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BellaWillow · 01-12-2007, 10:42 AM

Dear Aubrey:

My heart continues to break for you as you mourn the loss of your sweet little baby Ella. There is not a day that hasn't went by that I haven't cried when I thought of the pain that you are going through. I wish I could say something to ease your pain . . . but all I can say is that we are all here for you Aubrey. We are here for you as you go through the grieving process of what was a terrible tragic horrific accident . . . but truly an accident.

All those crazy mixed up emotions you are feeling right now . . . the hatred . . . the guilt . . . the sorrow . . . honey they are all part of the natural grieving process . . . and it is so important that you continue to stay connected to the people that truly love you as you go through this. Will loves you Aubrey and I know that he is just as torn up with grief and guilt over this horrible tragedy as well. The anger that you feel toward him is part of the natural grieving process and you must let yourself go through it in order to heal.

Try not to be too hard on him Aubrey. Will is hurting too. Will just may be hurting more than you will ever know. You two need to hold on to each other, cry together, and heal together. No little puppy will ever replace sweet baby Ella . . . but someday you may feel that another puppy might be what Ella would want for you to truly heal your heart and put some closure on this. Aubrey your little baby Ella is not mad at you and don't ever think that you weren't a good momma to her. You gave her a lot of joy and love in her short little life and no one could ever blame you or Will for this accident. Aubrey is was a horrible accident and it was not your fault . . . it was not Will's fault either. I know it is hard to understand that now . . . but in time I hope you can come to understand and accept it. Accidents do happen and you can't blame yourself, or hate yourself, or blame Will, or hate Will for it. You need to find acceptance. I know it is hard right now to see this . . . but in time I know you can.

Aubrey I continue to light a candle every night for you and Will and sweet little baby Ella. I pray that you somehow find it in your heart to forgive yourself and forgive Will. I continue to pray for your baby and pray that you somehow find comfort in knowing that she loved you very much and that God needed a sweet little baby angel yorkie there beside him. I know that words cannot ease your pain . . . but I pray that somehow you will find peace in knowing that you are truly loved . . . your baby Ella continues to love you . . . and we love you too.

Love Pegi Taylor

ssmiles1980A · 01-12-2007, 01:44 PM

WHAT A SUPRISE TO RECIEVE FLOWERS, that was just sooooooo amazingly sweet of both of you, it was the first smile on my face since all this , they are absolutly beautiful, i can not thank you enough from the very bottom of my heart . You all have been so so amazing to me through this, your friendship will never be forgotton, Missy and Marcella please if you dont mind PM me your number i would love to call and thank you persoanlly ....Anyway i cant wait to show will these flowers when he gets home from work . Thank you to the both of you from the VERY bottom of my heart and soul, Thank you for thinking of me , it means the world to me, Thank you to EVERYONE

Hugs

Marcellacml · 01-12-2007, 02:01 PM

noo they weren't from just me and Missy they were from alot of people here on YT

So many different people came together and donated so we could buy them for you

LittleFurbabies · 01-12-2007, 02:20 PM

I'm so sorry to hear about your baby, hugs and kisses from me and Peeka Boo.

Marcellacml · 01-12-2007, 02:23 PM

heres what we can do..whoever donated you could just post your name here..i'd hate for it to look like Melissa and I are taking all the credit for this

i'm so happy that they made you smile

Daisy23 · 01-12-2007, 02:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Marcellacml

heres what we can do..whoever donated you could just post your name here..i'd hate for it to look like Melissa and I are taking all the credit for this

i'm so happy that they made you smile

I donated. I wish it was under different circumstances though.

I'm happy it was able to put a smile on your face

waistfull · 01-12-2007, 03:23 PM

I donated. Aubrey, I have been following this thread the whole time, and can not put into words the sorrow I have for you, so I won't even try. Ella will always be in my heart.

bren · 01-12-2007, 03:30 PM

I donated. I wish that there was more I could do

Marcellacml · 01-12-2007, 03:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bren

I donated. I wish that there was more I could do

same here..you know were here for you if there is anything you need.

Magneticgal · 01-12-2007, 03:44 PM

I donated. Please know we are all here for you during this time. Like the others, I wish there was more I could do. RIP Little Ella....

Julz · 01-12-2007, 04:16 PM

I donated also and am so glad to hear that a smile appeared today. So many people really do care.

IluvLucy · 01-12-2007, 04:17 PM

I donated. I just wish I could've offered my sympathy and hugged you in person.

cheeselover8481 · 01-12-2007, 04:23 PM

I also donated. It was the least we could do. Hang in there. The first several weeks are the hardest, but you are strong and can get through this.

ssmiles1980A · 01-12-2007, 04:58 PM

OHHHHH well THANK YOU TO EVERYONE that was just soooo SWEET of EVERYONE ...THANK YOU TO ALL

Syl- · 01-12-2007, 05:01 PM

Yorkie Talkers, You are one amazing bunch of people. Aubrey and Will, Little Ella is watching over you and she wants you to know this; http://www.quickegreets.com/bereave/ber18.htm
Syl-& Max

