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See, here it is implied again: if someone doesn’t post their puppies for sale for the whole community, then their pups must not be “good enough”. Can you not see the implications of some of your words…especially to the potential pet buyer? Suppose some really good pet owner is looking for a pup and happens to live in a breeder’s area…they’ve posted they are interested in a pup…By making broad sweeping statements with negative connotations you’ve now lost that puppy a potential good home, because you’ve created this underlying current of suspicion in the poster’s mind. You hurt the puppy, not so much any breeder over all. Care about the future home of the puppy? Then don’t send the potential good pet owner running straight to their local pet store. There was even someone that posted they won’t respond to PM’s regarding puppies anymore…what a shame…especially if they really are the “good pet owner” they claim to be…puppy loses, they lose, all because they don’t want to take the time to sort out the good from the bad. No doubt, you’re correct some people, not wanting to take the time to find out if the breeder is on the up and up, have gotten a less than quality pup, but I’m sure just as many, if not more, have gotten terrific pups. Who are you to be the announcer of only half of the facts? If you’re so concerned over what a poster might receive in the PM’s why don’t you go to the trouble of saying -this YT’er seems to care about his/her pups, -this one doesn’t,- this one does,- this one is a maybe, -oh yes this one for sure, -no, not that one, -possibly this one…that’s a little more work, isn’t it? (Better yet, why don’t you post that they should send you all the PM’s they receive and you will sort them out for them) It seems that would be the responsible thing to do, certainly for those that want to make sure the pup gets the perfect new home or the OP gets the perfect pup, despite the fact it isn’t anyone’s potential pup but the OP’s. According to you it seems you can judge a breeder’s worthiness by how many posts…then say that…Say anyone with under…hmmm, what’s a good number??? 50??? …anyone with under 50 posts is trying to scam you, OP. What would that hurt them anymore, you’ve already implied anyone who PM’s them is out to scam them. You want the for sale portion removed, for whatever reason you don’t like sellers apparently, or possibly you’re the one that got the bad deal from a PM and I believe it’s clouded your judgment or ability to reason that not everyone is the bad guy. I do see now where some YT’er’s have now recently changed their posts to say ‘ Regarding PM, some may be good, some may not” Now THAT is acceptable to me as it is closer to the truth. That’s responsible, that’s caring for the future of the pup, despite having little value, as I’m sure the OP already knows to be selective of emails. I don’t know if you breed…I’m guessing from your post you do not, as far as being “put out there for everyone” – why? Why is it important to you that the whole community be made aware of someone’s puppies and not just the actual person who is currently looking and is currently requesting information as to available puppies in a particular area? Why is it important to you to know of all the puppies YT’ers have for sale? If you’re looking to buy a pup then post your request. As I’m sure breeders here can attest to (if not, then they are either very lucky or unlucky, depending on one’s point of view) once the large community of YT knows you’ve got a pup for sale too many come a calling. It seems there are things you are unaware of. “Hi, I live in New York and I’d like to maybe get one of your puppies, if so I’d like it flown to me and I’ll pay the airfare, it’s cheap to fly an animal in the plane’s hold, isn’t it??” I don’t ship (ok, here basically stops the sale, one would think…why waste their time and mine discussing the puppy further???) Does it really matter if they’d be the best pet owner in the world, if I don’t ship? I don’t ship…that doesn’t change. With time they will find one in their area (unless they’re scared off first by people telling them if anyone (local to them) actually answers their post inquiry is out to scam them) “Are you sure you don’t ship?” I’m sure. “But I’d love it…” On and on the emails go… Are these emails malicious? I really don’t think so. I think they are meant by well meaning people trying to acquire a Yorkie. And well meaning people trying to convince me of the benefits of shipping a puppy via cargo. And well meaning people trying to convince me…etc., etc. But since I don’t ship…and “I don’t ship” are very key words…meant to be taken seriously…if someone isn’t living in Washington State, Northern Idaho, Montana, or Eastern Oregon (all within an 1 ½ hour drive from me) or if they aren’t visiting/physically present in my immediate area why would I put myself – and them --- through all that? Why not let just those looking for a pup IN MY AREA know? If you were me wouldn’t you rather hear: “Hi…I live in the next county and I might be interested in one of your puppies, when would be a good time for me to come look at your pups and talk with you?” The ONE response from the one actually looking and not the overload of other emails???? I’m not saying all this just for me. I think those that insist upon loading people’s minds with negativity and anecdotal evidence at best, do all pups and their breeders a disservice. It takes a certain mindset to do that, one I will never understand. |
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Now, here comes the implication/opinion part of my statement: To ME, it feels sneaky and underhanded for some breeders here to only offer their pets through PM's. It raises red flags to me that these breeders potentially don't want others to know that they are breeding to less than standard because they know people here can spot it in a heart beat. They don't want to answer questions about the size of the dames, health testing, Ch, etc. because they know they don't measure up. You asked who was I to put out there that PM's were bad. Well, who are you to say that this IS the way that breeders should go about it? No, I don't and won't breed because I see far too many badly bred dogs out there and too many breeders with questionable practices cheering each other on. I'm grateful to YT for keeping me from buying one of them. |
A while back we almost got scamed when purchasing a car that we saw advertized in the newspaper. So I do tell people to be carefull with adds... most are honest but just look for the warning signs and know what you are looking for. I think the same applies to PM.. Also I do know I had a very hard time finding the new member of our family. I really got bogged down with internet adds and just did not know where to go... I think there should be a way for breeders to present themselves. I think in my case there is not a lot a breeders of high quality in my area for what I was looking for and I really got confused. I got lucky, I asked my vet -- at the time I was looking for a small ish shih tuz and he talked me into a yorkie. Best thing that happened... I love my Remy!!!!!!!! well that is my 2cents!!:D |
