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Samuelsmommie · 10-16-2012, 04:59 PM

I am normally a very private person, but the news that I got today about my two year old son has rocked the foundation of my world and I could really use some support and prayers please.

My son doesn't eat food. He drinks about 7 to 8 bottles of pedia sure a day. He has never been a good eater even at birth. He was 5 1/2 weeks early. His doctors had been hoping that things would get better as he got older, but they haven't. He has OT that comes to our home weekly to help try to get him to eat.

Recently his pediatrician thought he wasn't doing as well as she had hoped and wanted to start running some tests. Let me say this when I say he doesn't eat food I mean just that. He will pocket food in his jaws or chew it up and then spit it out. Very little swallowing of any foods. If he asks for fries we run out and buy some, after he eats three (if that some days) he will tell you all done and won't eat any more. Sometimes he will go days without eating ANYTHING. So we have had a few close calls where they thought they would have to put in a PEG tube for feedings. But we have been able to hold his weight steady with pedia sure, so haven't had to go that route yet. But doctors have cautioned us that if he ever refuses pedia sure we will be in trouble. He got sick with a little cold about a month and a half ago and refused pedia sure for 3 days. It scared us beyond belief, because he doesnt have fat reserves of a "normal" child any illness can spell disaster for us. After that scare we all agreed we needed answers.

1st test ran was a swallow study... Results normal.

2nd test ran scope... He had to be put under sedation... Results top of his
small intestines full of acid... Put on Previcid 2x a day.

3rd test ran a week and a half after second MRI, which was this past Friday and again he had to be put under sedation...

Results of the MRI where given to us today while at the GI doctor who ordered the test.. He said the scan showed Samuel has a Chiari Malformation f the brain and that he was sending us to see a neurosurgeon and sending the results to our pediatrician also. He said they may have to operate on his brain that this may or may not be the answer to what is going on with him or that it could just be another piece of the puzzle.

They have also started him on a medication to increase his appetite. He's been on it for about a month and a half (since the pedia sure scare). It is making him eat a little more not much though, but it is causing him to stuff and pocket food in his cheeks more.

I am reading all I can on this because I've never heard of it before. We told our older children they are understandable upset. I'm reall worried about my 16 year old. He and Sam are the best of friends and their birthdays are just one day apart. When I had Sam, my son told me in the hospital that his little brother was the best birthday gift I could ever give him.

I know this is long I'm sorry, I just needed to tell someone. We've called family everyone is crushed and wanting answers and I just don't have them right now. The last thing the doctor told me today was "Let's keep praying. Try not to worry, we will make it through this."

Please please pray for my baby! I can't stop crying....
I keep going in the bathroom to cry because I don't want him to see me upset.

GeorgiesMomma · 10-16-2012, 05:07 PM

Tracy I am so sorry for you, your family and sweet Samuel. I am here if you need/want to talk. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated.

My lil friend · 10-16-2012, 05:07 PM

As a mom myself I can not imagine your emotional pain. I am so very,very sorry and would just hold you and let you cry if I was there. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Please keep us up to date on how we can pray and how you,he and the rest of your family are doing. Again my heart just breaks for you all. Many blessings heaped upon you and your!!

Buster Brown · 10-16-2012, 05:37 PM

Tracy I am so sorry that your son is having so many difficult health issues. Sending prayers for your son and your family.

horsnaround · 10-16-2012, 05:57 PM

Sending many prayers

yorkietalkjilly · 10-16-2012, 05:57 PM

This is such a scary and sad story it has me in tears. At least you now have a possible diagnosis for the cause of the problem and who knows what one day soon might could be done to help him. I can tell from you words that you are floored, overwhelmed. But sometimes getting that reality punch, once we've had time to deal with it, helps us to focus harder as you have been doing, on answers and better treatments. Maybe brain surgery could help! It sounds like you and that baby have already been through frightening and awful times with this and I'm praying now you might be on the path to answers and real help. I pray little dear Samuel will get some real medical help and that your other children will be able to handle the news in time and help Mom and Samuel through this by just being kids. Go ahead and reel with the punches now, grieve and cry, and when you can, pick yourself up and prepare for the fight ahead for Sam's future. I will pray for your peace and strength also, Tracy. Please let us know how he is doing as you can.

