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ChestersMom · 09-02-2007, 07:18 PM

I've been checking the posts regularly, waiting to hear from you. I was so excited to see you'd posted.

Be kind to yourself, do what you need to do. We'll all be waiting for your wonderful humor and kindness.

Hugs!
Jacki
Harry, Chloe & Darla

peanut · 09-02-2007, 07:19 PM

Glad to see you were finally able to post...do you know how much you have been missed on here...I know about the sleeping habits but I will for once keep my mouth shut

I love you girl, and miss you on here so much, but I know how hard it is for you, I will be talking to you soon...give those girls a big kiss & hug from me...and give yourself a big hug, your in my thoughts V...

wemple2 · 09-02-2007, 07:21 PM

V...First and foremost take care, it is never easy to lose one that we love...time helps, but it is so very hard. At first it seems as though, it's not real...like maybe it's just a terrible dream. But as time goes by, the reality does set in, I think that is the hardest thing to deal with. I remember what my father told me on his death bed...he said "Life is for the living, do not dwell on my death, I want you to live your life as I have lived mine". That is exactly what you must do...you must live your life and try not to dwell on your husbands death. Remember him yes, always...as he was, while living his life. And the fond memories that you shared will forever be part of that life.
Wish that there was more we could do to help you through this rough spot...but just knowing you have us, your friends to turn to any time you may need us, I hope comforts you in some way. You still have a whole lot of love to share...and many friends that truly care. Hugs to you Villette...take care.

crb · 09-02-2007, 07:23 PM

Oh V, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't been on much at all and never saw the post. I am glad to hear you are doing better and am sending prayers your way.

babi1542 · 09-02-2007, 07:24 PM

HI! Just take one day at a time, someday you will only remember the good warm memories. Please know that we are all here for you! Take good care of yourself.

mizzwanned · 09-02-2007, 07:46 PM

Ohhh V we are all thinking about you thru this tough time and always cause we all love you! Please, and i don't know what is going on but don't let anyone's bad intentions and words get to you. Only God knows why they do those things, it's sad really. We all love you and praying for you.

Sarah

Rae Rae · 09-02-2007, 08:15 PM

I'm glad your back and posting! It's good to see you back. I hope your doing O.K and hanging in there. Remember, were all here for you!

miezzi · 09-02-2007, 08:16 PM

Hey Vee! Glad to hear from ya! Hope you are taking care of yourself. We are here for ya if you need anything!

HUGS!

sweetr72 · 09-02-2007, 08:50 PM

Hi Villette..

Its good to see your post...you are surely missed on YT...rarely do I read a thread without you posting on it and not seeing that has been strange..you are a kind wonderful person and I cant imagine being in your shoes right now but you have us to lean on when times get tough..so nice to hear the girls have been there for you as I knew they would be...our furkids are a good source of comfort and joy..take care and hope to see you back on here regularly in the next little while...

Dawn

Little Bit · 09-03-2007, 12:19 AM

It's good to hear from you. I think of you daily and keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Booboo'smommy · 09-03-2007, 02:04 AM

Hi Villette

I am so happy you posted. When I read the post I cried of happiness that you are back and of sadness that you are hurting. Make sure you get lots of sleep and take time for yourself. You need to be strong for you and for the girls. We are always thinking about you and we keep sending our prayers
Maria and the babies

Yorkiekids · 09-03-2007, 04:11 AM

V we all love you, and I'm sorry if someone upset you. This is a time for everyone to pull together for you. Love you, and hope time helps you heal. You're in my prayers.

chachi · 09-03-2007, 04:26 AM

Villette it is nice to see you on here. I hope you continue to heal. If you need anything let me know I am continuing to pray for you

Monday · 09-03-2007, 04:42 AM

As with any loss, you don’t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story—part of what makes you uniquely you.

You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May G-d's loving hand touch you and give you comfort through the days ahead.

It may seem as if this hurt will last forever, but you will get through it although you will never get over it.
Take it one day at a time ... just baby steps. And the less you dwell on it publicly, the easier it will be.
I believe I was quite a bit younger than you when this happened 5 years ago, and I felt so alone ... the loneliness was the saddest part, I missed him so much. Think of all the "fun" times ... it will help ...

I used to cry while the dentist was examining my teeth ... especially if a song came on that reminded me of my sweet husband.

all my love goes your way ... and you are right, cherish what we have while we have it ...

Life is precious. So is yours.

Magneticgal · 09-03-2007, 04:43 AM

Vilette- I am glad to see you on here again. I am sure the last couple weeks have been very difficult for you- I can't even imagine. I am here if you just need someone to simply listen. You are still in my thoughts and prayers everyday!

09-02-2007, 07:19 PM	#32
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	Glad to see you were finally able to post...do you know how much you have been missed on here...I know about the sleeping habits but I will for once keep my mouth shut I love you girl, and miss you on here so much, but I know how hard it is for you, I will be talking to you soon...give those girls a big kiss & hug from me...and give yourself a big hug, your in my thoughts V... __________________ KIM

