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10-06-2007, 05:20 PM | #1 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| Tell me if I am wrong Josh and I , hes the BF, have been having communications problems. He goes to college and works on his truck 4 hours a day, 5 days a week. THEN he comes home, around 1 ish and works on it some more, then when I get off work at 4 and I call him and just want to talk 5-15 mins.. he blows me off! Then today, we were getting along in the first part, but I haven't talked to him since 11!!! I called him mom bc I was worried about him and she said that hes working on his brothers truck!!! its 9:18, and still he won't answer his phone. But I do know that if his brothers wife calls he will answer her call!!!! I am soo mad, I am about to start crying. What should I do, I have tried not talking to him for a few days, but that didn't work.. Any advise, PLEASE!!! |
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10-06-2007, 05:23 PM | #2 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
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| i am probably the WORST person to give advice.. lol... i'm very jaded... but i'm of the opinion that if he wants to be with you... truly wants to be with you... he'll do whatever he can to see you...t alk to you.. make you smile.. otherwise... he just sint' that into you.. i was with my ex for 3 years when he decided he had moved on... didn't wnat to see me.... didn't want to talk on the phone.... i'm not saying that is what is happening here... but yuo might want to let him know you are really upset and this is not what you want out of a relationship. sorry bella.. guys suck |
10-06-2007, 05:24 PM | #3 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| I have, and this is not the first time. I don't want to sit and talk to him while hes working on the car, but I do like to check in, tell him things.. etc.. |
10-06-2007, 05:26 PM | #4 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
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| how long have you been together??? how old ar eyou both? |
10-06-2007, 05:26 PM | #5 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| OH!! This is the BF that I am suppose to be going to the mountains with this coming up weekend, which I can't get my money back!!! AND the one that I put a deposit on a frieken ring!! I was soo stupid. I am going to go and get a nice pair of ear rings, I think. |
10-06-2007, 05:26 PM | #6 |
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10-06-2007, 05:27 PM | #7 |
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| I'm wondering if you're a little young? I think my advise would be to work on filling your life up with your own interests. It sounds like your bf has his own priorities and if you expend all your energy trying to change those priorities, I'm afraid you'll wind up unhappy. But really, it's your life and only you know the whole story so what do you think you should do? |
10-06-2007, 05:27 PM | #8 |
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| Is this a truck emergency or is working on trucks his hobby? Will this be a temporary thing, or all the time? I get the feeling this is an "all the time" thing. In that case, you need to ask yourself if this is how you want to spend your life...being 2nd to a TRUCK? In all fairness, have a talk about priorities and life goals...if his are to work on his truck all the time, not spend any time with you but still expect benefits, and your's are to have a healthy, loving relationship where you both take each other's time and feelings in consideration..then you should seriously consider parting ways for awhile. If he's like this as your boyfriend, he'll be 10 times worse as a husband. You deserve more...don't give him permission to treat you as if you don't matter.
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10-06-2007, 05:28 PM | #9 | |
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Oh, no its not an emergency. They like to make thigns faster, like he works on his mustang all the time. And hes working on his brothers truck installing a part for performance. | |
10-06-2007, 05:29 PM | #10 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
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| wow... i hate to say it.. but you guys are young.. I WAS YOUNG at 22 when all this happneed for me... but maybe he is getting scared.... a deposit on a ring??? that's intense for anyone.. maybe he figures if he can push you away you'll break up with him??? but i mean i don't know either of you but it is sounding awefully familiar to me |
10-06-2007, 05:29 PM | #11 | |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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Oh, no its not an emergency. They like to make thigns faster, like he works on his mustang all the time. And hes working on his brothers truck installing a part for performance. I like him a lot, but I have to admit hes not romantic. I want a guy to send me flowers on any day, or atleast my bday.. I want to say thigns that i "want" and not have to make a list for my bday and him just go off the thigns I have said in the past that I want. | |
10-06-2007, 05:30 PM | #12 | |
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Oh, I regret that ring.. I will go get a nice pair of earrings, or necklace next week!!! We only put $200 down, but still its $200. Then we put $250 on the cabin, that we can't get back, and still owe $400!! | |
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10-06-2007, 05:31 PM | #14 | |
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10-06-2007, 05:32 PM | #15 | |
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The reason I wasn't calling him, would be bc he would yell at me, cuss at me, and I DON"T deserve that! So I said that I wasn't going to talk to him for a week, but it fell through, new I should have lasted I wouldn't be upset now. | |
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