V...First and foremost take care, it is never easy to lose one that we love...time helps, but it is so very hard. At first it seems as though, it's not real...like maybe it's just a terrible dream. But as time goes by, the reality does set in, I think that is the hardest thing to deal with. I remember what my father told me on his death bed...he said "Life is for the living, do not dwell on my death, I want you to live your life as I have lived mine". That is exactly what you must do...you must live your life and try not to dwell on your husbands death. Remember him yes, always...as he was, while living his life. And the fond memories that you shared will forever be part of that life.
Wish that there was more we could do to help you through this rough spot...but just knowing you have us, your friends to turn to any time you may need us, I hope comforts you in some way. You still have a whole lot of love to share...and many friends that truly care. Hugs to you Villette...take care.
__________________ As Ever, Kathy 
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