09-02-2007, 07:21 PM	#33
wemple2 Wee Winston Wiggles Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Kewanee, Illinois Posts: 9,666	V...First and foremost take care, it is never easy to lose one that we love...time helps, but it is so very hard. At first it seems as though, it's not real...like maybe it's just a terrible dream. But as time goes by, the reality does set in, I think that is the hardest thing to deal with. I remember what my father told me on his death bed...he said "Life is for the living, do not dwell on my death, I want you to live your life as I have lived mine". That is exactly what you must do...you must live your life and try not to dwell on your husbands death. Remember him yes, always...as he was, while living his life. And the fond memories that you shared will forever be part of that life. Wish that there was more we could do to help you through this rough spot...but just knowing you have us, your friends to turn to any time you may need us, I hope comforts you in some way. You still have a whole lot of love to share...and many friends that truly care. Hugs to you Villette...take care. __________________ As Ever, Kathy Intruducing Bentley Winston and Spencer: RIP My Sweet Angels

09-02-2007, 07:24 PM	#35
babi1542 Double Trouble Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 4,658	HI! Just take one day at a time, someday you will only remember the good warm memories. Please know that we are all here for you! Take good care of yourself. __________________ PEBBLES AND SASHA MY DOGS ARE NOT SPOILED...I'M JUST WELL TRAINED!

09-02-2007, 07:46 PM	#36
mizzwanned Donating YT 11K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: new york Posts: 14,007 Blog Entries: 2	Ohhh V we are all thinking about you thru this tough time and always cause we all love you! Please, and i don't know what is going on but don't let anyone's bad intentions and words get to you. Only God knows why they do those things, it's sad really. We all love you and praying for you. Sarah __________________ Primrose, Teddy..RIP, Livie..RIP, And can never forget my duo Sophie and London, Run in Peace <3

09-02-2007, 08:16 PM	#38
miezzi I Love My 3 Lovebugs! Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: north east ohio Posts: 4,776	Hey Vee! Glad to hear from ya! Hope you are taking care of yourself. We are here for ya if you need anything! HUGS! __________________ ~Mandy~Proud Mommie to Luigi, Brasco & Livi

09-02-2007, 07:18 PM	#31
ChestersMom YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Bacliff, TX Posts: 947	I've been checking the posts regularly, waiting to hear from you. I was so excited to see you'd posted. Be kind to yourself, do what you need to do. We'll all be waiting for your wonderful humor and kindness. Hugs! Jacki Harry, Chloe & Darla

09-02-2007, 07:23 PM	#34
crb Luvin' 6 Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Bryan/College Station, TX Posts: 1,606	Oh V, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I haven't been on much at all and never saw the post. I am glad to hear you are doing better and am sending prayers your way.

09-02-2007, 08:15 PM	#37
Rae Rae YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: Illinois Posts: 4,823	I'm glad your back and posting! It's good to see you back. I hope your doing O.K and hanging in there. Remember, were all here for you!

09-02-2007, 08:50 PM	#39
sweetr72 No Longer a Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Ontario, Canada Posts: 6,111	Hi Villette.. Its good to see your post...you are surely missed on YT...rarely do I read a thread without you posting on it and not seeing that has been strange..you are a kind wonderful person and I cant imagine being in your shoes right now but you have us to lean on when times get tough..so nice to hear the girls have been there for you as I knew they would be...our furkids are a good source of comfort and joy..take care and hope to see you back on here regularly in the next little while... Dawn

09-03-2007, 12:19 AM	#40
Little Bit Tiny Dog Big Heart Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 6,205	It's good to hear from you. I think of you daily and keep you in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Little Bit

09-03-2007, 02:04 AM	#41
Booboo'smommy LUV my 3 Furrs & Alex Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Worcester-UK Posts: 4,621 Blog Entries: 1	Hi Villette I am so happy you posted. When I read the post I cried of happiness that you are back and of sadness that you are hurting. Make sure you get lots of sleep and take time for yourself. You need to be strong for you and for the girls. We are always thinking about you and we keep sending our prayers Maria and the babies __________________ Mommy 's AlexBoo-BooPheoebeand Snowy WE YT

09-03-2007, 04:11 AM	#42
Yorkiekids Piper & Sebastian Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: florida Posts: 14,495	V we all love you, and I'm sorry if someone upset you. This is a time for everyone to pull together for you. Love you, and hope time helps you heal. You're in my prayers. __________________ Susan, Piper ,Harley & Suiki

09-03-2007, 04:26 AM	#43
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	Villette it is nice to see you on here. I hope you continue to heal. If you need anything let me know I am continuing to pray for you __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

09-03-2007, 04:42 AM	#44
Monday AND Friday also! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Long Island Posts: 3,371	you can do this ... as hard as it seems ... As with any loss, you don’t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story—part of what makes you uniquely you. You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May G-d's loving hand touch you and give you comfort through the days ahead. It may seem as if this hurt will last forever, but you will get through it although you will never get over it. Take it one day at a time ... just baby steps. And the less you dwell on it publicly, the easier it will be. I believe I was quite a bit younger than you when this happened 5 years ago, and I felt so alone ... the loneliness was the saddest part, I missed him so much. Think of all the "fun" times ... it will help ... I used to cry while the dentist was examining my teeth ... especially if a song came on that reminded me of my sweet husband. all my love goes your way ... and you are right, cherish what we have while we have it ... Life is precious. So is yours. __________________ Like dogs, we should sniff butts, not kiss them. Dogs have more friends because they wag their tails, not their tongues. http://music.clevver.com/video/25815...ersion-300.php

09-03-2007, 04:43 AM	#45
Magneticgal Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Canton,Ohio Posts: 514	Vilette- I am glad to see you on here again. I am sure the last couple weeks have been very difficult for you- I can't even imagine. I am here if you just need someone to simply listen. You are still in my thoughts and prayers everyday! __________________ Kris , RIP Lexie , Bella Zoey