kjc · 10-16-2012, 06:24 PM

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barkleylove · 10-16-2012, 07:08 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your son and everything that all of you have been going through. You are always so upbeat in your posts, I never would have guessed you were going through such difficult times. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. I will keep your son and you and your family in my prayers. Do you have the book, Jesus Calling by Sarah Young? It has helped be through difficult times in my life. I know they sell it on Amazon.

hnybun128 · 10-16-2012, 07:10 PM

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

BabyGirl Rosie · 10-16-2012, 07:14 PM

Tracy, I am so sorry for this news. But remember one thing, GOD can move mountains. I know you are a woman of faith and I know you believe this with all your heart. As a mother, I understand your pain. I understand your fears. And I understand your hurt. As I traveled the road with my child recently with medical issues, I can tell me that my faith carried me through it. My faith and LOTS of wonderful prayer. God will carry you and your family through this. I will pray that he provides you with the strength that you all need to get through this. Hugs to you friend. PM me if you need to talk.

rhondah · 10-16-2012, 07:19 PM

I am so sorry.. my heart aches for you. Sending lots of prayers to you and your family!

sandy simpson · 10-16-2012, 07:21 PM

I believe in the power of prayer and I will be praying for your son. I wish I knew how you could get him to eat. I had a girl in 1st grade who choked on a piece of turkey. She refused to eat. Dr. was going to put a feeding tube in her and then mom took control. She literally forced this child to eat. Finally she got over the fear and started eating. Now if your son has other issues this may not be the way to handle this. I will pray that he will start to eat. Try grinding up fruit, blending smoothies, just make it tasty. I used to drink Scandi Shakes to gain weight after surgery.
May the power we have in Jesus heal this precious little boy!

MikaTallulah · 10-16-2012, 08:01 PM

I hope you are able to get your son to eat properly. I would look into the PEG tube myself- Just because he would have it does not mean you would have to use it. It would take some of the "you must eat" pressure off of him and you. It may give him much better quality of life for both of you. Just a thought.

My brother had Chiari Decompression surgery at 14. He did great.

chattiesmom · 10-16-2012, 08:15 PM

Tracy, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that the medical team working on Samuel's problems will allow God to guide them in making their treatment plan. Sending healing

and

your way.

lillymae · 10-16-2012, 08:52 PM

First let me say that I am Praying for your family. Second , you NEED to find someone who specializes in Chiari Malformation. Chiari is Not a brain deformity it IS a Skull deformity witch can cause brain problems & would explain the lack of chewing motion in your son as it can affect the neck & the 2 can cause painful chewing motion. PLEASE find a specialist, DO NOT let just any Dr treat your son. There are not enough Dr's familiar enough with Chiari Malformation. FYI Chiari is Both Congenital & Hereditary. Do your research & join Chiari groups to find the BEST Dr's for your little man. Again , I am Praying for your family.

