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05-12-2009, 11:39 AM | #1 |
YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: GERMANY
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| Needing some advice I am not sure if I am posting this in the correct areas or not but I am needing some advice about my yorkie. My husband and I have had Jack for 2 years now. We go him when he was just 8 weeks old. My husband is active duty in the Air Force and we are currently stationed in Germany. My question is regarding whether or not I should take Jack with us to the states or find him another home. We will be leaving in August and will be doing an extensive amount of traveling until January when we reach our next station. My husband will be starting a new career field will require 4 months of training. Also we are expecting a our first child in November. I am worried that we will not be able to handle all of the moving, a child, and Jack. My main concern is how Jack will adjust to a new family. I have heard of many families finding new homes for their animals but to me Jack is different. We are all he has ever known and it breaks my heart to think that he will be sad but I truly want the best for him. Can they really be happy with another family? I am not sure what or where we will be living when my husband is in training and I worry about not being able to have him if we have to stay in some type of apartment. I am also concerned about having to care for a new born as well as give Jack the adequate attention he needs. I will basically be a single first time mother as my husband will be consumed with the military for the majority of the time. I would appreciate any advice that anyone can give. |
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05-12-2009, 01:08 PM | #2 |
Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Southeast Texas
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| You would probably get a lot more response if this was posted in the General Discussion section. Anyway, I know it is a hard decision for you. I am sure Jack would adjust to a new home but it might take some time depending on his personality. Considering what all lies ahead for you it might be the best thing to look for him a new home. On the other hand, if you are attached to him and if you think he will do well traveling then take him with you to the states. He will give you lots of love and company while your husband is away. Whatever you decided I do wish you the best of luck. |
05-12-2009, 01:32 PM | #3 |
Slave to My Rug-Rats Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Long Island
Posts: 7,247
| Oh boy...I know this is really tough For me, I just couldn't bare the thought of not having my Yorkie-babies with me, they mean the world to me and they are my responsibility, regardless where my life takes me. So for me, I could never part....When there's a will there's a way ...But...I do know that sometimes, for some people, rehoming is the best solution. *If* that's what you decide to do, please, please, please make sure you are 110% comfortable with the new family that you choose. Check Vet references, personal references, charge a small rehoming fee, etc...And you can even try here on YT to find him the perfect home I wish you the best and hope you can figure it all out |
05-18-2009, 02:31 PM | #4 |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama
Posts: 17,674
| What a difficult decision you are faced with. I agree with the other posters that Jack will adjust to a new home - and will thrive providing that he is well placed. It sounds like you have Jack's best interests at heart -- you have a full place and a heavy heart. My thoughts and prayers are with you. |
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