| ladyjane | 06-17-2011 11:58 AM | Quote:
Originally Posted by aproctor
(Post 3566650)
1: You guys ROCK!! I applied for care credit and got approved right away...what a load off that is!!!
2: I contacted the vet again and got a referral for a good Internal Medicine Vet for the ultrasound and I am taking Lucy to BluePearl-Minnesota on Thursday at 1pm!!
I would go with the U of MN but it takes a long time to get in and it's a long process to get her in there so this was the better option.
I talked to two Vets here in Alex and they both said that Blue Pearl is a great place and I got the name of one of the Dr's there they both said is highly recommended!!
I am soo happy to get this going and I have all of you to THANK for that!!
You are right there is something not right and we need to get to the bottom of it or I will go crazy!
I am anxious and can't wait for Thursday now, I just hate stressing her out more by driving two hours to the specialist but it will be worth it in the long run!
I promise to keep you all informed!!
:thankyou2:big_hug::hearts6::love::aimeeyork | Quote:
Originally Posted by aproctor
(Post 3566681)
Is there a reason that a vet that studied at the U of M wouldn't be able to do the same thing that they can do?
I will look to see if there is a Board Certified Specialist somewhere other than the U of M and see what I can find but I am not sure what I will do.
I thank you for the advice but I will figure it out from here and make the decision because to be honest I keep getting so much advice now that my head is spinning and I am getting a bit frustrated. I have a hard time believing that the 15 specialists in the state of MN are the only ones that can diagnose a shunt.
I will keep you all informed.
Thanks. | Quote:
Originally Posted by aproctor
(Post 3569731)
I would never want to "rubber stamp" anything or have anyone do that and that is not what I meant when I posted my last comment at all. I want the facts, I want the ugly truths, etc but when comments are made like: "You pretty much had your mind made up as soon as the credit thing was settled and you made a call to that vet." ---I interpret that comment like this "it's all about money and because they accept that form of payment you are willing to go anywhere"!
All I was trying to get across is that when you don't agree with someones decisions regarding their furbaby then you should be more tactful with your responses because emotions are running high and things that are said are taken quite literally.
I understand that this thread and all others are for everyone and for everyone to learn and there are some that are much more knowledgeable than others and that's why I came on here and I am not going anywhere.
I too love to make new friends and if I do great and if I don't then they don't know what they are missing because I am a great friend! :)
Not implying anything with the last statement at all...just trying to lighten things up! :) | You are free to interpret anything you wish. I have been crystal clear in everything I have posted. If I felt that "its all abut money and because they accept that form of payment you are willing to go anywhere", I would have said so. I don't lurk in the shadows and if you stick around you will see that I say exactly what it on my mind. I have quoted you above...you did make up your mind at that time. I did not imagine it.
I said that I felt your mind was made up at that time...it was simply that...a time....and a point of reference.
You can hate me and my advice and even put me on ignore...just try not to put words into my posts. If you need clarification, ASK. Don't just say what you think I mean and stew over it.
I never said you are a bad owner either. I have continued to post for all of the other folks who want the advice that some of us offer. That was the point of my post...that while you had made up your mind, I was posting for the benefit of others who would actually welcome the advice. I do realize that there is another "force" on YT and people who don't exactly approve of what the majority does. Just not my problem. I say what I am thinking and they should as well...it is just too bad that they want it to look like a war and insinuate that many of us don't accept their ideas. Honestly, there are many whom I have no respect for as pet owners and they know it...BUT they are free to post here as is anyone else. The goal that I have is not to make friends, but to help the pups. If I make a few friends along the way that's a bonus.
Again......I ONLY have Lucy's best interests in mind. I have not attacked you as you seem to feel. Where your defensiveness is coming from...I don't know.
The one thing that is jumping out at me this afternoon is that you are really back where you started. If your vet had simply faxed records to the Univ of MN and you had waited, I believe that everything could have been done in one day. It almost looks like they are starting over? I don't know..I could be wrong. I had a long day and all I can say is that I am glad you are happy with this new vet. I do hope it all works out well for Lucy's sake. |