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jenstals · 01-05-2006, 10:48 AM

I can so relate to your situation. I was married for 13 years and then was in a relationship for 5 years. That fell apart and I have been devestated by it all. I am terrified of letting myself for anyone again. Just take it slow and follow your heart. You will know what is right and when it is right!

Rockster's Mom · 01-05-2006, 11:04 AM

My best advised is to take it one day at the time and just go with the flow. Also just relax and have some fun. It is going to happen, it will happen on it own. GOOD LUCK!!!!

vainchick5 · 01-05-2006, 11:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Lexi Rae

i was kidding when i said wasted, i meant feel nice, relaxed... i had to do that
with my former boyfriend too..it just calms me down....1 glass of wine and i feel at ease... nobella, your are right, i will do that.. i know you have a new bo.... tooo...

If it feels right, trust me you will be relaxed. I do have a new bo

and he is just positively the greatest. Shhh don't tell him I posted our picture..hehe...I couldn't ask for better. I felt similar at first, like wow there must be something wrong because he is treating me toooo good. I've always been treated well but this was toooooo good but I soon came to realize that he is only treating me, the way I should be treated. I respect myself and have confidence and I respect him, so he is just reciprocating that back to me. Good luck Gina, you deserve it girl.

Lexi Rae · 01-05-2006, 11:46 AM

wow he is so cute and i am so happy for you, i have a picture of him if you want to post it for me.

Lexi Rae · 01-05-2006, 12:09 PM

ok my friends. nobella is going to print his picture on here .. dont laugh ok
he is really nice to me...

vainchick5 · 01-05-2006, 12:13 PM

Aww what a cute picture. I hope it works out with you two. He is cute and looks really nice.

Lexi Rae · 01-05-2006, 12:16 PM

i guess he is ok looking,but a charma.... he still has to grow on me..
i hope i get to like him more and more each day.. that scares me, i dont want to lose a good one just because of one flaw, you know what i mean? just like anything. oh the way he dances for one... he cannot dance good for his life and i met him in a club and when i danced with him omh i laughed all the way to the bank, couldnt help it.

vainchick5 · 01-05-2006, 12:21 PM

I've come to realize (at an amazingly young age) that looks fade, it's all about how he treats you. He may not dance well, who cares, as long as he is a gentleman to you and treats your baby good too. Just be careful, those charmers can get us in trouble.

centralnewyorki · 01-05-2006, 12:21 PM

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Originally Posted by sylvan

I'm of the 'ride it 'til it bucks you off ' philosophy....life is short, enjoy each moment.
It's nice getting the romance treatment, isn't it?

I'm sorry, this is just too funny of a statement considering she's asking when the time will be right to "do it". Stacy- I think she was asking when it was right to start doing something- not stop! LOL!! Sorry, I'm a little pervey today!

Rockster's Mom · 01-05-2006, 12:22 PM

He is handsome, and it looks like your furbaby likes him. Stop worrying so much, and have some fun. I have been with my boyfriend for little over a year now, and trust me are somethings I hate. But I look at the bigger picture, and thoso things do not seem so bad at all. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you.

vainchick5 · 01-05-2006, 12:22 PM

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Originally Posted by centralnewyorki

I'm sorry, this is just too funny of a statement considering she's asking when the time will be right to "do it". Stacy- I think she was asking when it was right to start doing something- not stop! LOL!! Sorry, I'm a little pervey today!

It's ok Olivia, we're all perverts at heart..haha

centralnewyorki · 01-05-2006, 12:27 PM

Gina- he is cute! He has a great smile and really warm eyes. I just love that "Italian look" in guys.

Believe me- if it's meant to be, you will fall in love with him and won't be able to keep your hands off him! Nobella is right- looks fade- and when you're old and wrinkled, you're going to want a man with a good heart who is going to make you feel like you're the most beautiful woman in the world.

