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Daisy23 · 03-31-2007, 06:01 PM

my grandma lost her battle to cancer (http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...=pray+grandma) i'm devestated

things were starting to look better but as they say its the calm before the storm. the cancer spread to her belly and she had her first treatment of chemo last week but it didnt help. i saw her twice a day when she was in the hospital and then when she went back to the nursing home is was there every night. i went to see her last night and she didnt look good at all, she was very bloated and in alot of pain. they gave her a morphine patch to help the pain in her belly. she told me last night she was dying and i said "no you're not, you're going to be ok" it was time for me to leave i kissed her and said i'll see you in the morning. i was there today at 8am when they opened and she was doing much better, she was sitting up, eating, looked happy. i kissed her bye and said i'll see you later. i got the call i didnt want not even two hours later i told my mom to tell her im on my way to wait for me, i got there and got to talk to her and she listened to me (she couldnt speak), i kissed her told her i loved her and i can deal with that because she's not in pain anymore.

i was SO close with my nanny and im going to miss her dearly. thank you ALL for letting me talk about this. i dont know what im going to do w/my time and w/out her.

i love you nanny

RIP

YorkieMom55 · 03-31-2007, 06:13 PM

Oh, my dear, I'm so sorry for you and your family. You might not realize it now but you were able to give your grandmother one final gift. You were there with her at the end. That tells me that you loved her so much. My heart hurts for you tonight and my prayers are for comfort for you and your family.

Hugs

Breny · 03-31-2007, 06:13 PM

Oh no

I'm sooo sorry. How horrible for you and your family. I'm sending my prayers to you, and your family and I'm so, so sorry.

Please take care.

marcerella02 · 03-31-2007, 06:16 PM

oh i am SO sorry.. i know exactly how you feel... 3 years ago i lost both my grandparents within a month of eachother.. we knew my grandpa was sick.. but my grandma died suddenly... i send my condolences to you and your family.. you have a very special guardian angel now

Lovin3Yorkies · 03-31-2007, 06:18 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss, I had tears in my eyes reading that.

Pam

JESSY_RN2B · 03-31-2007, 06:20 PM

I am terribly sorry

May she rest in peace.

TyraandMrJ · 03-31-2007, 06:36 PM

when I go to church tomorrow I'll say a prayer for you and your Gran. Hugs Hun. I know it's tough. tyty

Zeus' Mom · 03-31-2007, 06:38 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers.

Hokule'a · 03-31-2007, 07:01 PM

Oh, I'm so sorry you lost your beloved grandmother. How wonderful that she waited for you to say goodbye

Will keep you in my prayers!

Marcellacml · 03-31-2007, 07:05 PM

I'm so sorry for your loss.

ing for you and your family.

BubblPopElectrc · 03-31-2007, 07:08 PM

So sorry. I know this sounds so cliche, but at least she is no longer in any pain. As someone who has also lost their grandmother, who they were very close to, as time goes on you'll start to feel better. Again, sorry.

Patti · 03-31-2007, 07:15 PM

I am so sorry. I lost my Mom 2 1/2 weeks ago and it is so devastating. I am so glad you were able to be with her at the end. Just take it one day at a time. I am taking care of my Dad so I am kept busy. If you have extra time you may like to volunteer with seniors who have no one to visit.

peanut · 03-31-2007, 07:17 PM

I am so sorry for your loss...I will be praying for you and your family.....

Tiggerwit · 03-31-2007, 07:34 PM

Oh I'm sorry

Amber_lv · 03-31-2007, 07:47 PM

I am so sorry for your loss

We are here for you if you need anything please let me know even if you just need a shoulder to cry on

03-31-2007, 06:01 PM	#1
Daisy23 Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: LaLa Land Posts: 967	My grandma passed away my grandma lost her battle to cancer (http://www.yorkietalk.com/forums/sho...=pray+grandma) i'm devestated things were starting to look better but as they say its the calm before the storm. the cancer spread to her belly and she had her first treatment of chemo last week but it didnt help. i saw her twice a day when she was in the hospital and then when she went back to the nursing home is was there every night. i went to see her last night and she didnt look good at all, she was very bloated and in alot of pain. they gave her a morphine patch to help the pain in her belly. she told me last night she was dying and i said "no you're not, you're going to be ok" it was time for me to leave i kissed her and said i'll see you in the morning. i was there today at 8am when they opened and she was doing much better, she was sitting up, eating, looked happy. i kissed her bye and said i'll see you later. i got the call i didnt want not even two hours later i told my mom to tell her im on my way to wait for me, i got there and got to talk to her and she listened to me (she couldnt speak), i kissed her told her i loved her and i can deal with that because she's not in pain anymore. i was SO close with my nanny and im going to miss her dearly. thank you ALL for letting me talk about this. i dont know what im going to do w/my time and w/out her. i love you nanny RIP __________________ Dana, Daisy & Jersey

