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capt_noonie · 04-08-2012, 07:29 PM

This is crazy! Your DH's bro said "stop being a jerk, it's my bday!"? Was he talking to the mirror? You were not being a jerk! I'd be super pissed. And I would have left. I love to hold grudges.

yorkietalkjilly · 04-08-2012, 07:43 PM

I've never been spoken to like that by any man - I have no idea how I would react but he's nooooo gentleman! I suspect I would have slapped his face, gotten my dog and left. It would take flowers, an apology in writing on fine note paper and then one day a long time from now, I might - might allow him to come apologize in person. Family or not, he's got to learn how to respect a woman!

yorkieusa · 04-08-2012, 07:45 PM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

I've never been spoken to like that by any man - I have no idea how I would react but he's nooooo gentleman! I suspect I would have slapped his face, gotten my dog and left. It would take flowers, an apology in writing on fine note paper and then one day a long time from now, I might - might allow him to come apologize in person. Family or not, he's got to learn how to respect a woman!

Oh, I agree with that totally. I cannot imagine anyone speaking to me like that!

LunasMomma · 04-09-2012, 04:27 AM

Wow! Honestly, I'm the type of person that would write them off and tell them to go to H#LL! I can understand if they didn't want the dog in their house, that's fine, but to be so rude and nasty to you was uncalled for and deserves an apology. And poor Peanut, you know how sensitive doggies are, I'm sure his feelings were hurt too

You sure can't pick your family, huh

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 07:13 AM

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Originally Posted by capt_noonie

This is crazy! Your DH's bro said "stop being a jerk, it's my bday!"? Was he talking to the mirror? You were not being a jerk! I'd be super pissed. And I would have left. I love to hold grudges.

LoL He must have been!! I still cant let it go!!

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 07:14 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

I've never been spoken to like that by any man - I have no idea how I would react but he's nooooo gentleman! I suspect I would have slapped his face, gotten my dog and left. It would take flowers, an apology in writing on fine note paper and then one day a long time from now, I might - might allow him to come apologize in person. Family or not, he's got to learn how to respect a woman!

Me either! This would be the first time for me! DH says that he was talking to him, but I dont know I was the one holding Pnut....

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Originally Posted by LunasMomma

Wow! Honestly, I'm the type of person that would write them off and tell them to go to H#LL! I can understand if they didn't want the dog in their house, that's fine, but to be so rude and nasty to you was uncalled for and deserves an apology. And poor Peanut, you know how sensitive doggies are, I'm sure his feelings were hurt too

You sure can't pick your family, huh

I was shocked as well!! He as never treated me like that!!

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 07:15 AM

I dont know what I am going to do about this! I hate to hold grudge, but I feel he really needs to apologize.

yorkietalkjilly · 04-09-2012, 07:18 AM

Any real man would apologize to you.

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 09:10 AM

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Originally Posted by yorkietalkjilly

Any real man would apologize to you.

That's what I think. I am just going to ignore him till he does!! I know we are going to see each other in July so hopefully he can act right and apologize to me!

chachi · 04-09-2012, 09:23 AM

thats the last time Id go to that house. Let them come to your house if they want to visit. If he didnt want Peanut in the house he could have handled it alot more maturely than that

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 09:31 AM

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Originally Posted by chachi

thats the last time Id go to that house. Let them come to your house if they want to visit. If he didnt want Peanut in the house he could have handled it alot more maturely than that

Ya I know, he has acted like that at my house before- Not that rude, but he has said "Get your dog off me" I will put him in his place at my house- I told him that is Pnut's couch and if you dont want him walking over you than dont sit there.

I know I wont be going there any time soon. I know if they do ask us for some reason Dh is going to tell them No.

I am still dying to send that picture Nancy made up haha could you imagine!!?? Haha!!

chachi · 04-09-2012, 09:37 AM

I love that picture and I would send it to him if it were me. Im the type of person that doesnt get mad I get even. With the way he acts I wouldnt care what he thought of me anyway.