10-16-2012, 04:59 PM	#1
Samuelsmommie Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2012 Location: Louisiana Posts: 871	PLEASE Pray for my 2 year old son! I am normally a very private person, but the news that I got today about my two year old son has rocked the foundation of my world and I could really use some support and prayers please. My son doesn't eat food. He drinks about 7 to 8 bottles of pedia sure a day. He has never been a good eater even at birth. He was 5 1/2 weeks early. His doctors had been hoping that things would get better as he got older, but they haven't. He has OT that comes to our home weekly to help try to get him to eat. Recently his pediatrician thought he wasn't doing as well as she had hoped and wanted to start running some tests. Let me say this when I say he doesn't eat food I mean just that. He will pocket food in his jaws or chew it up and then spit it out. Very little swallowing of any foods. If he asks for fries we run out and buy some, after he eats three (if that some days) he will tell you all done and won't eat any more. Sometimes he will go days without eating ANYTHING. So we have had a few close calls where they thought they would have to put in a PEG tube for feedings. But we have been able to hold his weight steady with pedia sure, so haven't had to go that route yet. But doctors have cautioned us that if he ever refuses pedia sure we will be in trouble. He got sick with a little cold about a month and a half ago and refused pedia sure for 3 days. It scared us beyond belief, because he doesnt have fat reserves of a "normal" child any illness can spell disaster for us. After that scare we all agreed we needed answers. 1st test ran was a swallow study... Results normal. 2nd test ran scope... He had to be put under sedation... Results top of his small intestines full of acid... Put on Previcid 2x a day. 3rd test ran a week and a half after second MRI, which was this past Friday and again he had to be put under sedation... Results of the MRI where given to us today while at the GI doctor who ordered the test.. He said the scan showed Samuel has a Chiari Malformation f the brain and that he was sending us to see a neurosurgeon and sending the results to our pediatrician also. He said they may have to operate on his brain that this may or may not be the answer to what is going on with him or that it could just be another piece of the puzzle. They have also started him on a medication to increase his appetite. He's been on it for about a month and a half (since the pedia sure scare). It is making him eat a little more not much though, but it is causing him to stuff and pocket food in his cheeks more. I am reading all I can on this because I've never heard of it before. We told our older children they are understandable upset. I'm reall worried about my 16 year old. He and Sam are the best of friends and their birthdays are just one day apart. When I had Sam, my son told me in the hospital that his little brother was the best birthday gift I could ever give him. I know this is long I'm sorry, I just needed to tell someone. We've called family everyone is crushed and wanting answers and I just don't have them right now. The last thing the doctor told me today was "Let's keep praying. Try not to worry, we will make it through this." Please please pray for my baby! I can't stop crying.... I keep going in the bathroom to cry because I don't want him to see me upset. __________________ Tracy~~ Kalisi Hope ~~

10-16-2012, 05:07 PM	#2
GeorgiesMomma I love TBCG! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: MD Posts: 7,227	Tracy I am so sorry for you, your family and sweet Samuel. I am here if you need/want to talk. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Please keep us updated. __________________ Morgan Mommy toGeorgie boy & Isaiah RIP sweet Coco 10/12/99-8/1/12 Read About Georgie's Experience with Atlantoaxial Instability (AAI) Here!

10-16-2012, 05:37 PM	#4
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	Tracy I am so sorry that your son is having so many difficult health issues. Sending prayers for your son and your family. __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

10-16-2012, 05:57 PM	#5
horsnaround ♥Trained by my pups♥ Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: with my yorkies Posts: 11,722 Blog Entries: 1	Sending many prayers __________________ loving life with my furry friends

10-16-2012, 05:57 PM	#6
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	This is such a scary and sad story it has me in tears. At least you now have a possible diagnosis for the cause of the problem and who knows what one day soon might could be done to help him. I can tell from you words that you are floored, overwhelmed. But sometimes getting that reality punch, once we've had time to deal with it, helps us to focus harder as you have been doing, on answers and better treatments. Maybe brain surgery could help! It sounds like you and that baby have already been through frightening and awful times with this and I'm praying now you might be on the path to answers and real help. I pray little dear Samuel will get some real medical help and that your other children will be able to handle the news in time and help Mom and Samuel through this by just being kids. Go ahead and reel with the punches now, grieve and cry, and when you can, pick yourself up and prepare for the fight ahead for Sam's future. I will pray for your peace and strength also, Tracy. Please let us know how he is doing as you can. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

10-16-2012, 05:07 PM	#3
My lil friend Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: FtWorth,TX,USA Posts: 3,269	As a mom myself I can not imagine your emotional pain. I am so very,very sorry and would just hold you and let you cry if I was there. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Please keep us up to date on how we can pray and how you,he and the rest of your family are doing. Again my heart just breaks for you all. Many blessings heaped upon you and your!!