Lexi Rae · 01-05-2006, 12:28 PM

he just called me and wants to spend the whole weekend with me. he told me he wont touch me, i will have to first...yeah right, friggin liar... he wants to stay over. oh sh-- im in trouble now... i told him, not yet.... he understands. yeah right, friggin liar again....he wants to help me paint, and we will go to the movies and then what, back to my house? NO NO NO NO
im gonna have a dam heart attack, im worring to much about nothing and i know it... i gotta grow the hell up

Rockster's Mom · 01-05-2006, 12:39 PM

Breath, and calm down. I think you starting to freak yourself out. Its going to okay. If you wants to help you paint and take you to the movies, let him. If he wants to stay over, make him sleep on the couch. When I first met my BF, we went out one night to a pub near my apartment, and well we both had little to much to drink. He lived about 30 minutes from me and I did not want him driving, so I let him stay over, but I made him sleep on the couch. He did not mind and he respected me. Plus, the next morning he cook breakfast and we went and spent the day at the beach. If you likes you and respects you, he want mind.

Lexi Rae · 01-05-2006, 12:44 PM

just want to thank all of you for being so nice to me and help me through this.
im just gonna go with the flow. you guys are the best and i can count on you. your good people... love ya gina

01-05-2006, 10:48 AM	#16
jenstals YT Addict Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Connecticut Posts: 397	I can so relate to your situation. I was married for 13 years and then was in a relationship for 5 years. That fell apart and I have been devestated by it all. I am terrified of letting myself for anyone again. Just take it slow and follow your heart. You will know what is right and when it is right! __________________ Jen Deb and Maya

01-05-2006, 11:46 AM	#19
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	wow he is so cute and i am so happy for you, i have a picture of him if you want to post it for me. __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

01-05-2006, 12:09 PM	#20
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	ok my friends. nobella is going to print his picture on here .. dont laugh ok he is really nice to me... __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

01-05-2006, 12:16 PM	#22
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	i guess he is ok looking,but a charma.... he still has to grow on me.. i hope i get to like him more and more each day.. that scares me, i dont want to lose a good one just because of one flaw, you know what i mean? just like anything. oh the way he dances for one... he cannot dance good for his life and i met him in a club and when i danced with him omh i laughed all the way to the bank, couldnt help it. __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

01-05-2006, 12:21 PM	#23
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	I've come to realize (at an amazingly young age) that looks fade, it's all about how he treats you. He may not dance well, who cares, as long as he is a gentleman to you and treats your baby good too. Just be careful, those charmers can get us in trouble. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

01-05-2006, 11:04 AM	#17
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	My best advised is to take it one day at the time and just go with the flow. Also just relax and have some fun. It is going to happen, it will happen on it own. GOOD LUCK!!!!

01-05-2006, 12:22 PM	#25
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	He is handsome, and it looks like your furbaby likes him. Stop worrying so much, and have some fun. I have been with my boyfriend for little over a year now, and trust me are somethings I hate. But I look at the bigger picture, and thoso things do not seem so bad at all. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you.

01-05-2006, 12:27 PM	#27
centralnewyorki YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Central NY state Posts: 1,741	Gina- he is cute! He has a great smile and really warm eyes. I just love that "Italian look" in guys. Believe me- if it's meant to be, you will fall in love with him and won't be able to keep your hands off him! Nobella is right- looks fade- and when you're old and wrinkled, you're going to want a man with a good heart who is going to make you feel like you're the most beautiful woman in the world. __________________ Susan & Olivia Visit Olivia's Dogster Page!

01-05-2006, 12:28 PM	#28
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	he just called me and wants to spend the whole weekend with me. he told me he wont touch me, i will have to first...yeah right, friggin liar... he wants to stay over. oh sh-- im in trouble now... i told him, not yet.... he understands. yeah right, friggin liar again....he wants to help me paint, and we will go to the movies and then what, back to my house? NO NO NO NO im gonna have a dam heart attack, im worring to much about nothing and i know it... i gotta grow the hell up __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

01-05-2006, 12:39 PM	#29
Rockster's Mom Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Fort Worth, Texas Posts: 1,279	Breath, and calm down. I think you starting to freak yourself out. Its going to okay. If you wants to help you paint and take you to the movies, let him. If he wants to stay over, make him sleep on the couch. When I first met my BF, we went out one night to a pub near my apartment, and well we both had little to much to drink. He lived about 30 minutes from me and I did not want him driving, so I let him stay over, but I made him sleep on the couch. He did not mind and he respected me. Plus, the next morning he cook breakfast and we went and spent the day at the beach. If you likes you and respects you, he want mind.

01-05-2006, 12:44 PM	#30
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	just want to thank all of you for being so nice to me and help me through this. im just gonna go with the flow. you guys are the best and i can count on you. your good people... love ya gina __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...