[Monday]

As with any loss, you don’t really get over it. You get through it and assimilate the experience, so that the life and death of the one you love becomes part of your life story—part of what makes you uniquely you.

You and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. May G-d's loving hand touch you and give you comfort through the days ahead.

It may seem as if this hurt will last forever, but you will get through it although you will never get over it.
Take it one day at a time ... just baby steps. And the less you dwell on it publicly, the easier it will be.
I believe I was quite a bit younger than you when this happened 5 years ago, and I felt so alone ... the loneliness was the saddest part, I missed him so much. Think of all the "fun" times ... it will help ...

I used to cry while the dentist was examining my teeth ... especially if a song came on that reminded me of my sweet husband.

all my love goes your way ... and you are right, cherish what we have while we have it ...

Life is precious. So is yours.