10-16-2012, 06:24 PM	#7
kjc I♥PeekTinkySaph&Finny Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Baltimore, Maryland Posts: 18,866	How do I contact Dr. Ben Carson? If you would like to schedule an appointment or consultation with Dr. Carson, please contact Johns Hopkins USA at 410-955-6406. If you would like to write Dr. Carson, please use the following address: Benjamin Carson, M.D. The Johns Hopkins Hospital Department of Neurology Harvey 811 600 N. Wolfe Street Baltimore, MD 21287 __________________ Kat Chloe Lizzy PeekABooTinkerbell SapphireInfinity

10-16-2012, 07:08 PM	#8
barkleylove YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: New Lenox IL Posts: 342 Blog Entries: 2	I'm so sorry to hear about your son and everything that all of you have been going through. You are always so upbeat in your posts, I never would have guessed you were going through such difficult times. I am a strong believer in the power of prayer. I will keep your son and you and your family in my prayers. Do you have the book, Jesus Calling by Sarah Young? It has helped be through difficult times in my life. I know they sell it on Amazon.

10-16-2012, 07:10 PM	#9
hnybun128 I ♥ Maci & Mojo Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Morris, IL, USA Posts: 856	You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! __________________ Gina ~Mojo , Maci ~ Sweetie, Katie, Coco Chanel, & Figaro

10-16-2012, 07:14 PM	#10
BabyGirl Rosie I ♥ my girls! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: With My Yorkies Posts: 18,980	Tracy, I am so sorry for this news. But remember one thing, GOD can move mountains. I know you are a woman of faith and I know you believe this with all your heart. As a mother, I understand your pain. I understand your fears. And I understand your hurt. As I traveled the road with my child recently with medical issues, I can tell me that my faith carried me through it. My faith and LOTS of wonderful prayer. God will carry you and your family through this. I will pray that he provides you with the strength that you all need to get through this. Hugs to you friend. PM me if you need to talk. __________________ Momma to three sweet Yorkie girls Rosie Marie, Mikki Leigh , and Lily Mae Grace!

10-16-2012, 07:19 PM	#11
rhondah Mama's girl Phoebe Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2009 Location: nc Posts: 887	I am so sorry.. my heart aches for you. Sending lots of prayers to you and your family! __________________ Rhonda ...Mama to Phoebe RIP sweet girl

10-16-2012, 07:21 PM	#12
sandy simpson YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: santee, california Posts: 2,123 Blog Entries: 1	I believe in the power of prayer and I will be praying for your son. I wish I knew how you could get him to eat. I had a girl in 1st grade who choked on a piece of turkey. She refused to eat. Dr. was going to put a feeding tube in her and then mom took control. She literally forced this child to eat. Finally she got over the fear and started eating. Now if your son has other issues this may not be the way to handle this. I will pray that he will start to eat. Try grinding up fruit, blending smoothies, just make it tasty. I used to drink Scandi Shakes to gain weight after surgery. May the power we have in Jesus heal this precious little boy!

10-16-2012, 08:01 PM	#13
MikaTallulah YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: NJ Posts: 1,812	I hope you are able to get your son to eat properly. I would look into the PEG tube myself- Just because he would have it does not mean you would have to use it. It would take some of the "you must eat" pressure off of him and you. It may give him much better quality of life for both of you. Just a thought. My brother had Chiari Decompression surgery at 14. He did great. __________________ Beware of Nestle Purina Cozy (4/06), Roxy & Zoey (2/08), Lucy (4/09); Buddy 4/09- Rescued 12/11); Mika ('98) & Tallulah ('00) RIP Harley 4/2009; Lucky 11/2010; Zoey 4/2012

10-16-2012, 08:15 PM	#14
chattiesmom Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama Posts: 17,674	Tracy, your family is in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that the medical team working on Samuel's problems will allow God to guide them in making their treatment plan. Sending healing and your way. __________________ Silk Step-In Harnesses www.foxypups.etsy.com

10-16-2012, 08:52 PM	#15
lillymae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Idaho Posts: 4,544	First let me say that I am Praying for your family. Second , you NEED to find someone who specializes in Chiari Malformation. Chiari is Not a brain deformity it IS a Skull deformity witch can cause brain problems & would explain the lack of chewing motion in your son as it can affect the neck & the 2 can cause painful chewing motion. PLEASE find a specialist, DO NOT let just any Dr treat your son. There are not enough Dr's familiar enough with Chiari Malformation. FYI Chiari is Both Congenital & Hereditary. Do your research & join Chiari groups to find the BEST Dr's for your little man. Again , I am Praying for your family. Last edited by lillymae; 10-16-2012 at 08:53 PM.