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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles Welp, I no longer have a job!
Alot of you know that I was working in private elderly care taking care of 2 Alzheimer's patients. Well I worked for my mother in my mothers homes. The ladies stay there 24/7 and I was going in during the morning and afternoon taking care of them.
Well yesterday my mom gets up and automatically starts bickering at me and this is not uncommon with her. She caught me in the wrong mood and we had a nice shouting battle and needless to say I walked home (4 miles)
You have no idea what all I did for these ladies, I did so much around that house and no matter how much or what I did, it seemed like it was never enough. My stress point is already at a 10 and she threw it to a 100 lol
I just can't take it no more.
This is so sad, this is my own mother, and she is always criticizing me. It's just not worth it.
I'm just so bummed and so sad cause I LOVED these ladies, I worked there for over 2 years and I'm just so hurt. |
You can love your mother at arms length too. Sounds like you were taken for granted and I know all to well how that goes. I'm sure she will eventually realize just how much you do for them. In the meantime, just go for long walks, relax and meditate. Get yourself taken care of now.