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Originally Posted by kjcmsw
(Post 3405570)
Ok, so that explains in part why you feel those that PM that they have a puppy available may be less than legit; however, your limited experience does not mean everyone from YT that PM's someone they have a pup available is less than reputable and you don't do the searcher any favors by implying it does. That's what I'm saying.
If I, on the other hand, were to go to a public forum and actually request if anyone had a puppy for sale would be very appreciative of all PM's - yes, then it would be up to me to go through them and speak with the people, weed out the bad, keep the good.
Caveat Emptor is an apt response, but so common, it's hardly worth the mention, as the average person is smart enough to figure it all out but why eliminate some of the really good pups out there that might be available to them because you happen to have had a bad experience (or if you simply ignored the PM's you really don't know what you would have gotten, correct (good or bad)?
I would think the responses received from here would more likely be a better shot of getting a good dog over, and to automatically exclude those PM's limits one's choices. No need for anyone to state how 7 years ago their second cousin on their Aunt Millie's side got a PM and got a sick dog, etc., etc. We all know that can happen, but it can also happen someone will get a good dog too. |
Kendra -- Steve did not say
don't buy from anyone who pm's -- he said
BEWARE and I think from the large number of reported problems of people who do this when they are NOT reputable,
that is good advice. If a person is being warned of this problem, they can sift through the PMs they get and probably pick yours out in a heartbeat over many others who will not have any sort of criteria for potential buyers other than $$$$$. Most of the disreputable sellers via PMs are selling at reduced prices from what I hear, and not requiring any sort of application procedure. I only received a few over the years and it has been quite a while since I have received one. But I have gotten the offer of a pup at a reduced price, non-AKC, less than 12 weeks old, and they asked me no questions at all!
Many people have written posts about these experiences lately. Often they are selling NON-AKC pups from non-standard parents. The pups wind up not looking like quality Yorkies and there are usually poor or non-existant health guarantees. There are many breeders who will not openly post about their litters for fear of being outed for their non-standard and often unethical practices. Yorkietalk as a whole has gotten to be a group of much more savvy buyers than in past years. We have a few members that are alerting to problem breeders. That makes many of the BYBs afraid of the public forums.
I have only had two Yorkie litters. The first all went to family & friends. The second I had most spoken for but had 2 males to sale. I put the litter on Yorkietalk for a few days and even sent a PM
in response to one person asking for a puppy. The PM never got beyond the initial contact, and if it had, I have a thorough application,require a vet referral, and felt I could ensure only good homes for my pups. So, I figured as an
initial contact only, it would be okay. After talking about ethical advertising with other members here on YT and really looking at what YTCA recommends, I decided to ask the thread be closed and vowed never to PM about a puppy again. I am always in learning mode.
It should be a good way to make an initial contact..... I see your point. Unfortunately, because so many BYBs are using that method, I think maybe it has become
tainted. Still.....since you are using it ONLY as an intial contact with many steps yet between that first PM and the decision to sell a puppy to the person, I don't see anything wrong with what you are doing. I would really think about it though. I have had to change some of my initial thoughts after further education. I gladly forego contacts by PM to make sure I am not associated with the many BYBs that are taking that avenue!
Steve's advice to people to
BEWARE of strangers just wanting to sell you a dog refers to those who are offering a sale right off the bat without knowing anything about a person. They are also
strangers to YT as most of them do not post openly and some do not admit to being breeders when they do post. That does happen in the For Sale section on YT too. For instance, one breeder actually said, "the first $500 takes this pup home!" Seriously! That is the same attitude that most of the people selling by PMs are taking too. Just "show me the money." SAD!
Hopefully this explains it better from my point of view and maybe Steve's but I don't want to put words in anyone else's mouth.