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 09:41 AM

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Originally Posted by chachi

I love that picture and I would send it to him if it were me. Im the type of person that doesnt get mad I get even. With the way he acts I wouldnt care what he thought of me anyway.

I think I will send it

At least it will make me feel better!!

Sammy Mommy · 04-09-2012, 09:51 AM

I feel so bad that you had to be treated like that (Peanut too!!). Maybe your in laws are having some kind of issues and you were the target of some misdirected anger. Regardless, they should not have spoken to you and Peanut like that. It was totally uncalled for and rude! I would just stay clear of them and try to avoid them whenever possible.

lovespandp · 04-09-2012, 09:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Sammy Mommy

I feel so bad that you had to be treated like that (Peanut too!!). Maybe your in laws are having some kind of issues and you were the target of some misdirected anger. Regardless, they should not have spoken to you and Peanut like that. It was totally uncalled for and rude! I would just stay clear of them and try to avoid them whenever possible.

Who knows what is really going on. He has never acted like that with me so something must have been up! I will just go on my marry way-

04-08-2012, 07:29 PM	#31
capt_noonie www.yorkierescue.com Donating Member Join Date: May 2009 Location: Las Vegas & Orange County Posts: 17,408	This is crazy! Your DH's bro said "stop being a jerk, it's my bday!"? Was he talking to the mirror? You were not being a jerk! I'd be super pissed. And I would have left. I love to hold grudges. __________________ The T.U.B. Pack! Toto, Uni, & Bindi RIP Lord Scrappington Montgomery McLimpybottom aka El Lenguo the Handicapped Ninja 10-12-12

04-08-2012, 07:43 PM	#32
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	I've never been spoken to like that by any man - I have no idea how I would react but he's nooooo gentleman! I suspect I would have slapped his face, gotten my dog and left. It would take flowers, an apology in writing on fine note paper and then one day a long time from now, I might - might allow him to come apologize in person. Family or not, he's got to learn how to respect a woman! __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

04-09-2012, 04:27 AM	#34
LunasMomma Izzy's Momma Too! Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Stuart, Florida Posts: 8,799	Wow! Honestly, I'm the type of person that would write them off and tell them to go to H#LL! I can understand if they didn't want the dog in their house, that's fine, but to be so rude and nasty to you was uncalled for and deserves an apology. And poor Peanut, you know how sensitive doggies are, I'm sure his feelings were hurt too You sure can't pick your family, huh __________________ Tracy, Mom to Izzy and Luna

04-09-2012, 07:15 AM	#37
lovespandp ♥Momma's Bambino♥ Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Ca Posts: 10,026	I dont know what I am going to do about this! I hate to hold grudge, but I feel he really needs to apologize. __________________ "People with nothing to hide don't usually feel the need to say so."

04-09-2012, 07:18 AM	#38
yorkietalkjilly ♥ Love My Tibbe! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: D/FW, Texas Posts: 22,140	Any real man would apologize to you. __________________ Jeanie and Tibbe One must do the best one can. You may get some marks for a very imperfect answer: you will certainly get none for leaving the question alone. C. S. Lewis

04-09-2012, 09:23 AM	#40
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	thats the last time Id go to that house. Let them come to your house if they want to visit. If he didnt want Peanut in the house he could have handled it alot more maturely than that __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

04-09-2012, 09:37 AM	#42
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	I love that picture and I would send it to him if it were me. Im the type of person that doesnt get mad I get even. With the way he acts I wouldnt care what he thought of me anyway. __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427

04-09-2012, 09:51 AM	#44
Sammy Mommy Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: New York Posts: 3,896	I feel so bad that you had to be treated like that (Peanut too!!). Maybe your in laws are having some kind of issues and you were the target of some misdirected anger. Regardless, they should not have spoken to you and Peanut like that. It was totally uncalled for and rude! I would just stay clear of them and try to avoid them whenever possible.