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yougetthesmiles · 11-19-2006, 08:56 AM

Ohhh Lordy you guys! I had a nice surprise last night at 2 am! I hear my husband shouting "What the F*** are you doing?" so I sit straight up in bed freaking out, I listen closely and I hear "I'm so sorry sir" I jump out of bed and in my 16 year old daughters bedroom stands a boy!!!!!!!!!

Her and her g/f let a 16 yr old boy climb in her window at 2am! Thank God my husband has eagle ears and heard this!

Needless to say mt daughter is grounded till she is 25 lol

The kid says "I'm so sorry mam, I'm gonna go home and pray" lmao!!!!!!!

What would you all do?

I plan on calling the kids mother and my daughters g/f's mom. My daughter is grounded from the phone and computer and she cant go anywhere with friends. Is 2 months to long for the 1st offence? lol

I need your imput please.

my2boyz · 11-19-2006, 09:02 AM

LOL! I'm sorry but I have to laugh...only because we were foster parents to teenage girls and usually 5 or 6 at a time...I feel your pain!! I don't really have anything that might help right now...I might later when I stop laughing though...not at you but just because this brings back sooo many memories! Anyway, a few words of advice for any parents...squeaky stairs are an asset, don't fix them...and, it's o.k. if the windows are hard to open and stick closed sometimes. Oh...and my husband says yes, he'll need a reason to go home and pray...that he recouperates quickly!

red98vett · 11-19-2006, 09:09 AM

Can I laugh also ?? Lord - I think I was 14 the first time I did that - maybe 13 even ??? Don't tell my mom ! hahahaha ...never mind - I got busted too -

but....TWO MONTHS IS KIND OF LONG MOM !!!! even 2 weeks is long at that age .....but you are the mom and know your daughter best -

but....

if I can plead on her behalf ? the embarrasment alone is pretty hard to live with and you don't want her SO grounded she goes the other way on you - but I have to say that boy came up with the BEST RESPONSE I think I've ever heard !!

LuvtheCooper · 11-19-2006, 09:31 AM

Yep, your fun is just beginning

I think 2 months is too long also.

Gotta luv the hubbies with the eagle ears!!!!

FlDebra · 11-19-2006, 09:46 AM

Two girls and one boy sneaks in? Sounds more like a prank -- two girls being a little silly and got a young boy's courage a little too high. I would think two months would be a little too long a grounding. Nothing really happened right? But always good to be able to let them off sooner for good behavior. You will all laugh about this in a few years. Honest!

mustangbee · 11-19-2006, 10:36 AM

LOL, Just love his response! And I bet he did too!
You will laugh at this a few years from now.
I have five children, 22, 21, 20, 15, & 16.
No, they never have done any thing like this.
But 2 months is a very long time for a teen. I would
sit her down and tell her Trust is one of the most important things
in life. You need to be able to trust her 100 % at all times.
I'd take her computer time away for a week, and make her be in by dark
for the week too. If she's not driving yet, I'd let her know she won't be anytime soon. If she is, let her know that driving is something you have to trust, and right now you don't, so hand over the keys until she can prove to you that you can trust her again.
I'm sure you did some things when you were a teen, we all did. And we all laugh about it now. This is just one of those times. Hang in there Mom, This is her first time, (and be ready because it won't be her last) if you handle this one right, the next one won't be so bad.

red98vett · 11-19-2006, 10:40 AM

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You will laugh at this a few years from now.
I have five children, 22, 21, 20, 15, & 16.
No, they never have done any thing like this.

That you KNOW OF

LOL !!

LuvMySissy · 11-19-2006, 10:41 AM

Oh Missy!!!

Sorry, but I laughed when I read the post, too!! What a great reponse he had. Time for a looonnnggg talk with your daughter. What was she thinking and what were they planning?!

Two months is a very long time for both her and you - but you gotta do what you think is right. Being the kind of mom I am, I WOULD call his parents and let them know also.

Might also be time for a talk on birth control. I don't believe this gives them permission, but at least you can feel more confident about protection. Raging hormones and teenagers - what 'cha gonna do!!!

mustangbee · 11-19-2006, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by red98vett

That you KNOW OF

LOL !!

marcerella02 · 11-19-2006, 11:36 AM

well being closer to your daughter's age (23... but 16 doesnt' feel THAT far away!) let me back her up! she should definitly be grounded for sneaking a boy in.. however... by the sounds of it... i don't think "much" was going to happen.. esp if she had a friend there... 2 months might be if you caught them having sex or something... maybe 3 weeks?? i just LOVE that he was going home to pray... lol... at least he has a sense of humour! let us know how your daughter fairs in all of this!

Yorkie3 · 11-19-2006, 11:47 AM

That young man...what a line...LMAO!!!! Pray!!!! I did stuff like that all the time...but luck was with me and I didn't get caught!!!

