Just because a person, who is new and interested in learning about breeding, asks a question, that does not necessarily mean they intend to do what they asked about. I am sure she has been on YT long enough to know that you don't intentionally breed a female on her first heat and one with health issues. It takes a lot of guts to come on YT and admit you made a mistake and ask for advise. I just pray that she is able to get help for her silky.

Your right bjh. I think it frustrates me when someone cant afford the basic expenses of raising a dog (even without health issues) and cant take necessary precautions. If this person winds up with an expectant mom, how are they going to afford the whelping supplies and puppy raising for 12 weeks? The mother and litter of pups are going to suffer for it.

I'm done with finger pointing. I understand mistakes can happen to anyone and I hope the OP can take the advice given and call around to see where they can find a place to spay the dogs. If the OP cant do it, then I'd hope they'd come back here to YT and get some advice on what to do next.

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 09:46 AM

ok look i was gonna get her spayed so dont jump on my butt but ive been broke and my bills come before my dog. no i didnt plan this thanks for the help

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 09:48 AM

its me hes refering to. Ive done some calling around looking at vets and stuff. when he supposedly mated with her she wasnt nshowing signs of bein in heat she still isnt but he wont leave her alone so ive got them separated! this wasnt supposed to happen on any level. yes back in june i was talking about it but after looking at my exspences theres no way i could afford it. I cant even afford to get her fixed

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 09:54 AM

im getting her fixed as soon as i can figure out if i can do it and have somebody pick her up the next morning

smartpuppiepets · 01-21-2010, 11:49 AM

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Originally Posted by Silkygirl21

im getting her fixed as soon as i can figure out if i can do it and have somebody pick her up the next morning

You always have a last resource: give her away to either a non-kill shelter or surrender her to rescue! They will get her fixed and they will take care of finding a suitable home for her. Also in some vet clinics who work with shelters they may take her in and spay her to give her back to the shelter or organization they are associated with !
Hard decisions , but life is hard anyways !

BamaFan121s · 01-21-2010, 01:33 PM

Nice...

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 01:40 PM

yea that makes me feel good let me tell ya! smartpupipes thats like me telling you to put your kids in a foster home because you cant take care of them or run into financial problems!

AHicks99 · 01-21-2010, 02:01 PM

Silkygirl we all understand whats its like to love our dogs. You've mentioned a few times you cant afford it. And by all means if you cant afford to feed, clothe and provide the necessities for your dogs/kids then you should probably find them a home that can. Noone is telling or forcing you to do anything you asked for advise and thats what you are receiving. I understand times are tough. You knew you had these dogs, you could have kept better track of heats and seperated the dogs in advance to prevent an accident from happening.

As adults we must take responsibilty for our pets. By that provide them with what they need to survive and strive in life. And not expect or hope they can provide you with supplemental income.

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 02:12 PM

yea and i havent seen any freken signs she was even in heat considernig shes only ten months and this is her first heat cycle but after talking to a person who can help he only dried hump her so im fine. money problems happen but if they ha[en with kids you cant just put a child onlie and find a new home for them. and im not doing that to naula wether i struggle or not shes a dog not a child

BamaFan121s · 01-21-2010, 02:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Silkygirl21

money problems happen but if they ha[en with kids you cant just put a child onlie and find a new home for them. and im not doing that to naula wether i struggle or not shes a dog not a child

No, you're right...you can't just do that with kids. However, kids and dogs are two separate things altogether. You can't base what to do for one on what you would do for the other. If in regards to a human child it was a matter of life or death or serious medical complications, then the child should be surrendered without hesitation.

Again, IMO, financial hardships do not justify denying a dog the medical care that would be in their best interest.

Wylie's Mom · 01-21-2010, 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

Again, IMO, financial hardships do not justify denying a dog the medical care that would be in their best interest.

That is really the bottom line right there, Misty

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To the original poster, I know this is upsetting for you - it would be for any of us in a situation where we weren't sure if we could afford to provide health care.

Just please remember that people are taking time here to try and help you and your fur-kid...they really are.

BanditSocks2 · 01-21-2010, 03:28 PM

Have you tried applying for the pet credit card yet? It should be simple to get a $100 credit limit and then all problems would be solved for now.

Silkygirl21 · 01-21-2010, 08:35 PM

My vet wont take pet care card. Ive asked they dont accept them. And like everybody said they might be here to help me but some of those posts were pretty hurtfull. I was talking to an experienced breeder on here and she said that he might have dried humped her because i havent seen any signs of her beeing in heat or going into heat. She told me thats probabaly what happend but said like everybody else my best bet would be to get naula fixed WHICH I AM along with her dad as soon as I can get the money. I cant magically pull it out of the sky you know. I will always take care of my dogs to the best of my ability but i cant pamper them like alot of people can. Ive got three dogs. Two Silky terriers and a blue heeler. So its hard to spoil and pamper all of them. But I do give them love and attention and keep them updated on everything. But sometimes accidents happen and the only way to deal with it is by going head on with it. But if cant be fought then go to your next option. And as of right now my option is Spaying her and Neutering her dad. I thank all who have given me advice but who have also been nice to me about it! Being mean and sometimes harsh doesnt help alot of people. Like me being mean and harsh doesnt help. But being nice and kind does. Like I said Im completly new to this. So I dont know how to tell if a femal is in heat or not!

smartpuppiepets · 01-21-2010, 10:25 PM

Sorry about the third post in a row,

But i just need to clarify one thing on my answer before i sparkle what i do not want to...

