Ladies?

[DadofJude]

Seeing as tomorrow is valentines day just thought I ask here your opinion..
so there is this special lady ... that well so far she is everything I ever wanted she is a great friend but of course she is taken..
how ever as a friend we are doing valentines and during the discussion of valentines day one of her friends heard our conversation and wanted in...
so I have two valentines .. I have planned to get my friend something she loves and it's a bit high on the budget... but I have no idea what to get her friend and I fear the other girl will notice her gift won't be "as good" (be cause it won't)
so what's your opinion should I not care and do what I want?
and what can I gift her friend?

[rubymoon2072]

yes i would say you should do as you choose for you special frienda and the one who invited herself well a nice box of chocolates and a small plant or something...maybe. good luck.

[enchilila]

Surely, this other lady realizes you had plans for your "special" friend and would not expect anything as "nice" as what you give her friend. Does this make sense? lol Say, if you give your "special" friend roses and a nice gift, then give this other lady some beautiful carnations and a box of candy. Candy is always safe. Roses are for special people. Good luck! You know how women can be! Just saying.

[DadofJude]

I think I'll need that good luck lol Thanks

[Perrella]

Ok...I really just needt to ask...ok, so you have this special friend, that as you say, so far is everything you ever wanted......but of course, she is taken Are you getting her the high dollar item in hopes to win her over? Does she know she is your everything girl?

If she doesn't...an item like that may be the give away.

I think other suggestions for the 2nd friend is very nice and will be accepted just fine.

[DadofJude]

Originally Posted by Perrella

Ok...I really just needt to ask...ok, so you have this special friend, that as you say, so far is everything you ever wanted......but of course, she is taken Are you getting her the high dollar item in hopes to win her over? Does she know she is your everything girl?

If she doesn't...an item like that may be the give away.

I think other suggestions for the 2nd friend is very nice and will be accepted just fine.

No I'm not getting her high dollar items in order to win her over she is not that type of girl and I'm not that type of guy.. I do how ever pay high attention to detail and I think she derseves bothing but the absoulte best.
I have not told her she is my everything girl just because I'm trying to respect her current relationship. She is hanging by a thread in that relationship but I don't want to be the cause of her break up... I'll let her find her own way out and meanwhile I'll treat her like she deserves as her friend as much as that friendzone sucks lol

[rubymoon2072]

Originally Posted by DadofJude

No I'm not getting her high dollar items in order to win her over she is not that type of girl and I'm not that type of guy.. I do how ever pay high attention to detail and I think she derseves bothing but the absoulte best.
I have not told her she is my everything girl just because I'm trying to respect her current relationship. She is hanging by a thread in that relationship but I don't want to be the cause of her break up... I'll let her find her own way out and meanwhile I'll treat her like she deserves as her friend as much as that friendzone sucks lol

i think that is the best way to go until that time comes when you can tell her. she must have some idea in the very back of her mind. sounds like you are a very respectful gentleman.

[linda44]

I think you shouldnt be getting someone else's valentine a gift period. Sorry just my thoughts.

[bWY39]

Originally Posted by rubymoon2072

i think that is the best way to go until that time comes when you can tell her. she must have some idea in the very back of her mind. sounds like you are a very respectful gentleman.

As man to man I think you are under estimating the power of a woman's mind and intelligence.

If this lady is "your everything" and so special to you then you can bet you bottom dollar she knows that already.
I leaned that you can hide some things from a woman but emotions like this you have no chance of hiding from them, they will see right through it every time.
Men wear their hearts on their sleeve (and other places) and women have superior intelligence to men when it comes to emotions you just can not hide it, she knows I bet.

As far as a gift for each is concerned you only need a token for each but you say you want to go above that token mark but I suggest you do not do that for both.

If one is extra special then OK treat her as extra special but surely both cant be of equal standing in your emotions.

Don't make a big mistake and think they do not know how you feel, don't EVER underestimate a woman !!!!!

[DadofJude]

Originally Posted by bWY39

As man to man I think you are under estimating the power of a woman's mind and intelligence.

If this lady is "your everything" and so special to you then you can bet you bottom dollar she knows that already.
I leaned that you can hide some things from a woman but emotions like this you have no chance of hiding from them, they will see right through it every time.
Men wear their hearts on their sleeve (and other places) and women have superior intelligence to men when it comes to emotions you just can not hide it, she knows I bet.

As far as a gift for each is concerned you only need a token for each but you say you want to go above that token mark but I suggest you do not do that for both.

If one is extra special then OK treat her as extra special but surely both cant be of equal standing in your emotions.

Don't make a big mistake and think they do not know how you feel, don't EVER underestimate a woman !!!!!

Very good point, she probably knows I like her but I know she has no Idea I think she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, her smile makes my day and that she is my dream girl.. a woman like her doesn't come more than once in a life time... wow too deep hahahha .. You are right about the gifts, she is super special so her gift will be as well the other one well not so much.

[enchilila]

[QUOTE=bWY39;3824948]As man to man I think you are under estimating the power of a woman's mind and intelligence.

If this lady is "your everything" and so special to you then you can bet you bottom dollar she knows that already.
I leaned that you can hide some things from a woman but emotions like this you have no chance of hiding from them, they will see right through it every time.
Men wear their hearts on their sleeve (and other places) and women have superior intelligence to men when it comes to emotions you just can not hide it, she knows I bet.

As far as a gift for each is concerned you only need a token for each but you say you want to go above that token mark but I suggest you do not do that for both.

If one is extra special then OK treat her as extra special but surely both cant be of equal standing in your emotions.

Don't make a big mistake and think they do not know how you feel, don't EVER underestimate a woman !!!!![/QUOTE]


Ain't that the truth!

[bWY39]

Originally Posted by DadofJude

Very good point, she probably knows I like her but I know she has no Idea I think she is the most beautiful woman I have ever seen, her smile makes my day and that she is my dream girl.. a woman like her doesn't come more than once in a life time... wow too deep hahahha .. You are right about the gifts, she is super special so her gift will be as well the other one well not so much.

You can convince yourself of things but you will never be able to hide your emotions from her.
She may not react to you or encourage you but I am prepared to bet she knows....MAN....SHE IS A WOMAN !!!!!!

[Harrysmum]

Originally Posted by enchilila

Ain't that the truth!

Ohhhhhhhh yes!!! Sally x

[DadofJude]

Originally Posted by bWY39

You can convince yourself of things but you will never be able to hide your emotions from her.
She may not react to you or encourage you but I am prepared to bet she knows....MAN....SHE IS A WOMAN !!!!!!

Heh If you are right then I'm screwed lol

[Perrella]

Originally Posted by DadofJude

No I'm not getting her high dollar items in order to win her over she is not that type of girl and I'm not that type of guy.. I do how ever pay high attention to detail and I think she derseves bothing but the absoulte best.
I have not told her she is my everything girl just because I'm trying to respect her current relationship. She is hanging by a thread in that relationship but I don't want to be the cause of her break up... I'll let her find her own way out and meanwhile I'll treat her like she deserves as her friend as much as that friendzone sucks lol

I give you the utmost respect and sounds like a wonderful friend to your special lady! I wish you the best of luck and hope she comes around to see just how wonderful you are.

Ok, now...for the other lady, she invited herself...so you don't have to get her anything. But, then again the sweet guy that you are....candy or flowers would be a very nice gift.