Thanks! :)

Jess,
I am so glad you were able to tell your parents and work through this situation today.....that is a huge and hardest first step. I am also glad the timing will not effect your school and graduation!
I want to also tell you how proud I am that you talked with your parents today....that shows alot of maturity to face your parents with your pregnancy and begin to move forward!
And by the way....congrats and keep us informed about your pregnancy!!!

Oh Jess...I am so happy for you!!! I prayed everything would go ok...keep your chin up!!! When is the first ultrasound??? I know you will be such a good mother...I am so thankful you are keeping the baby!!! You won't regret it...the first smile...the first word...and just wait till you come in and the baby looks at you and says..."I love you mommy", all your troubles will disappear!!! I am also glad you are staying in school...if you need anything...you have my number!!!! Hugs to you!!!:)

I'm so happy for you. I know you will have hard times ahead and at times it may seem like too much, but I promise you, One look into that little babys eyes and you will know it was all worth it. I have two beautiful daughters 13 and 2 and I cant imagine my life without them. They are wonderful gifts from God. Having a child will change your entire world. You will truely begin to understand your parents as you will be so overly protective of this new bundle of joy. All those years of your parents telling you, when you have a child you will understand..... Well you will find out they are right. It will all make sense. lol Keep your head up, eat healthy, and try to avoid the stress as much as possible. I know you are young, but you can do it. I'm so thankful that your parents are helping you. My hat is off to them!!! I will keep all of you in my prayers.

Best wishes and warm thoughts heading your way. :) I'm glad everthing is starting to fall into place.:thumbup:

Congratulations!!!!
 

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I saw this thread too late and sent you a PM. I'm moving up to Chicago in a couple of weeks. I might have some baby stuff for you if you would like.

But lets turn this thread into a celebration of life! It's time to look forward to this precious baby you've been blessed with! Soon you're going to be so excited and can't wait to have the baby in your arms. Are you hoping for a boy or a girl? Have you thought of any names yet?

Try to stay positive! As you can see from this thread many women have been in the same situation. It is what you make of it. Sometimes a baby brings direction to a persons life, drive, and maturity. Things will work out in the end. If the dad doesn't want to be a part of the baby's life then it's his loss and he'll be the one to regret it. When you're ready you'll eventually find a man who will love your child as his own. For now try your best to be happy about the choice you have made. Maybe even go to the store with your mom and buy a cute outfit for the baby!

I am so happy things are working out for you!!!
I am sure you feel much better getting it out in the open and telling your parents. Now you don't have to stress over it and things are going to be just fine!!

Wow! What an awsome conclusion. I am a guy and let me tell you I read the whole thing and feel like there is great weight off my shoulders now that you have told your parents. I am so glad things turned out this way. Its just horrible to be in the "What Ifs" position.:thumbup:

Oh Jess I am so happy everything has worked out for you

Congratulations!! I just read the thread and am so happy for you. Just like Cheryl000 said ... let's all celebrate this wonderful new life! Just think .... your baby will have 100's & 100's of new "Auntie's" & Grammy's! With all this loving support, that will be one spoiled baby!! ;)

Ok here is my story. It will be 21 years ago Dec. 23rd that our oldest daughter gave birth to a little boy, we had a family discussion regarding what to do with this little boy.. :boy_hug:..Our Kim did not see herself raising him and did try, living with the dad etc. It did not work, so we the family made the decision to legally become his guardian. Kim went on to live her life and today she is married and has a daughter who is 11. We on the other hand raised a wonderful boy who still lives with us, it has not been easy but, it was in the best interest of Bryan. He will tell you that he has a wonderful life and that he would not change anything nor would Kim... Now, you really need to speak with your parents, you may think oh no they won't understand, but as a Mom we do and will. There may be tears, anger and yes yelling but in the end they will still love you and will stand beside whatever decision you make.. Its not going to be easy, but then again life is not easy... You have to decide whats in the best interest for you and the life that you have inside you..:teddy: If you need to talk PM me.. God Bless you....I will keep you in my prayers.......:hearts-xx...:hands:

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

Looks like you won't be needed a second yorkie to keep Coco company now :)Yorkies are wonderful with kids.

OH GOOD - sometimes the hardest step is the first one and telling your parents was the thing to do - even if you didn't tell them they'd have known soon enough and then you'd really have hurt their feelings - so good for you ! Glad things are working out ...