I think 7-10 days is long enough at grounding, but I would probably throw in some hard labor!!!! LOL Dishes, laundry, sweeping, dusting, and whatever else I could think of every single day....whatelse has she got to do since you took the phone and computer away..right???

My son is turning 16 next month and will have a car. I've already started a list of hard labor chores!!..LOL

abbie's mom · 11-19-2006, 11:57 AM

He was goin' home "to pray" you wouldn't call his mama!

yougetthesmiles · 11-19-2006, 01:00 PM

ohhh boy, I .loved all your reponses, yes 2 months is a little to long! lol I called my mom up this morning and she just laughed and laughed at me lol she always told me "what comes around goes around" good griefe I have 3 daughters!! my fun is just starting! LOL

I will be calling this kids mom, I have to tell you all this kid is very troubled, my daughter told me that his dad killed himself right in front of him, so ever since, he has been very troubled. I have no idea what his mom will do or say, but she needs to know that her son was out at 2am.

my2boyz · 11-19-2006, 01:12 PM

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she always told me "what comes around goes around"

My Mom always said 'what goes around comes around 10 times over'...maybe I should be thankful I had foster kids and never gave birth!! Matter of fact...I am glad and I do believe it...my (step...I hate the word!) son was a wonderful son, yet a holy terror and now he has 3 boys! I'm just sittin' back and waitin' for the fireworks! hehehe!!

dragonflysw · 11-19-2006, 01:25 PM

Wow.......it amazes me at how many mom's on here would give just a slap on the wrist!! I am a 30 year old mom and I have 2 children...boy and girl....they are still young, but god knows if I ever catch either one pulling something like this, there will be more than just restriction from the computer or come in by dark!!! I had a very lenient mother growing up and that wasn't always the best thing. Maybe I just look at this through different eyes! I too did my share of sneaking around and maybe if my mother would have taken some serious action with me......well, all I am saying is that I had a simialar situation happen to me when I was 14 years old and me and my friend were talked into sneaking out of her house by the boys......needless to say, something was taken away from me that night that changed me forever! I think my mom thought sneaking out was 'normal' and no harm could come from it, so I always recieved very little punishment.......I always wondered as an adult, that if my mom had actually given me major punishment for the times before, would I have even went out that window that night? Who knows....I did finally talk to my mom about what happen to me years later. I guess my whole point is, don't make your daughter think that sneaking boys into the house is worth 'no computer for a week'.....sometimes it's worth a whole lot more!!!!

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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

Ohhh Lordy you guys! I had a nice surprise last night at 2 am! I hear my husband shouting "What the F*** are you doing?" so I sit straight up in bed freaking out, I listen closely and I hear "I'm so sorry sir" I jump out of bed and in my 16 year old daughters bedroom stands a boy!!!!!!!!!

Her and her g/f let a 16 yr old boy climb in her window at 2am! Thank God my husband has eagle ears and heard this!

Needless to say mt daughter is grounded till she is 25 lol

The kid says "I'm so sorry mam, I'm gonna go home and pray" lmao!!!!!!!

What would you all do?

I plan on calling the kids mother and my daughters g/f's mom. My daughter is grounded from the phone and computer and she cant go anywhere with friends. Is 2 months to long for the 1st offence? lol

I need your imput please.

11-19-2006, 08:56 AM	#1
yougetthesmiles BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,295 Blog Entries: 3	My fun is just begining! Ohhh Lordy you guys! I had a nice surprise last night at 2 am! I hear my husband shouting "What the F*** are you doing?" so I sit straight up in bed freaking out, I listen closely and I hear "I'm so sorry sir" I jump out of bed and in my 16 year old daughters bedroom stands a boy!!!!!!!!! Her and her g/f let a 16 yr old boy climb in her window at 2am! Thank God my husband has eagle ears and heard this! Needless to say mt daughter is grounded till she is 25 lol The kid says "I'm so sorry mam, I'm gonna go home and pray" lmao!!!!!!! What would you all do? I plan on calling the kids mother and my daughters g/f's mom. My daughter is grounded from the phone and computer and she cant go anywhere with friends. Is 2 months to long for the 1st offence? lol I need your imput please.

