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10-18-2007, 07:23 AM | #1 |
BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED | Ok, so my week just keeps getting worse :( Welp, I no longer have a job! Alot of you know that I was working in private elderly care taking care of 2 Alzheimer's patients. Well I worked for my mother in my mothers homes. The ladies stay there 24/7 and I was going in during the morning and afternoon taking care of them. Well yesterday my mom gets up and automatically starts bickering at me and this is not uncommon with her. She caught me in the wrong mood and we had a nice shouting battle and needless to say I walked home (4 miles) You have no idea what all I did for these ladies, I did so much around that house and no matter how much or what I did, it seemed like it was never enough. My stress point is already at a 10 and she threw it to a 100 lol I just can't take it no more. This is so sad, this is my own mother, and she is always criticizing me. It's just not worth it. I'm just so bummed and so sad cause I LOVED these ladies, I worked there for over 2 years and I'm just so hurt. |
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10-18-2007, 07:28 AM | #2 |
Bella-My Georgia Girl Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Duluth, Georgia
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| Wow! I'm so sorry that you are having to go through this! Sounds like you really enjoyed your job and I'm sure the 2 ladies loved your help and company! It makes it even harder when it is your mom! Do you have any other places in town where you can work in the same field? Seems like there would be places looking for a hard-working, caring person like yourself. Or maybe your mom will call and say she is sorry and you can have a real heart-to-heart conversation with her. Good luck!
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10-18-2007, 07:30 AM | #3 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member | oh no, I'm so sorry you're going through this. I know how it feels when your own mother criticizes you... It's very sad and stressful. Do you think there might be a chance for you to talk things up??? I know I get mad at my mom a lot, but we always end up solving things up, well, not really solve... because she's never gonna change... ufff it's frustrating. Maybe a little time off will help you. |
10-18-2007, 07:31 AM | #4 |
No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA
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| I'm sooooo sorry about all of this Missy. If you need to talk, I'm here! |
10-18-2007, 07:33 AM | #5 | |
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She was sleeping during the day and then up at night keeping them dry and turned then I came in 6-7 days a week and did the morning and afternoon routine. So she will see what all I was doing when she dose'nt have me to do it all now. | |
10-18-2007, 07:34 AM | #6 |
Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida
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| I'm sorry you're going through all this. Mom's can be a pain sometimes. I hope she see's the error of her ways and apologizes to you. Sometimes it takes losing someone to see how much they mean to you.
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10-18-2007, 07:51 AM | #7 |
Mommy to 3 Princesses Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: DFW Texas
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| I am so so sorry. I hope things work out between you an your mother.
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10-18-2007, 08:01 AM | #8 |
Love my Boys Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: w/ my boys
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| So sorry you had to go through that with someone close to you....Sometimes we tend to take out our frustrations on the ones closest to us...I guess we think it's safer to do so.... Your mom probably feels just as bad as you do....after you two cool off and can talk, it will work out.... Just ?'s to ask yourself...Is this out of the ordinary for your mom? If so then something must be wrong. If this is typical then this is nothing new......Has your relationship been good or has it been strained?....I hope you are able to clear this up soon....
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10-18-2007, 08:15 AM | #9 | |
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My husband says this is it and I can't go back. I don't want this to ruin my mother and me, no matter what, she is my mom and I love her dearly. I just don't know what to do. | |
10-18-2007, 08:17 AM | #10 | |
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10-18-2007, 08:25 AM | #11 | |
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I just went to take the "kids" for a nice walk but it's so darn windy here that we had to turn around Guess we may be getting a tornado so hopefully all is well and I can take them for a nice walk after bit! | |
10-18-2007, 08:28 AM | #13 | |
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10-18-2007, 08:34 AM | #14 |
Misssing Baby Chloe Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2007 Location: California
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| Im sure Mom is missing you already. I know I could not work for my mom. I love her, she would be too demanding. Im sure you will work out your differences.
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10-18-2007, 08:38 AM | #15 |
Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida
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| I'm sorry Hopefully she'll come to realize how valuable your help really was!
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