i think i like him

[bchgirl]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

im gonna have a dam heart attack, im worring to much about nothing and i know it... i gotta grow the hell up

When I first read that last part....thought it said....I gotta THROW the hell up...LOL. Sure, your tummy's all aflutter too. Try not to worry so much. If he likes you as much as it seems, he'll be patient. Enjoy spending time with him and the rest will just happen when it happens

[Lexi Rae]

you know what, that sound like a good one to me.. if i throw up, he wont come near me ha ha ha

[hasrv4fun]

Originally Posted by centralnewyorki

Gina- he is cute! He has a great smile and really warm eyes. I just love that "Italian look" in guys.

Believe me- if it's meant to be, you will fall in love with him and won't be able to keep your hands off him! Nobella is right- looks fade- and when you're old and wrinkled, you're going to want a man with a good heart who is going to make you feel like you're the most beautiful woman in the world.

Hey you young thing ( at my age everyone is young LOL ) I just want you to follow your heart and don't be judging looks, dancing, money ( of course that helps ) and have a fling. You don't know what will come your way. As to looks and dance , let me tell you that my husband of 47 years is nice looking but some would not call him handsome and dance ? HA HA HA- he had 3 or 4 left feet but learned how quite well over the years cause he knew it would please me. Point here is that he was not the flashiest guy I went with but oh what a Kind, Honest, Trustworthy Good provider was hidden in that Lover
ly package ( yes I left that space in there on purpose ) As I have heard say- just go take on the day and have a great time. And wait to do "it" till you can really say thats what YOU want.

[hasrv4fun]

Hey do you know this guy well enough to let him stay ? I mean "how long have you known him?"
I am just an old nervous nellie but I want you to be careful and safe. I don't want any of my YT friends hurt. OK?

[bchgirl]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

you know what, that sound like a good one to me.. if i throw up, he wont come near me ha ha ha

I'm pretty certain that would work.

Has it occurred to you that perhaps he's just as nervous as you are??? Trust me, they WANT to live up to those expectations too.

[Lexi Rae]

i only know him for a month, we had 2 dates, one we went out , the other he came over and i cooked him dinner and kicked him out at 10:30. i dont know him all that well, but he calls me all the time , every day , every nite.
you know what,,?, i dont know him enough, you just answered all my questions.
what am i an idiot or something.. i hardly know him. just because i talk on the phone with him every day...oh no, thankyou, yu just helped me make my first decision... he goes home after the date.... thats it, if he dont like it.. see ya guy..

[Lexi Rae]

you wanna here something funny,,, he has a daughter name gina marie. just like me... and his moms name is marie just like mom.... is that sick or what..?

[sylvan]

Originally Posted by centralnewyorki

I'm sorry, this is just too funny of a statement considering she's asking when the time will be right to "do it". Stacy- I think she was asking when it was right to start doing something- not stop! LOL!! Sorry, I'm a little pervey today!

I DID mean that as a metaphor for the situation she is in...as in 'just go with what feels right' and don't let fear stand in the way because I think it's worse to regret chances not taken ....HOWEVER, the literal minded can take it any way they please. I know I do...as often as possible. LOL!

[hasrv4fun]

Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

i only know him for a month, we had 2 dates, one we went out , the other he came over and i cooked him dinner and kicked him out at 10:30. i dont know him all that well, but he calls me all the time , every day , every nite.
you know what,,?, i dont know him enough, you just answered all my questions.
what am i an idiot or something.. i hardly know him. just because i talk on the phone with him every day...oh no, thankyou, yu just helped me make my first decision... he goes home after the date.... thats it, if he dont like it.. see ya guy..

Now you are sounding like the SMART girl I know you must be !!!!!!

[bchgirl]

Originally Posted by sylvan

I DID mean that as a metaphor for the situation she is in...as in 'just go with what feels right' and don't let fear stand in the way because I think it's worse to regret chances not taken ....HOWEVER, the literal minded can take it any way they please. I know I do...as often as possible. LOL!

Ok, I admit I thought you were advising a bit of the hankey pankey dance myself

[cchu]

You guys are hilarious!! I didn't see the pics before. He looks like a charmer!!

[Lexi Rae]

you think so christine..?/. dont lie now......dont try and make me feel good...

[Lexi Rae]

bchgirl, you are making me laugh so hard..... your very funny,,, i needed that

[cchu]

absolutely!! He looks like he can take good care of you and protect you. he has that embracing presence. I wanna see a pic of you so I can picture you guys as a couple. As long as he treats you well, thats all that matters!!

[Lexi Rae]

christine, i have a picture,my computer wont let me do it... can you, i will
email you one.,..hurry its almost time to go home.