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Connie · 03-30-2011, 03:15 PM

Oh no, Lila! I am so sorry to hear this news about your Mom. My heart hurts for you and what you are going through. I lost my Mom and know the heartache of seeing them go through an illness and failing. I send hugs and I will be praying for your Mom and you.

MauiGirl · 03-30-2011, 03:29 PM

Prayers going out to you and your mom at this very difficult time.

boopster · 03-30-2011, 04:05 PM

Lila,

I'm so sorry - I just now read this.

I've been in your shoes so I know I can't say anything to make you feel better. But in years to come you will be able to take comfort in knowing that you were there for your mom as much as you could be.

You and your mom will be in my prayers.

Bellasmom30 · 03-30-2011, 04:43 PM

Oh hun, I am so sorry. I know that we don't know each other, but my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine...Sending hugs and prayers....

enchilila · 03-30-2011, 05:39 PM

Mom is not in any physical pain that I can tell. Since her hemorrhagic stroke in 1997 (caused from Coumadin), she has been unable to communicate with words that make sense and has never been able to really understand what anyone else says. So, I don't think she really knows what I am saying to her at this time. But, I do know she can see it in my eyes and by the tenderness in my voice. She has suffered mentally with mega frustration since 1997. As far as physical pain, I just do the best I can to try and figure out if she is hurting. I have seen her SO frustrated over the years. She has always known something was wrong with herself. It eventually turned into Vascular Dementia. She has suffered enough. God Bless her little soul.

Patti · 03-30-2011, 06:26 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's long struggle. My Mom had a stroke 4 years ago, she also was on coumadin. She only lived a week after the stroke and you could see the frustration in her eyes of not being able to speak or move. I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for all of you to live through this for so many years. I will pray for her to remain pain free and for your continued strength.

enchilila · 03-31-2011, 03:05 AM

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Originally Posted by Patti

I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's long struggle. My Mom had a stroke 4 years ago, she also was on coumadin. She only lived a week after the stroke and you could see the frustration in her eyes of not being able to speak or move. I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for all of you to live through this for so many years. I will pray for her to remain pain free and for your continued strength.

Oh, Patti, I'm sorry you, too, had to go through a similar event with your mom. It's heart wrenching. I'm sure coumadin has served a purpose for some people, but the doctors sure need to keep and eye on those taking it and be diligent about bloodwork while on it. The neurologist told us that night in the ER that only 1% of people live that have had this type of stroke. I don't ever want to be in this 1%. I, personally, will never take coumadin. Thank you for your prayers.

enchilila · 03-31-2011, 03:34 PM

The Hospice nurse came out today after I called her to tell her that mom was not doing well. Long story short.......she said mom is "actively dying". She can barely breath now. It's just a matter of time. When? I don't know, but anytime is too soon!

MauiGirl · 03-31-2011, 03:38 PM

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Originally Posted by enchilila

The Hospice nurse came out today after I called her to tell her that mom was not doing well. Long story short.......she said mom is "actively dying". She can barely breath now. It's just a matter of time. When? I don't know, but anytime is too soon!

I pray that your mom will have a peaceful journey. Sending comforting hugs to you too as you try to deal with it all.

yorkieusa · 03-31-2011, 05:19 PM

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Originally Posted by enchilila

The Hospice nurse came out today after I called her to tell her that mom was not doing well. Long story short.......she said mom is "actively dying". She can barely breath now. It's just a matter of time. When? I don't know, but anytime is too soon!

I wish I could give you big hugs right now. I understand what you are feeling. That's a bond that is so very painful to have broken. I'm praying for you and your mother.

MaddiesMommie · 03-31-2011, 05:48 PM

I am saying prayers for you and your momma. May God be with you both through this.

Patti · 03-31-2011, 05:52 PM

I am so sorry. My dad passed last March and Hospice told us when he was dying and we were all there. Losing ones Mom is so painful.

BabyGirl Rosie · 03-31-2011, 06:29 PM

Prayers and hugs being sent your way for you and your mom.

boopster · 03-31-2011, 08:50 PM

Lila, I wish I could be there for you in this awful time.

bettyeanne · 04-01-2011, 04:05 AM

I am so sorry about your Mom and am keeping you both in my prayers. God bless you both.