Jessica, I am so happy that you have told your parents and they are being supportive. Call anytime!

this is great news!!!!!!!

Yay I'm sooooo happy for you! Thank GOD

Jessica, I am SOOO excited for you! Hearing the good news has just made my day!!!!!!!! Now you can concentrate on celebrating a new life. HOORAY!!!!!!!!

Jess God I know what you were going though. I kinda went though the same thing myself.

When I was 13 I was *date raped* I thought it was my fault so I didn't tell anyone. Well when the monthly didn't come you know I was really scared and I felt I could not tell any one. I faked having a monthly for three months . I finally when to my Step mom. and told her. She was really understanding and took me to the dr. They did a blood test and found that I was not PG Thank god. I didn't have a monthly because of the stress. As soon as I found out I was not PG it stared back up. I was lucky. I also had a misscareage at 20. honey I am so glad your parents are oing to be there for you. you are going to need them. If you are strong and I know you are :) you will do great. God bless you and I please. feel free to PM me if you need to talk My cell is Free nation wide so there is no prob with the long distance.:lovewings :hug60:

I am SO happy for you. I am just elated! This is the best case senario! Congrats on the little addition! I can't tell you how happy I am that your parents are going to be there for you!!

Congrats on getting over the biggest hump! It takes a lot to confront your parents about it.. I wish the best of luck in the months to come!

I'm glad everything turned out OK when you told your parents :)

This is wonderful news!! Im sure your parents didnt want a repeat of how they handled your sister's situation, they probably felt alot of guilt over time about it and didnt want to make that same mistake again. Good luck with the pregnancy and I wish you a painless labour hehehe...

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Ok 2day i dealt with the father but im so tired and exhausted from all of this that i will write what happened with him 2morrow! once again, thanks for all the support it honestly helped me get through this and toughen me up!! :)

he sounds like a loser .....srry to sound mean but you did say he wants you to abort it right? If I'm wrong I'm sorry, if I'm right tell him to shut up

yeah he did and i was ready to send his a*s to h*ll

Ok so here's the story on the father:

Me and him were never in a relationship, we were just having sex. We were having sex for about 8 months and I guess we got to comfortable because nothing was happening. Now I ended up pregnant. He raps and is a producer. Him and his best friend started their own little company or whatever u call it. He has a lot going 4 him that's y i was so unsure about what 2 do with him.

So I went to his house the other day to talk 2 him. It was the first time he's seeing me since he found out I'm pregnant. And it took me by complete surprise when he kept kissing my stomach and rubbing it. Then the next day he went to the clinic with me and they told me I may be having twins!! Which can't be 2 unexpected since I'm a twin, my mom's a twin, my grandma was a twin, and we have lots of other twins in the family. After he dropped me off at home he called me at 1:45AM and told me that he doesn't want me to get an abortion and that he's sorry for even mentioning it. And I was like "why the sudden change of mind" and he was like "man after seeing you and your belly it did something to me and then seeing the ultrasound i just feel so attached to them already and I really want to try and work this out. I mean were having twins baby" and I was like "well i wasn't going to get an abortion either way" lol. But yeah, I'm glad he decided to be in their lives and is beeing so caring now.

Sorry for the long post.

Things just work out sometimes. I have a beautiful 6 year old grandson, who was a surprise addition to our family. My son and his girlfriend had some tough times, but today they are married and have 2 other boys 2 and 1. These boys are the joy of my heart and I couldn't consider life without them. My son and Laura married when Gabe was 2 and are very much in love, have bought a new home and are the picture of a happy, healthy family. Sometimes we parents can even surprise our children when given the chance. Your parents will get so attached to this baby that it has already become a part of their life. They already love their grandbaby. Just be patient with them and give them some time to soak it all in. Good luck sweetie, everything will be okay! Take it from a Nana of 5 beautiful babies.

I am so glad this are working out for you and the father. Maybe he just reacted to the initial shock and freaked out. Which I think anyone in this situtation would. BTW, Congratulations on twins!!!!!!!

Jessica, this is such great news!!!!!!!!! Your children will be so happy to have a father in their lives. Thank you so much for keeping us updated. There are so many people here on YT that care so much about you! Please continue to keep us updated as your pregnancy progresses. What an exciting time!!!!!!!

That is WONDERFUL news!!