It seems as though the dilemma is where do you look for an healthy Yorkie if there no YTCA Breeders with puppies available and you have been unable or unwilling to find a rescue? I have learned a reputable breeder will have a limited number of litters per year. The demand for Yorkies must outweigh the availability of YTCA breeder puppies. So how does an average person find breeders? For the general public the research can be daunting and many just go with the easiest route to a puppy. In buying anything it is best to research your product and to shop for a qualified seller. And when dealing with a living creature you must be mindful that this is a lifetime commitment. Buying a sick or genetically compromised dog is no bargain. To buy a puppy from anyone who is not breeding for the betterment of the breed is foolish and a potential emotional and financial time bomb. What is great about YT is that they provide the information to enable you to do the proper research and the warnings of improper impulse buying. I think the YT breeders section is good in that it provides people with a place to go to find a breeder outside of the internet, wanted ads, craig's list etc. I know once you have found a breeder you still have to investigate their breeding practices and that you can not assume a breeder is qualified by their statements or affiliations. IMHO |
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Ok I think I get it now... it is not that breeders state they have puppies on YT.. it is pretending they are just owners.. and then on the sly PM to uneducated buyers... ( sorry I missed the point before.) In that case I agree.. watch out for breeders who pm.. but if a good breeder who is upfront and honest also pm and the buyer is smart enough to sift through and connect that is oK -- the buyer has to be smart enough to find the good breeder? |
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Here is part of the YTCA code of ethics: 3) Members shall refer potential puppy purchasers to other reputable breeders and be helpful and courteous to those who request information about the breed. There are lots of people who are ethical breeders, they just may not be YTCA members. When I was looking for Rhett, I contacted at YTCA member. She did not have any pups available, but she referred me to someone she trusted that wasn't a member. That person didn't have any pups available and wasn't going to for awhile due to a family illness. But she and I struck up an email friendship for nearly a year. Because she knew that I was not interested in showing or breeding and that I wasn't the kind looking for an accessory dog, she pointed me in the direction of a rescue that she trusted. Lo and behold, I ended up with my huge, lovable guy all because I started with the YTCA. |
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Not just the ones who pretend, but if you look around at the For Sale/Wanted section, you will see that there are a fair number of people who crop up and post ONLY when they have dogs available. When you research their posts, that's all there is. There aren't any "hey, look at my litter" pics in the nursery, no questions in the breeder sections, no helping in the sick/injured forum. Nothing but answering a post with "I have a pup available...I'll pm you with details". Anyone looking for a pup needs to know that being on YT is NOT a stamp of approval, and that they need to examine every offer just as thoroughly as they would any other breeder. |
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I just want to add, that to say "beware of strangers..." Since everyone is a stranger, it implies all and implications of things that are not true is wrong to do. Wrong to do to the buyer, wrong to do to the seller, wrong to do to the puppy. No one knows that someone who may PM someone looking for a puppy is not on the up and up, nor can they know if they are and I believe such implications to a newbie posting to look for a puppy might scare them off and they may pass on a quality pup (who needs a home and as much they might want to give it one) and they just go buy where things appear (on the surface) of being legit...like their local pet store. So I believe if someone is going to go so far as to feel they need to "warn" someone they should do so as truthfully as possible. It's important that puppies for sale end up in good homes and that starts with buyer and seller connecting. I think both can figure out who's on the up and up and who's not. Yeah, sometimes both can get fooled, just not all...stranger or not. I guess as much as someone feels the need to imply PM's are not good for someone posting about wanting a pup I feel the need to clarify it to them as I want them to have the whole truth: Some PM's might not be legit, Some may be. |
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UPDATE/Was apprvd but foster mom decided to keep her Hello everyone thanks for all cares and concerns(I didnt mean to start a riot). I actually found a yorkie, at a rescue, that was owner surrendered. I was approved to receive her($300). I get a call ,a day before Iam to pick her up, and the foster mom has decided to keep her(her daughter feel in love with the 3lb sweetheart). My heart was broken. My first thought was to give up, but I have decided to continue my search. After doing some research I thought maybe 3lbs may not have been a good idea(not saying all 3 pounders have issues) but I know sometimes smaller isnt better! I did get a few PM's and I checked their sites. Iam going to be patient and wait on the right one to love. |
Hello everyone thanks for all cares and concerns(I didnt mean to start a riot). I actually found a yorkie, at a rescue, that was owner surrendered. I was approved to receive her($300). I get a call ,a day before Iam to pick her up, and the foster mom has decided to keep her(her daughter feel in love with the 3lb sweetheart). My heart was broken. My first thought was to give up, but I have decided to continue my search. After doing some research I thought maybe 3lbs may not have been a good idea(not saying all 3 pounders have issues) but I know sometimes smaller isnt better! I did get a few PM's and I checked their sites. Iam going to be patient and wait on the right one to love. http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/ima...ser_online.gif http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/ima...ons/report.gif http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/ima...c/progress.gif |
LOL- you didn't start a riot. Stick around an you'll see threads go off topic all the time. Sorry your first adoption attempt didn't work out. Keep looking and I'm sure the perfect dog will find you when it's ready. |
Don't worry, it took me several months to realize most YT are really great people... just have strong opinions!!! I know how hard it is to find the right baby.. maybe asks some of the local vets. At least the vets know who takes care of their babies and will be a starting point to find the right breeder? |
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