Some people are soooo stupid!!!!

[omichka]

Sorry
I had very tragic story too. It was a long time ago. I was pregnant when I lost my dog. I was crying no stop too . For a long time. Everybody was worried because of my pregnancy. Some idiots told me :" how you can cry because of the dog "
but you know what...? No offense please.
I don't understand absolutely how some doctors give medication SO EASILY.
in MY opinion, people who take medication in ANY case ARE stupid.
yes, I understand that this situation is not easy. Yes, I understand how she feels (like I told, I was in the same situation). and Yes, I understand you try to do best for her.
I didn't take any medication and NEVER regret about it.
I don't have an addiction to any dangerous pills like Zoloft or Prosac or something else. Actually, everybody knows those things are NOT healthy for you.
Believe me, she will be fine WITHOUT those stupid pills. I know this for sure.

But I do agree with you that some people absolutely don't understand how close our dogs to us... like children....

[WV~Yorkies]

I am so sorry to hear! will keep your Aunt in my thoughts.

People can be stupid.

[Julz]

Originally Posted by omichka

Sorry
I had very tragic story too. It was a long time ago. I was pregnant when I lost my dog. I was crying no stop too . For a long time. Everybody was worried because of my pregnancy. Some idiots told me :" how you can cry because of the dog "
but you know what...? No offense please.
I don't understand absolutely how some doctors give medication SO EASILY.
in MY opinion, people who take medication in ANY case ARE stupid.
yes, I understand that this situation is not easy. Yes, I understand how she feels (like I told, I was in the same situation). and Yes, I understand you try to do best for her.
I didn't take any medication and NEVER regret about it.
I don't have an addiction to any dangerous pills like Zoloft or Prosac or something else. Actually, everybody knows those things are NOT healthy for you.
Believe me, she will be fine WITHOUT those stupid pills. I know this for sure.

But I do agree with you that some people absolutely don't understand how close our dogs to us... like children....

My first time of ever saying this on YT....."Uncalled for".

[Nikko's_human]

Originally Posted by omichka

Sorry
I had very tragic story too. It was a long time ago. I was pregnant when I lost my dog. I was crying no stop too . For a long time. Everybody was worried because of my pregnancy. Some idiots told me :" how you can cry because of the dog "
but you know what...? No offense please.
I don't understand absolutely how some doctors give medication SO EASILY.
in MY opinion, people who take medication in ANY case ARE stupid.
yes, I understand that this situation is not easy. Yes, I understand how she feels (like I told, I was in the same situation). and Yes, I understand you try to do best for her.
I didn't take any medication and NEVER regret about it.
I don't have an addiction to any dangerous pills like Zoloft or Prosac or something else. Actually, everybody knows those things are NOT healthy for you.
Believe me, she will be fine WITHOUT those stupid pills. I know this for sure.

But I do agree with you that some people absolutely don't understand how close our dogs to us... like children....

She was not given Prozac or anything long term such as that. She was given a few valiums to help her through the next few days. Once they run out she will be forced to accept the magnitude of her loss medication free. It will not be easy for her, I am sure. Many people are given valium when they are over run with grief. The experience of having to see your beloved pet's mangled body is not something everyone is strong enough to endure.

[rrosenberry]

Sorry for your aunt and her loss, I can't even begin to imagine, nor do I want too.
But the other thing,, with people not understanding the bond WE have with animals... I always feel sorry for them, because they must have no idea how the love is between a dog and its owner,, the compassion, the company, the effortless bond, the unconditional love... how sad for them. that they have never experienced it,, or may never. It is one of the best things in my life,and some people never know that feeling.

[ukeka]

I am so sorry to heat about your aunties litte chi ! I hope she can find some peace .. Its so hard to have to go thru something like this !

& Let me appologize for the unthoughtful comment made by your co-worker ! it really is shame that people cannot even be nice about an obviously emotional situation !!! Even if they didn't feel the way your aunt felt about it they could have keep that rude comment to themself ! I hope she's feeling better.

Good Luck I will be praying for your auntie in her time of need

[rrosenberry]

Originally Posted by Julz

My first time of ever saying this on YT....."Uncalled for".

Is TOM CRUISE on YT?? SORRY! I couldn't resist..too familiar.

[omichka]

Originally Posted by Nikko's_human

She was not given Prozac or anything long term such as that. She was given a few valiums to help her through the next few days. Once they run out she will be forced to accept the magnitude of her loss medication free. It will not be easy for her, I am sure. Many people are given valium when they are over run with grief. The experience of having to see your beloved pet's mangled body is not something everyone is strong enough to endure.

Nikko, I DO understand. Hopefully, she will be fine. Good luck to her.
And don't listen to these people who understand nothing.


Regarding "uncalled for". Everybody has own opinion . I only can tell that unforunately this practic is very popular here .
Ooh, TOM CRUISE thanks, don't compare with that idiot please

[Cookie2]

I'm so sorry for your auntie's loss Only another pet owner that has lost a pet can understand. I can bet that the stupid person who made this comment has never lost a pet of 10 yrs! My sister inlaw had a tiny chihuahua for about 16 yrs. She was like 1.5 lbs. everyone called her Chiquita (spanish for tiny) She had no real attatchment to the chihuahua. She fed her and cleaned up after her, made sure she had little blankets around the house to nap in. But not like us here. She woke up one morning after having this dog for almost 16 yrs and found her stiff on the floor. She has never been able to talk about it without breaking down and crying.After losing her she realized just how much of a bond she had with this little dog for all these yrs. There is noway you can explain to a "stupid" person what it feels like emotionally and physically to lose a pet.

Genie

[red98vett]

Oh how terrible for your aunt ! I'm so sorry and she's going to take a long time to get over the guilt...I know she must be thinking she's in a bad dream and it's just such a shame that so many dogs are killed by cars...

I hope her pain eases in time and please tell her she has condolences coming her way from Houston.

I would need more than a valium.... I'd need a whole bottle - no offense omichka...Sometimes we need a little help - and during a time like this if someone CAN help her - I Think it was a good thing -

Devestating stress and sorrow can wreak havoc on our bodies....a little peace and sleep will work wonders for her. I know I would be in physical pain if something like that ever happened to me.

Hugs for your Aunt.

[Julz]

Originally Posted by rrosenberry

Is TOM CRUISE on YT?? SORRY! I couldn't resist..too familiar.

I am not familiar with Tom Cruise and those 2 words. I have never made negative comments on YT in the past and that was the nicest 2 words that I could think of.

[Connie]

This is so sad! My heart aches for your aunt in losing her baby! Don't pay any mind to what others say...some people are just plain insensitive and stupid! I'll pray for your aunt!

[chachi]

I am sorry for your Aunts loss. Some people can just be very rude when it comes to a death of a pet.

[omichka]

no offense omichka
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I am absolutely not offended. Now I am afraid that I offended by posting my comment .
I would prefer not to speak about this subject - this is TOO complicated.
You are right, all situations are different. But was is similar situation TOO, I just don't tell everything , so I think this way...

regarding other people comments - I was told the same, people looked at me like I was crazy because I was crying.....

[rrosenberry]

Originally Posted by Julz

I am not familiar with Tom Cruise and those 2 words. I have never made negative comments on YT in the past and that was the nicest 2 words that I could think of.

Tom Cruise was going on about women taking medication to help with post partum depression,, ( Brooke Shields) mainly,, His religion does not believe in any kind of medication . He is a Scientologist... which I don't know alot about, but her remark reminded me of his on Oprah.. NO Offense to anyone..
IMO.. If I'm in pain, and can't function, and they have drugs to help me... SIGN ME UP!