11-19-2006, 09:09 AM	#3
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Can I laugh also ?? Lord - I think I was 14 the first time I did that - maybe 13 even ??? Don't tell my mom ! hahahaha ...never mind - I got busted too - but....TWO MONTHS IS KIND OF LONG MOM !!!! even 2 weeks is long at that age .....but you are the mom and know your daughter best - but.... if I can plead on her behalf ? the embarrasment alone is pretty hard to live with and you don't want her SO grounded she goes the other way on you - but I have to say that boy came up with the BEST RESPONSE I think I've ever heard !! __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

11-19-2006, 09:31 AM	#4
LuvtheCooper & LuvtheCarley too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Wa State/Texas Posts: 1,625	Yep, your fun is just beginning I think 2 months is too long also. Gotta luv the hubbies with the eagle ears!!!! __________________ Delaina Cooper & Carley

11-19-2006, 09:46 AM	#5
FlDebra Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: FL Posts: 7,651	Two girls and one boy sneaks in? Sounds more like a prank -- two girls being a little silly and got a young boy's courage a little too high. I would think two months would be a little too long a grounding. Nothing really happened right? But always good to be able to let them off sooner for good behavior. You will all laugh about this in a few years. Honest! __________________ FlDebra and her ABCs Annie, Ben, Candy Promoting Healthy Breeding to the AKC Yorkshire Terrier Standard

11-19-2006, 10:36 AM	#6
mustangbee Donating YT 9000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: North Carolina :) Posts: 10,616	LOL, Just love his response! And I bet he did too! You will laugh at this a few years from now. I have five children, 22, 21, 20, 15, & 16. No, they never have done any thing like this. But 2 months is a very long time for a teen. I would sit her down and tell her Trust is one of the most important things in life. You need to be able to trust her 100 % at all times. I'd take her computer time away for a week, and make her be in by dark for the week too. If she's not driving yet, I'd let her know she won't be anytime soon. If she is, let her know that driving is something you have to trust, and right now you don't, so hand over the keys until she can prove to you that you can trust her again. I'm sure you did some things when you were a teen, we all did. And we all laugh about it now. This is just one of those times. Hang in there Mom, This is her first time, (and be ready because it won't be her last) if you handle this one right, the next one won't be so bad. __________________ Friends are God's way of apologizing for our relatives. "Love & Support Our YT Members" Gina & Princess Member of the SSLS

11-19-2006, 09:02 AM	#2
my2boyz Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: In my house :) Posts: 5,219	LOL! I'm sorry but I have to laugh...only because we were foster parents to teenage girls and usually 5 or 6 at a time...I feel your pain!! I don't really have anything that might help right now...I might later when I stop laughing though...not at you but just because this brings back sooo many memories! Anyway, a few words of advice for any parents...squeaky stairs are an asset, don't fix them...and, it's o.k. if the windows are hard to open and stick closed sometimes. Oh...and my husband says yes, he'll need a reason to go home and pray...that he recouperates quickly!

11-19-2006, 10:41 AM	#8
LuvMySissy Luv my Angel, too! Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: USA Posts: 9,333	Oh Missy!!! Sorry, but I laughed when I read the post, too!! What a great reponse he had. Time for a looonnnggg talk with your daughter. What was she thinking and what were they planning?! Two months is a very long time for both her and you - but you gotta do what you think is right. Being the kind of mom I am, I WOULD call his parents and let them know also. Might also be time for a talk on birth control. I don't believe this gives them permission, but at least you can feel more confident about protection. Raging hormones and teenagers - what 'cha gonna do!!! __________________ Sissy & Angel

11-19-2006, 11:36 AM	#10
marcerella02 Loved by Layla Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 11,257	well being closer to your daughter's age (23... but 16 doesnt' feel THAT far away!) let me back her up! she should definitly be grounded for sneaking a boy in.. however... by the sounds of it... i don't think "much" was going to happen.. esp if she had a friend there... 2 months might be if you caught them having sex or something... maybe 3 weeks?? i just LOVE that he was going home to pray... lol... at least he has a sense of humour! let us know how your daughter fairs in all of this! __________________ http://misscanam.blogspot.com/ Layla 's Simon

11-19-2006, 11:47 AM	#11
Yorkie3 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 4,685	That young man...what a line...LMAO!!!! Pray!!!! I did stuff like that all the time...but luck was with me and I didn't get caught!!! I think 7-10 days is long enough at grounding, but I would probably throw in some hard labor!!!! LOL Dishes, laundry, sweeping, dusting, and whatever else I could think of every single day....whatelse has she got to do since you took the phone and computer away..right??? My son is turning 16 next month and will have a car. I've already started a list of hard labor chores!!..LOL __________________ Janet

11-19-2006, 11:57 AM	#12
abbie's mom Lovin' 2 Girls Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: VA Posts: 3,593 Blog Entries: 4	He was goin' home "to pray" you wouldn't call his mama! __________________ Ask Abi

11-19-2006, 01:00 PM	#13
yougetthesmiles BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,295 Blog Entries: 3	ohhh boy, I .loved all your reponses, yes 2 months is a little to long! lol I called my mom up this morning and she just laughed and laughed at me lol she always told me "what comes around goes around" good griefe I have 3 daughters!! my fun is just starting! LOL I will be calling this kids mom, I have to tell you all this kid is very troubled, my daughter told me that his dad killed himself right in front of him, so ever since, he has been very troubled. I have no idea what his mom will do or say, but she needs to know that her son was out at 2am.