My heart is breaking for Deb (Bchgirl) - YorkieTalk.com Forums

teri88 · 03-13-2006, 09:44 AM

I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.

Lexi Rae · 03-13-2006, 10:14 AM

i feel the same way you do.. im so so sorry for i, i feel just terrible and i feel her pain.. i hope she is ok too...she is definitly in my thoughts and prayers.

LaLoca1 · 03-13-2006, 10:25 AM

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Originally Posted by teri88

I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.

I do understand how you feel. The night that Trace died, me and her were talking on the same post about celebrities we don't like. The next day when I woke up and checked YT, I was in shock. I agree, I hope she does decide to get another baby eventually. But for now, I know she is devastated and can't imagine another yorkie except for Trace.

heather_lathrop · 03-13-2006, 10:36 AM

I am feeling the same. I have cried and cried on and off all last night and all day today. I feel so bda for her. It has me really worried about my babies trying to crawl up under the covers. I have caught them trying to do this before. My heart is broken for Deb right now. Her and Trace are in my prayers. God bless her and may little Trace rest in peace. I hope that we can all learn from this terrible loss, and make sure that we are careful when having are babies sleep in our beds.

rrosenberry · 03-13-2006, 10:42 AM

I know how all you feel, I have been talking with her a few times a day, I feel so bad and have cried everyday since knowing, She is doing a little better, she went to work, so I hope that helps to keep her mind occupied.

I doubt it though.
She will be back on YT, I'm sure it's just to hard now. She checks in so I'm sure she'll be thankful, again for all your posts. You guys are the best, and so supportive.

hle_625 · 03-13-2006, 11:20 AM

I know how all you guys feel bc I feel the same way! I have shed so many tears for her. I just wish that I lived closer to her so that I could give her a big YorkieTalk hug! I miss her so much and just hope that she decides to become active again! I miss you Deb! Big hugs to you!

Zeus' Mom · 03-13-2006, 11:27 AM

I know, I have been thinking about her everyday. I don't know her very well, but my heart breaks for any of us who lose our little ones.

Deb, if you read this, please know that I am thinking about you and praying that time can heal your heart. I am so very sorry for your loss.

chloeTG · 03-13-2006, 11:51 AM

Deb you are in our thoughts and prayers, I can't imagine how much it hurts. You were nothing but the best mommy for Trace and your baby will be missed by all. If you need anything at all we're here for you.

I'm so saddened for Deb...I'm hoping that after a little bit when she feels up to bringing a new baby into her life that she'll know exactly where to come for support. I know how hard it can be to lose your precious furbaby and Trace will be truly missed.

Rest in Peace Sweet Angel!

YorkieRose · 03-13-2006, 12:02 PM

One of the best things about getting to know so many Yorkies lovers is all the Yorkies to love..it is also one of the worst things..so many to lose.
So many wonderful companions have gone to Rainbow Bridge since I joined YT...they are all missed even though I never got to see them in person.

bchgirl · 03-13-2006, 12:06 PM

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Originally Posted by teri88

I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system.

Ya know with this post, it will be awfully hard for me.... sometime in the future... to post a smart aleck comment to you....not even when you provide the ammunition

I haven't been back on this forum 'til right the second. I have received so many wonderful posts on the other thread and pm's too. If wishes could heal me....I'd be cured. I have shared everyone's comments with dh and dd. They are amazed so many people have written such nice nice things.

I am hanging in there and thinking of you all. Hugs of gratitude...it means more than you'll ever know.

I'll share something else with you. After we'd found him...the first person I wanted to call wasn't any of my real world friends or family....it was my cyber friend....rrosenberry

Not bothering with spell check...we all know what it thinks

teri88 · 03-13-2006, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by bchgirl

Ya know with this post, it will be awfully hard for me.... sometime in the future... to post a smart aleck comment to you....not even when you provide the ammunition

I haven't been back on this forum 'til right the second. I have received so many wonderful posts on the other thread and pm's too. If wishes could heal me....I'd be cured. I have shared everyone's comments with dh and dd. They are amazed so many people have written such nice nice things.

I am hanging in there and thinking of you all. Hugs of gratitude...it means more than you'll ever know.

Not bothering with spell check...we all know what it thinks

Well, if you can't bring yourself to be a smart alleck, just ask Mike, he seems to enjoy it so much! It's not the same here without you. We do love ya, girl! And I want you to know I thought of you this morning as I was driving in to work, eating my McDonalds breakfast and talking on the cell phone!

KimMee's Mom · 03-13-2006, 12:13 PM

Hey Deb,

just know I am thinking about you- God Bless You

rrosenberry · 03-13-2006, 12:14 PM

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Originally Posted by bchgirl

I'll share something else with you. After we'd found him...the first person I wanted to call wasn't any of my real world friends or family....it was my cyber friend....rrosenberry

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Ah, now why ya wanna go and say that and make me start crying all over again.

