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Originally Posted by bchgirl Farrah, it never left....I still think of quips....even in an email offering condolences....I have probably replied in a manner that has people think....oh, she's ok, she's the same ol' Deb 
H's nephew has a new baby yorkie....he got a yorkie cause of you know who. I saw him for the first time yesterday.....Mike thought it might upset me. No, there is nothing sweeter than baby puppies. He is awfully, awfully cute. Hubby held puppy's face close to his nose....cause he's a closet puppy breathe lover. We are discussing getting another....it may perhaps be sooner than later. Come to find out...we really, really need one of these guys in our lives. |
It's ok to laugh and make jokes, just not at my expense! Don't think that you are treading on Trace's memory just because you laugh at something. I'm an expert when it comes to loss....besides our sweet Bandit, I've lost a daughter, named Erin, a brother, a niece, and both of my parents. So when I say it's ok, I MEAN it!
As for getting another one...I swore I wouldn't open myself up to that kind of hurt again. But I soon learned that I could not imagine life without a yorkie in it! Again, it does not mean you love or miss Trace any less, it means you loved him so much you want another in your life. You can never replace Trace, he'll always be your special baby, but your heart grows to include another one in it. You will know when the time is right. Ok, its getting windy so I'd better get down off of my soap box before I get blown down.