03-30-2011, 03:15 PM	#31
Connie Loved by Maddie & Libby Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: North Dakota Posts: 10,732	Oh no, Lila! I am so sorry to hear this news about your Mom. My heart hurts for you and what you are going through. I lost my Mom and know the heartache of seeing them go through an illness and failing. I send hugs and I will be praying for your Mom and you. __________________ Custom doggie dresses and vests Memory is a country where I can go to see your face - but where do I go when I miss your embrace?

03-30-2011, 03:29 PM	#32
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03-30-2011, 04:43 PM	#34
Bellasmom30 YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2011 Location: Royse City tx Posts: 341	Oh hun, I am so sorry. I know that we don't know each other, but my heart breaks for you! I can't imagine...Sending hugs and prayers.... __________________ Mom to five children, one Yorkie Bella and a Maltese Sugar

03-30-2011, 05:39 PM	#35
enchilila Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 9,689	Mom is not in any physical pain that I can tell. Since her hemorrhagic stroke in 1997 (caused from Coumadin), she has been unable to communicate with words that make sense and has never been able to really understand what anyone else says. So, I don't think she really knows what I am saying to her at this time. But, I do know she can see it in my eyes and by the tenderness in my voice. She has suffered mentally with mega frustration since 1997. As far as physical pain, I just do the best I can to try and figure out if she is hurting. I have seen her SO frustrated over the years. She has always known something was wrong with herself. It eventually turned into Vascular Dementia. She has suffered enough. God Bless her little soul. __________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living!

03-30-2011, 06:26 PM	#36
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry to hear of your Mom's long struggle. My Mom had a stroke 4 years ago, she also was on coumadin. She only lived a week after the stroke and you could see the frustration in her eyes of not being able to speak or move. I cannot imagine how difficult it has been for all of you to live through this for so many years. I will pray for her to remain pain free and for your continued strength. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

03-30-2011, 04:05 PM	#33
boopster Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Southern California, USA Posts: 1,643 Blog Entries: 1	Lila, I'm so sorry - I just now read this. I've been in your shoes so I know I can't say anything to make you feel better. But in years to come you will be able to take comfort in knowing that you were there for your mom as much as you could be. You and your mom will be in my prayers.

03-31-2011, 03:34 PM	#38
enchilila Donating YT 5000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 9,689	The Hospice nurse came out today after I called her to tell her that mom was not doing well. Long story short.......she said mom is "actively dying". She can barely breath now. It's just a matter of time. When? I don't know, but anytime is too soon! __________________ "Betty Boop" The light of my life & the joy of my living!

03-31-2011, 05:48 PM	#41
MaddiesMommie LoveMy2 Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: East Tennessee Posts: 4,060	I am saying prayers for you and your momma. May God be with you both through this.

03-31-2011, 05:52 PM	#42
Patti Donating YT 30K Club Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Illinois Posts: 35,509 Blog Entries: 6	I am so sorry. My dad passed last March and Hospice told us when he was dying and we were all there. Losing ones Mom is so painful. __________________ Cali Pixie Roxie : RIP Nikki; RIP Maya;RIP my sweet Dixie girl 1/17/08 http://callipuppyscastle.bravehost.com/index.html

03-31-2011, 06:29 PM	#43
BabyGirl Rosie I ♥ my girls! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: With My Yorkies Posts: 18,980	Prayers and hugs being sent your way for you and your mom. __________________ Momma to three sweet Yorkie girls Rosie Marie, Mikki Leigh , and Lily Mae Grace!

03-31-2011, 08:50 PM	#44
boopster Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Southern California, USA Posts: 1,643 Blog Entries: 1	Lila, I wish I could be there for you in this awful time.

04-01-2011, 04:05 AM	#45
bettyeanne Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Alabama, etc. Posts: 9,031	I am so sorry about your Mom and am keeping you both in my prayers. God bless you both. __________________ Toto's Mom - http://www.dogster.com/?206581 Yorkie Rescue Colorado - http://www.yorkierescuecolorado.com/ "The difference between genius and stupidity is that genius has limits." -- Albert Einstein