My heart is breaking for Deb (Bchgirl)

[mustangbee]

Originally Posted by rrosenberry

I think the reason we/I can't stop thinking about Deb,and Trace, is we all put ourselves in her position, knowing how we all love our Yorkies the way we do,. Hence the numerous members and nonstop posts here..
But as much as we don't want to think that someday we will be in her postion, we will as hard as that will be. So I know everytime I look at Bailey, I think twice about the fact that one day I won't be able to, and it kills me to think about that, but it is the reality. I even told her, all weekend I just held Bailey tighter, a little longer, everytime I woke up I would feel for him and pet him.

So I think that is why it has been on our minds non stop since Sat. It is just how we are,, yorkie lovers. They are our children.
I guess that is how I feel. That's it.. no more sad posts,, I promise.

You are right, I don't think I put Princess down at all this weekend.

[teri88]

Originally Posted by bchgirl

At least you weren't shifting the biscuit/cell phone with the mascara brush

No hands left for the mascara brush...I was eating the yogurt, so between that and the spoon......

[bchgirl]

Originally Posted by teri88

No hands left for the mascara brush...I was eating the yogurt, so between that and the spoon......

I can tell this being nice thing is gonna be much harder than I thought. PMing admin. cause I'm gonna really need that zippered mouth smiley.

I really, really can't tell you all how much better you make me feel. Thank God for Trace... without him, I'd never found this site, and thank God for this site because here without Trace I could NOT stand....not having it.

[teri88]

Originally Posted by bchgirl

Farrah, it never left....I still think of quips....even in an email offering condolences....I have probably replied in a manner that has people think....oh, she's ok, she's the same ol' Deb

H's nephew has a new baby yorkie....he got a yorkie cause of you know who. I saw him for the first time yesterday.....Mike thought it might upset me. No, there is nothing sweeter than baby puppies. He is awfully, awfully cute. Hubby held puppy's face close to his nose....cause he's a closet puppy breathe lover. We are discussing getting another....it may perhaps be sooner than later. Come to find out...we really, really need one of these guys in our lives.

It's ok to laugh and make jokes, just not at my expense! Don't think that you are treading on Trace's memory just because you laugh at something. I'm an expert when it comes to loss....besides our sweet Bandit, I've lost a daughter, named Erin, a brother, a niece, and both of my parents. So when I say it's ok, I MEAN it!
As for getting another one...I swore I wouldn't open myself up to that kind of hurt again. But I soon learned that I could not imagine life without a yorkie in it! Again, it does not mean you love or miss Trace any less, it means you loved him so much you want another in your life. You can never replace Trace, he'll always be your special baby, but your heart grows to include another one in it. You will know when the time is right. Ok, its getting windy so I'd better get down off of my soap box before I get blown down.

[Surfie and Tiki]

Although I don’t “know” you and visa-a-versus, the death of Trace really affected me all weekend. I went to visit my parents for the weekend and my mom said, “Honey, what’s the matter, you don’t seem like your “normal” self?” I told her what happened to little Trace, and she immediately understood. Strange, the connection felt between Yorkie lovers. Love your posts, you have made me belly laugh more times then you know….

Again, I am saddened by the loss of your baby….

[LaviniaHyacynth]

Deb, I do not "know" you but I always laugh at your posts and wonderful sense of humor. I have been sad all weekend and thought of you often. These little dogs are such a part of us...I can feel your loss by putting myself in your place. I hope that you feel better soon. God bless you and Trace.

[Connie]

This sad news about Trace hit me hard too and I found myself crying and hugging and kissing on Maddie. I think it's also the fact that he was so young and seemingly healthy. What a shock and my heart hurts for Deb and her husband.

I hope you can find a little yorkie to love and to help you through the grieving process. Big hugs to you!

[Baby Blessing]

Originally Posted by rrosenberry

you just do the quote thing like normall and hi-light and delete the things you don't want in it.. but leave the (QUOTE) things before and after.

yep.. off topic again.

Thanks for telling how to do that, I have tried and tried but never successful, thanks again rrosenberry

I hope Deb can get another yorkie soon. Our baby is helping us tremendously, altho my heart still hurts for Cassie. I am so glad we didn't wait too long in getting another, I love our new baby and she is a real blessing. As I sit hear typeing she is snuggled up in my left arm with head resting on my hand as I type she is so loveable but aren't all yorkies Now I gotta figure out how to post some pictures, especially for the avator, that I have tried and tried to do.
patti and jack ~~Baby Blessing~~ RIP our Precious Cassie