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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles  it comes in spurts, we have had spats before where she says she dosents want me to come back, but then within a couple hours she is calling me crying saying she is sorry.
My husband says this is it and I can't go back.
I don't want this to ruin my mother and me, no matter what, she is my mom and I love her dearly.
I just don't know what to do. |
Aww...I feel for you...Maybe in a calm moment you can tell her that you love her BUT, she can't be taking her frustrations/ upsets out on you because it's to upsetting and stressful for you and the bickering is solving nothing, and tell her that in the future as soon as she starts venting you are just going to leave
immediately and you'll also have to limit your visits....I hope she understands your position and it works out for you all...
