ever feel like a piece of meat?

[puppylove123]

this is one thing that ALWAYS annoys me! ok, im not gonna lie here, but since it gets hot down here i tend to wear shorts and its also not my fault i have a nice latin butt but thats not the point! whenever me, my mom, and my sister go out all these gross men stare and you up and down and i sometimes i cant help but feel like slapping those guys! but to absolute worst is those Daddy Yankee wannabe men who start making comments or whistle at you my mom ask taught me to ignore it and just dont comment, but sometimes its just like, GET A LIFE! sorry, but had to vent

[browniesmom622]

I know !! i hate that !!!i always Go EWWWW at them !

[sashajade]

just goes to show you men are the same all over the world cos i get that and it really bugs me too. i got so fed up with men (i use that term losely) looking at my boobs and saying stuff i bought a t shirt which said ***koff im fussy lol should of seen there faces then lol funny when i wear it no one says a thing lol

[Zoey's Momma]

Well, at least 80 year old doesn't hit on you! Espically when i have my dog, it's so disgusting! Ugh! Men!

[puppylove123]

sashajade, i like that shirt! and 80 year olds havent hit on me yet, but they go crazy with my (older) sister! its disgusting!

[Miss_Sara]

I hate that soooooooooooo much
I always say "ew!" and give them that "wtf are you THINKING, I'm 16" look
sometimes I even say anything
but I'm like that in GENERAL
not just with creepy old men

[sashajade]

Originally Posted by puppylove123

sashajade, i like that shirt! and 80 year olds havent hit on me yet, but they go crazy with my (older) sister! its disgusting!

thanks it works a treat lol

[Rae Rae]

I always say s**t back to guys like that, I have a big mouth though.

[puppylove123]

Originally Posted by Miss_Sara

I hate that soooooooooooo much
I always say "ew!" and give them that "wtf are you THINKING, I'm 16" look
sometimes I even say anything
but I'm like that in GENERAL
not just with creepy old men

im with you there, im only 12 (13 in 2 months ) and they hit on me!!! its amazing how some men can be!

[yougetthesmiles]

I have a 16 yr old daughter and she has a very nice figure, but I have taught her to cover herself up, you can wear things that still keep you cool, but you have to leave something to the imagination! Men are visual, and if you go letting it all hang out, there going to disrespect you. In my opinion if a girl is walking around half naked, there doing it for attention and I dont feel sorry for anyone who gets gawked at. I'm not saying you dress provocative cause I dont know you and I have never seen you, but just respect yourself and your body and so will others!

[GeorgiesMomma]

Originally Posted by puppylove123

im with you there, im only 12 (13 in 2 months ) and they hit on me!!! its amazing how some men can be!

When my oldest niece was about your age she was riding her bike down the street. A guy about my age (there is 10 years difference) was driving by and slowed down to look at her his car swerved off the road and he hit a tree. Thankfully he wasn't hurt but my niece called me in tears. I just told her it would be okay and that he shouldn't have been staring anyways. I felt bad to say that and although she looks older for her age she still did not look old enough for a 22 year old guy. What I hate the most is when guys whistle or say "Hey" like I am going to stop what I am doing and run over to talk to them......get a life!

[GeorgiesMomma]

Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

I have a 16 yr old daughter and she has a very nice figure, but I have taught her to cover herself up, you can wear things that still keep you cool, but you have to leave something to the imagination! Men are visual, and if you go letting it all hang out, there going to disrespect you. In my opinion if a girl is walking around half naked, there doing it for attention and I dont feel sorry for anyone who gets gawked at. I'm not saying you dress provocative cause I dont know you and I have never seen you, but just respect yourself and your body and so will others!

I have to disagree with you slightly I have been to the grocery store in sweats and a baseball hat and men still make comments. I do however think it's important to teach young people to dress appropriately, but some men and just like animals in heat

[chattiesmom]

LOL, I vaguely remember the feeling...

[UTDentalHYG2006]

I am sorry, but I don't care if men are visual or not. Why do we make excuses for poor upbringing on their part!!!!!!! I think more parents should teach their sons to respect women in general.

But, I am also not saying it is entirely appropriate for girls to let it all hang-out...but shorts in the summer are by no means scandalous.

I think it is so sad that we as women have to watch every little thing we do as to not raise a man's hormone level! Why don't they watch how they act in public!!!

Sorry for the venting, but here in Houston with the heat it is hard not to wear tank tops and whatnot. But the stares are ridiculous...why can't I wear what I want without being stared at?

[Rae Rae]

Originally Posted by UTDentalHYG2006

I am sorry, but I don't care if men are visual or not. Why do we make excuses for poor upbringing on their part!!!!!!! I think more parents should teach their sons to respect women in general.

But, I am also not saying it is entirely appropriate for girls to let it all hang-out...but shorts in the summer are by no means scandalous.

I think it is so sad that we as women have to watch every little thing we do as to not raise a man's hormone level! Why don't they watch how they act in public!!!

Sorry for the venting, but here in Houston with the heat it is hard not to wear tank tops and whatnot. But the stares are ridiculous...why can't I wear what I want without being stared at?

I totally agree with your post. I don't think it's right to dress scandalous to certain places. Clubs and parties, yes, but going to the mall...no. But even if someone does want to dress like a whore when their going to the grocery store, they should be able to wear what they want w/o getting hollered at.

At my sisters school girls cannot wear spaghetti strapped tops because it "causes a distraction". I'm sorry, but parents need to teach their kids that they go to school to learn, to not focus on an exposed shoulder! Why should the girls have to cover up their SHOULDERS, just because some guys can't focus? It's not their fault. This rule I think is over the line.