03-31-2007, 06:13 PM	#2
YorkieMom55 All Dogs Go To Heaven Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: By The Lake Posts: 2,727	Oh, my dear, I'm so sorry for you and your family. You might not realize it now but you were able to give your grandmother one final gift. You were there with her at the end. That tells me that you loved her so much. My heart hurts for you tonight and my prayers are for comfort for you and your family. Hugs __________________ Jeanie I am @ the Lake Jackson, Maggie, Sunshine, Bailey, Rocky, Emmie & Jack

03-31-2007, 06:13 PM	#3
Breny My Tiny Treasures Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: . Posts: 11,790 Blog Entries: 3	Oh no I'm sooo sorry. How horrible for you and your family. I'm sending my prayers to you, and your family and I'm so, so sorry. Please take care. __________________ http://Brenysbabies.com

03-31-2007, 06:16 PM	#4
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 11,257	oh i am SO sorry.. i know exactly how you feel... 3 years ago i lost both my grandparents within a month of eachother.. we knew my grandpa was sick.. but my grandma died suddenly... i send my condolences to you and your family.. you have a very special guardian angel now __________________ http://misscanam.blogspot.com/ Layla 's Simon

03-31-2007, 06:18 PM	#5
Lovin3Yorkies Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: VA Posts: 163	I'm so sorry I'm so sorry for your loss, I had tears in my eyes reading that. Pam

03-31-2007, 06:20 PM	#6
JESSY_RN2B Owned by 3 furballs Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Texas Posts: 6,581	I am terribly sorry May she rest in peace. __________________ Bobbi Yorkietalk http://www.dogster.com/dogs/395435 And now........little Aja too! http://www.picturetrail.com/sfx/album/view/23776545

03-31-2007, 06:36 PM	#7
TyraandMrJ YT Addict Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: Lexington,Ky Go WILDCATS Posts: 460	I'm soo sorry when I go to church tomorrow I'll say a prayer for you and your Gran. Hugs Hun. I know it's tough. tyty

03-31-2007, 06:38 PM	#8
Zeus' Mom Enja's Mom too! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 2,765	I am so very sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my prayers. __________________ Farrah, Zeus, Enja & Riley

03-31-2007, 07:01 PM	#9
Hokule'a Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Salt Lake City, UT Posts: 4,591	Oh, I'm so sorry you lost your beloved grandmother. How wonderful that she waited for you to say goodbye Will keep you in my prayers! __________________ Eva and her keikis: Hokule'a, Kalani & Pi'ilani

03-31-2007, 07:05 PM	#10
Marcellacml Cosmo, Minnie, and Lillian Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: New York Posts: 3,107	I'm so sorry for your loss. ing for you and your family.

03-31-2007, 07:08 PM	#11
BubblPopElectrc Kyle Plus 3 Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Washington, DC Posts: 6,929	So sorry. I know this sounds so cliche, but at least she is no longer in any pain. As someone who has also lost their grandmother, who they were very close to, as time goes on you'll start to feel better. Again, sorry. __________________ Kyle (me), Britney, Brooklyn, and Coral

03-31-2007, 07:15 PM	#12
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry. I lost my Mom 2 1/2 weeks ago and it is so devastating. I am so glad you were able to be with her at the end. Just take it one day at a time. I am taking care of my Dad so I am kept busy. If you have extra time you may like to volunteer with seniors who have no one to visit. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

03-31-2007, 07:17 PM	#13
peanut Dogs Rule Cats Drool! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Tennessee Posts: 7,895	I am so sorry for your loss...I will be praying for you and your family..... __________________ KIM

03-31-2007, 07:34 PM	#14
Tiggerwit Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX Posts: 4,596	Oh I'm sorry __________________ "Be kinder than necessary, for everyone is fighting some kind of battle." Alphy 's Roxy

03-31-2007, 07:47 PM	#15
Amber_lv Peeka Boo I See You! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Salt Lake Posts: 7,161 Blog Entries: 3	I am so sorry for your loss We are here for you if you need anything please let me know even if you just need a shoulder to cry on __________________ Peeka-Boo-Daisy-Designs <---Click Here Peeka's MyspaceDaisy's Myspace Peeka's Dogster