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12-01-2006, 07:43 PM | #1 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
Posts: 11,257
| just venting i took layla to watch my parent's curl tonight.. we do this most fridays (i'm 23.. live with my mom and dad and go to university) anways.. layla is always a big hit there.. eveyrone jsut loves to come see her and play with her.. so we were sitting around after they played and this one woman was really interested in her and the things we do with her and so we were talking and our family has made the decision that layla won't be left alone at home.. we have the lifestyle where someone can always be with her (my parents own their own business) and she kinda looked at me like iw as nuts.. then she says.. maybe you should spend more time trying to get a date than with your dog. i'm sure she was joking... but it really hurt me... i mean she woudl never know that my bf of 3 years.. the guy was going to marry... broke up with me in june... and that i've been heartbroken ever since (doing better.. but still... ) but regardless of whether that had happened to me.. i thought the comment was rude to me and to layla... who i love more than anything... i would much rather spend my evenings with her than at some bar being hit on by drunk guys ... is that wrong? maybe do i spend too much time with her?? i feel like i'm always at school and when i'm not.. i just want to be with her and spend time with her.. i dunno.. didn't know who else to tell this to that would understand.. |
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12-01-2006, 07:50 PM | #2 |
Princess Bella Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: virginia
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| Ummmmmmmmmmmmm who is you she to make comments on your personal life! BOO! That's so rude! She should of just pet your gorgeous furbaby, felt blessed enough to do that, and go on her merry way. Pay her no mind, she's obviously foolish
__________________ I miss you two more then words can express, but I still have hope that I'll find you and hold you again! Tucker and Teddy always say: "If I want it, it's mine and if I put it in my mouth, it's food." |
12-01-2006, 07:56 PM | #3 |
I <3 Ferdinand Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Arizona
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| WHAT a capital B!!! I'm also 23, just moved out of my parents house as I was going to school. I was in a similar situation with the breakup thing a while back, and I would have felt the same way you did if someone would have said that. That's so rude! I would also much rather be at home with my furbaby than out at a bar surounded by drunk, obnoxious guys.
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12-01-2006, 08:00 PM | #4 | |
Donating YT 10K Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Alabama
Posts: 17,674
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....btw I have two single sons -- both are real hotties and neither one is dating at the moment -- RG, 24, is a serious natured nursing student and Earl is a more happy-go-lucky kinda guy.... PM me if you are interested..... | |
12-01-2006, 08:00 PM | #5 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
Posts: 11,257
| thanks britta.. i feel the same way... and who's to say i have to have a bf?? it's like.. if you are in your 20's and single.. something's wrong... i'm just trying to mend a broken heart so i can move on... but i'm glad you understand thanks ehunney. i was worried it was my reaction.. but i'm glad to see it was her... still hurts.. but i appreciate the support |
12-01-2006, 08:10 PM | #6 |
Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member | People can say things without thinking of what it could really mean to you and maybe she didn't mean it to sting ? you have nothing to be wondering about - most girls your age don't know what it's like to take care of anything but their own selves - you should be proud of what you're doing and you don't need a guy to do it with either - I'm sorry you're still getting over your b/f - that must have really hurt to be still so fresh but you're lucky to have layla the guys will come and go - maybe one will stay and be the 'One' ...but for now, you know she loves you and if you're happy with yourself - that's all that counts |
12-01-2006, 08:14 PM | #7 |
Just me 'n my boys Donating Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Murphy, TX
Posts: 4,596
| Bad form... how rude. You have plenty of time to shop around, trust me. I say this from experience of marrying at 18.
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12-01-2006, 08:29 PM | #8 |
I Love My Munchkins! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: My Babies ♥'s!
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| That lady was just being rude. I'm 25 and would much rather be at home with my dogs then out at some bar. Don't pay any attention to her or anyone else that feels like passing judgement on you when they don't even know you. Theres nothing wrong with you!! I'm sorry your still hurting over the breakup. I'm sure the right guy will come along one one day. You seem like a very nice person so don't give up hope.
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12-01-2006, 08:29 PM | #9 |
Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Indiana
Posts: 4,685
| Not a very nice thing to say at all. I would just ignore it the best you can, although I know it's hard to ignore how it made you feel. Some people just speak without thinking. That's what's wrong with people now days, they need to stop and think!
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12-01-2006, 08:35 PM | #10 |
Kyle Plus 3 Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Washington, DC
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| I can relate, as I am in a similar situation (although the only difference is that I am in a relationship). With classes and all the work, I don't FEEL like going out EVERY Friday and Saturday night or go out somewhere every single second I'm not in class. Don't get me wrong, I think it's important to go out with friends occasionally and all.
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12-01-2006, 08:37 PM | #11 |
BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED | I agree with you, I would much rather spend the evening with my yorkie then at a bar! No matter how many broken hearts you will have, layla will never break your heart, she will always be there for you! I think you will find your Mr. Right all in good time, you cant force love onto someone, it will happen when the time is right, in the mean time, spend as much time with layla as you want! Dont ever let anyone tell you that you "need" to date! apparently this woman has never owned a Yorkie before! |
12-01-2006, 08:57 PM | #12 |
Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada
Posts: 11,257
| you guys are the best... you totally made me feel better... i think i was upset at the reminder that i was single but i'm getting over it... and you are right.. layla will always be here... i just love hanging out with her.. thanks for the nice words everyone! |
12-01-2006, 09:02 PM | #13 |
& LuvtheCarley too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wa State/Texas
Posts: 1,625
| Some people just don't get it. They don't get that it's not all right to say rude things to other people. They don't get it that others don't care for their unsolicited advice. And mostly they don't get how these little ones are very important to us. It really is their loss, and those people just will never get the love that we get from our babies. These people are the ones missing out, probably in their people relationships too, if they are so judgemental. I wouldn't let her take up any more space in my head, she is so not worth it.
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12-01-2006, 11:15 PM | #14 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | I completely understand... I mean some people just don't get it. Sometimes when I take Teddy on the train once in a while I will get a person looking at me like I'm nuts but then most people stop and say hi to him. But when the occasional ppl that aren't dog ppl look at me weird I feel bad too. I would also rather spend time home w/ my dog sometimes than just go out to a club or somewhere crazy. Don't feel bad. That B!t** shoulda kept her mouth closed! |
12-02-2006, 01:19 AM | #15 |
My2Pearls Chelsey & Chanel YT Donator Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: N
Posts: 4,097
| That was rude of her to say, but people do say things without thinking. Just think to yourself "she doesnt know any better" you are a better person, coz you wouldnt say anything like that to someone else. It's not at all strange that you want to be with her anytime you can, i wish everyone would love their fur kids that way Be proud of yourself |
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