Crushed and Heart Broken!!!

[Bruce's_Mom]

Originally Posted by Sharonandtink

No, with this one we are doing it to get through school. About being friends afterwards....I have been friends with all my ex boyfriends and even my ex husband. Don is the only one that I have not been able too. Ex's turn out to be the greatest friends once you get past the hard awkward time.

That is just what I think,
Sharon

Oh boy...I am just wrapping up the most significant relationship I have had thus far, and I must say you are bigger person than I because I do not think there is a day that myself and this gentleman could be friends let alone good ones...I think that no matter how far removed from one another we are, even if I am married to someone else, things will always be awkward.

[Sharonandtink]

Originally Posted by Bruce's_Mom

Oh boy...I am just wrapping up the most significant relationship I have had thus far, and I must say you are bigger person than I because I do not think there is a day that myself and this gentleman could be friends let alone good ones...I think that no matter how far removed from one another we are, even if I am married to someone else, things will always be awkward.

Well I am not going to say that it is easy. But it is well worth it if you are both for the same page. You just have to be honest and sometimes willing to take some truth about yourself.

[celstu1]

Originally Posted by Sharonandtink

Thank all you guys so much for all the kind words. It has been hard since last Thursday, but I am starting to feel much better about things.

On Tuesday I dropped of the key to the storage unit at his work in an envelope including the conversation that his girlfriend and I had on Thurday. I text messaged him in worry that she would find it stuck to his truck instead of him. He texted me back "Thanks." I had no idea if he had read it by then or not. So still no word and I am not really searching for anything either. The last couple of days I have been thinking......Someone who would sleep with someone after just meeting them does not have the morals that I would like it the man that I marry. Also someone who would give up a 4 year friendship for someone that they have just met less then 2 months is not someone that I would like to even have as a friend.

I am not sure if this is going to happen when he comes back and tries to be my friend again. But that is my thinking as of the last couple days.

So do you think that I am right in my thinking or am I being too harsh?

Thanks again for all your support.
Sharon

How about 'someone who does not want to be seen in public with me and does not want anyone to know we are dating, even his PARENTS is NOT someone I want to be dating or even be friends with!'

[Sharonandtink]

Originally Posted by celstu1

How about 'someone who does not want to be seen in public with me and does not want anyone to know we are dating, even his PARENTS is NOT someone I want to be dating or even be friends with!'

Is this a question for me or is it one from you personally?

[Shadow]

I think she is saying is that is what you should tell the A$$

Originally Posted by Sharonandtink

Is this a question for me or is it one from you personally?

[celstu1]

Originally Posted by Sharonandtink

Is this a question for me or is it one from you personally?

Sorry LOL in your response I quoted, you were asking yourself similar questions and so I thought Id throw that in there for you to ask yourself too!

[Sharonandtink]

Thank you so much for clarifying that. That is what I should have said yes. But I was caught up in the heat of the moment and all I could think of was the friendship that we had and the girl he was give me up for.

I should have focused on what he was doing to me. Yes. Thank you for all the good advise. This has helped me so much in giving me the push to grow as an independent woman. If anyone has more advise I will be more then happy to hear it. Even if it does hurt.