Some people are in bad hardship, no doubt about it.
But there has been a lot of help lately and i was not referring to people who lost their homes and more after have exhausted their options.
I was referring to some people that ask for help but do not care to do their part ... and then complain of no options.
Also there are many facing losses beyond their control and that is so bad. I was not thinking of those when i posted my answer.

Anyways ....

This thread sparkled too much ...
XOXO

BamaFan121s · 01-22-2010, 05:11 AM

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Originally Posted by smartpuppiepets

Did you post this as an answer to my post or to the very impolite post by the original Op with words that are against YT rules?
Just wanted to be sure.

It was in response to the quote that was deleted. I can see how it looks confusing now, but it was NOT in response to you.

01-21-2010, 01:33 PM	#36
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01-21-2010, 10:25 PM	#44
smartpuppiepets YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: Beverly Posts: 1,042	Sorry about the third post in a row, But i just need to clarify one thing on my answer before i sparkle what i do not want to... Some people are in bad hardship, no doubt about it. But there has been a lot of help lately and i was not referring to people who lost their homes and more after have exhausted their options. I was referring to some people that ask for help but do not care to do their part ... and then complain of no options. Also there are many facing losses beyond their control and that is so bad. I was not thinking of those when i posted my answer. Anyways .... This thread sparkled too much ... XOXO __________________ "The reason a dog has many friends is because it wags it's tail instead of it's tong " [I]Smartpuppiepets@yahoo.com /I][

01-21-2010, 09:46 AM	#32
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	ok look i was gonna get her spayed so dont jump on my butt but ive been broke and my bills come before my dog. no i didnt plan this thanks for the help

01-21-2010, 09:48 AM	#33
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	its me hes refering to. Ive done some calling around looking at vets and stuff. when he supposedly mated with her she wasnt nshowing signs of bein in heat she still isnt but he wont leave her alone so ive got them separated! this wasnt supposed to happen on any level. yes back in june i was talking about it but after looking at my exspences theres no way i could afford it. I cant even afford to get her fixed

01-21-2010, 09:54 AM	#34
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	im getting her fixed as soon as i can figure out if i can do it and have somebody pick her up the next morning

01-21-2010, 01:40 PM	#37
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	yea that makes me feel good let me tell ya! smartpupipes thats like me telling you to put your kids in a foster home because you cant take care of them or run into financial problems!

01-21-2010, 02:01 PM	#38
AHicks99 Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Albuquerque, NM USA Posts: 79	Silkygirl we all understand whats its like to love our dogs. You've mentioned a few times you cant afford it. And by all means if you cant afford to feed, clothe and provide the necessities for your dogs/kids then you should probably find them a home that can. Noone is telling or forcing you to do anything you asked for advise and thats what you are receiving. I understand times are tough. You knew you had these dogs, you could have kept better track of heats and seperated the dogs in advance to prevent an accident from happening. As adults we must take responsibilty for our pets. By that provide them with what they need to survive and strive in life. And not expect or hope they can provide you with supplemental income.

01-21-2010, 02:12 PM	#39
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	yea and i havent seen any freken signs she was even in heat considernig shes only ten months and this is her first heat cycle but after talking to a person who can help he only dried hump her so im fine. money problems happen but if they ha[en with kids you cant just put a child onlie and find a new home for them. and im not doing that to naula wether i struggle or not shes a dog not a child

01-21-2010, 03:28 PM	#42
BanditSocks2 YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Crofton, MD, USA Posts: 1,522	Have you tried applying for the pet credit card yet? It should be simple to get a $100 credit limit and then all problems would be solved for now.

01-21-2010, 08:35 PM	#43
Silkygirl21 Yorkie Yakker Join Date: May 2009 Location: West Jordan, Utah, U.S.A Posts: 70 Blog Entries: 1	My vet wont take pet care card. Ive asked they dont accept them. And like everybody said they might be here to help me but some of those posts were pretty hurtfull. I was talking to an experienced breeder on here and she said that he might have dried humped her because i havent seen any signs of her beeing in heat or going into heat. She told me thats probabaly what happend but said like everybody else my best bet would be to get naula fixed WHICH I AM along with her dad as soon as I can get the money. I cant magically pull it out of the sky you know. I will always take care of my dogs to the best of my ability but i cant pamper them like alot of people can. Ive got three dogs. Two Silky terriers and a blue heeler. So its hard to spoil and pamper all of them. But I do give them love and attention and keep them updated on everything. But sometimes accidents happen and the only way to deal with it is by going head on with it. But if cant be fought then go to your next option. And as of right now my option is Spaying her and Neutering her dad. I thank all who have given me advice but who have also been nice to me about it! Being mean and sometimes harsh doesnt help alot of people. Like me being mean and harsh doesnt help. But being nice and kind does. Like I said Im completly new to this. So I dont know how to tell if a femal is in heat or not!