See ya taught me how to edit, just the part I wanted to.

Brutus'mama · 03-13-2006, 12:21 PM

Deb it's so good to hear from you. I have been thinking about you and hoping you were okay.

teri88 · 03-13-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by rrosenberry

Ah, now why ya wanna go and say that and make me start crying all over again.

See ya taught me how to edit, just the part I wanted to.

Can you teach me? I've tried that a hundred times and I still get the same thing. Look, this is a true Deb thread, off topic as usual!

03-13-2006, 09:44 AM	#1
teri88 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 4,021	My heart is breaking for Deb (Bchgirl) I can not get Deb out of my mind. Last night when I was in bed and Tucker came up on my pillow I started thinking about her and just started crying. I know how devistated I was when Bandit died, and it seems to have brought back all of those feelings. I'm crying now, guess I better close my office door. I just don't get it, she was such a good and loving mom to Trace...it seems so unfair. I hope she decides to get another baby, I know how that helped us. Has anyone heard from her? Do you know how she is doing? The poor thing, I've said about a hundred prayers for her since Saturday. I wish there was something we could do to take away her pain. Sorry to be so depressing, I just had to get this out of my system. __________________ Teri Owned by and completely devoted to Tucker... Maddie, we will always love you *Bandit, you are always in my heart* Proud Member SSLS

03-13-2006, 10:14 AM	#2
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	i feel the same way you do.. im so so sorry for i, i feel just terrible and i feel her pain.. i hope she is ok too...she is definitly in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

03-13-2006, 10:36 AM	#4
heather_lathrop Gizmo and Gidget's Pet Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Arkansas Posts: 1,326	I am feeling the same. I have cried and cried on and off all last night and all day today. I feel so bda for her. It has me really worried about my babies trying to crawl up under the covers. I have caught them trying to do this before. My heart is broken for Deb right now. Her and Trace are in my prayers. God bless her and may little Trace rest in peace. I hope that we can all learn from this terrible loss, and make sure that we are careful when having are babies sleep in our beds. __________________ Heather & Max - In honor of my sweet Ayden!

03-13-2006, 10:42 AM	#5
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	I know how all you feel, I have been talking with her a few times a day, I feel so bad and have cried everyday since knowing, She is doing a little better, she went to work, so I hope that helps to keep her mind occupied. I doubt it though. She will be back on YT, I'm sure it's just to hard now. She checks in so I'm sure she'll be thankful, again for all your posts. You guys are the best, and so supportive. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

03-13-2006, 11:20 AM	#6
hle_625 Donating YT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Missouri Posts: 4,637	I know how all you guys feel bc I feel the same way! I have shed so many tears for her. I just wish that I lived closer to her so that I could give her a big YorkieTalk hug! I miss her so much and just hope that she decides to become active again! I miss you Deb! Big hugs to you! __________________ Heather, Chloe Lynn and Daisy May

03-13-2006, 11:27 AM	#7
Zeus' Mom Enja's Mom too! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 2,765	I know, I have been thinking about her everyday. I don't know her very well, but my heart breaks for any of us who lose our little ones. Deb, if you read this, please know that I am thinking about you and praying that time can heal your heart. I am so very sorry for your loss. __________________ Farrah, Zeus, Enja & Riley

03-13-2006, 11:51 AM	#8
chloeTG Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Plano, Texas Posts: 239	Deb you are in our thoughts and prayers, I can't imagine how much it hurts. You were nothing but the best mommy for Trace and your baby will be missed by all. If you need anything at all we're here for you. I'm so saddened for Deb...I'm hoping that after a little bit when she feels up to bringing a new baby into her life that she'll know exactly where to come for support. I know how hard it can be to lose your precious furbaby and Trace will be truly missed. Rest in Peace Sweet Angel! __________________ Chloe and Kylie's Mom

03-13-2006, 12:02 PM	#9
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	Trace One of the best things about getting to know so many Yorkies lovers is all the Yorkies to love..it is also one of the worst things..so many to lose. So many wonderful companions have gone to Rainbow Bridge since I joined YT...they are all missed even though I never got to see them in person.

03-13-2006, 12:13 PM	#12
KimMee's Mom Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: USA Posts: 1,857	Hey Deb, just know I am thinking about you- God Bless You

03-13-2006, 12:21 PM	#14
Brutus'mama YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: NJ Posts: 1,767	Deb it's so good to hear from you. I have been thinking about you and hoping you were okay. __________________ ~Carolyn~ Brutus' Video Montage