01-12-2007, 10:42 AM	#496
BellaWillow Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Apple Valley, Minnesota Posts: 80	I Wish I Could Say Something To Ease Your Pain Dear Aubrey: My heart continues to break for you as you mourn the loss of your sweet little baby Ella. There is not a day that hasn't went by that I haven't cried when I thought of the pain that you are going through. I wish I could say something to ease your pain . . . but all I can say is that we are all here for you Aubrey. We are here for you as you go through the grieving process of what was a terrible tragic horrific accident . . . but truly an accident. All those crazy mixed up emotions you are feeling right now . . . the hatred . . . the guilt . . . the sorrow . . . honey they are all part of the natural grieving process . . . and it is so important that you continue to stay connected to the people that truly love you as you go through this. Will loves you Aubrey and I know that he is just as torn up with grief and guilt over this horrible tragedy as well. The anger that you feel toward him is part of the natural grieving process and you must let yourself go through it in order to heal. Try not to be too hard on him Aubrey. Will is hurting too. Will just may be hurting more than you will ever know. You two need to hold on to each other, cry together, and heal together. No little puppy will ever replace sweet baby Ella . . . but someday you may feel that another puppy might be what Ella would want for you to truly heal your heart and put some closure on this. Aubrey your little baby Ella is not mad at you and don't ever think that you weren't a good momma to her. You gave her a lot of joy and love in her short little life and no one could ever blame you or Will for this accident. Aubrey is was a horrible accident and it was not your fault . . . it was not Will's fault either. I know it is hard to understand that now . . . but in time I hope you can come to understand and accept it. Accidents do happen and you can't blame yourself, or hate yourself, or blame Will, or hate Will for it. You need to find acceptance. I know it is hard right now to see this . . . but in time I know you can. Aubrey I continue to light a candle every night for you and Will and sweet little baby Ella. I pray that you somehow find it in your heart to forgive yourself and forgive Will. I continue to pray for your baby and pray that you somehow find comfort in knowing that she loved you very much and that God needed a sweet little baby angel yorkie there beside him. I know that words cannot ease your pain . . . but I pray that somehow you will find peace in knowing that you are truly loved . . . your baby Ella continues to love you . . . and we love you too. Love Pegi Taylor __________________ Pegi and Willow and Isabella Bleu ~ Please come and visit Willow at Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?454939

01-12-2007, 01:44 PM	#497
ssmiles1980A My Yorkie Angels Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Plantation Florida Posts: 2,889	Thank You Thank You To Marcella And Missy WHAT A SUPRISE TO RECIEVE FLOWERS, that was just sooooooo amazingly sweet of both of you, it was the first smile on my face since all this , they are absolutly beautiful, i can not thank you enough from the very bottom of my heart . You all have been so so amazing to me through this, your friendship will never be forgotton, Missy and Marcella please if you dont mind PM me your number i would love to call and thank you persoanlly ....Anyway i cant wait to show will these flowers when he gets home from work . Thank you to the both of you from the VERY bottom of my heart and soul, Thank you for thinking of me , it means the world to me, Thank you to EVERYONE Hugs __________________ Aubrey Nessa & Bridget Spanky & Rocky RIP my sweet baby girl ella http://www.ytrainbowbridge.net/

01-12-2007, 02:01 PM	#498
Marcellacml Cosmo, Minnie, and Lillian Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: New York Posts: 3,107	noo they weren't from just me and Missy they were from alot of people here on YT So many different people came together and donated so we could buy them for you Last edited by Marcellacml; 01-12-2007 at 02:05 PM.

01-12-2007, 03:30 PM	#503
bren Slave to Max 'n Abbie Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 1,529	I donated. I wish that there was more I could do __________________ Brenda, Max & Abbie

01-12-2007, 03:44 PM	#505
Magneticgal Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Canton,Ohio Posts: 514	I donated. Please know we are all here for you during this time. Like the others, I wish there was more I could do. RIP Little Ella.... __________________ Kris , RIP Lexie , Bella Zoey

01-12-2007, 02:20 PM	#499
LittleFurbabies YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Maryland Posts: 262	I'm so sorry to hear about your baby, hugs and kisses from me and Peeka Boo.

01-12-2007, 02:23 PM	#500
Marcellacml Cosmo, Minnie, and Lillian Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: New York Posts: 3,107	heres what we can do..whoever donated you could just post your name here..i'd hate for it to look like Melissa and I are taking all the credit for this i'm so happy that they made you smile

01-12-2007, 03:23 PM	#502
waistfull Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,861	I donated. Aubrey, I have been following this thread the whole time, and can not put into words the sorrow I have for you, so I won't even try. Ella will always be in my heart.

01-12-2007, 04:16 PM	#506
Julz Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Pennsylvania Posts: 4,347	I donated also and am so glad to hear that a smile appeared today. So many people really do care.

01-12-2007, 04:17 PM	#507
IluvLucy Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,438	I donated. I just wish I could've offered my sympathy and hugged you in person. __________________ Kim , Rebel ,and baby Dixie RIP my sweet Lucy

01-12-2007, 04:23 PM	#508
cheeselover8481 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: knoxville Posts: 1,537	I also donated. It was the least we could do. Hang in there. The first several weeks are the hardest, but you are strong and can get through this.

01-12-2007, 04:58 PM	#509
ssmiles1980A My Yorkie Angels Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Plantation Florida Posts: 2,889	OHHHHH well THANK YOU TO EVERYONE that was just soooo SWEET of EVERYONE ...THANK YOU TO ALL __________________ Aubrey Nessa & Bridget Spanky & Rocky RIP my sweet baby girl ella http://www.ytrainbowbridge.net/

01-12-2007, 05:01 PM	#510
Syl- Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: New Mexico Posts: 74	Yorkie Talkers, You are one amazing bunch of people. Aubrey and Will, Little Ella is watching over you and she wants you to know this; http://www.quickegreets.com/bereave/ber18.htm Syl-& Max