i am probably the WORST person to give advice.. lol... i'm very jaded... but i'm of the opinion that if he wants to be with you... truly wants to be with you... he'll do whatever he can to see you...t alk to you.. make you smile.. otherwise... he just sint' that into you.. i was with my ex for 3 years when he decided he had moved on... didn't wnat to see me.... didn't want to talk on the phone.... i'm not saying that is what is happening here... but yuo might want to let him know you are really upset and this is not what you want out of a relationship. sorry bella.. guys suck