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Old 12-11-2009, 06:45 AM   #61
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You know, just as an interesting side note, women throughout history have repeatedly taken the blame for a man's succumbing to temptation. Eve is pretty much blamed for gettting herself and Adam thrown out of Eden.

In Islamic cultures, women are told to cover up to various degrees (from a headscarf to a burkah), and if they happen to be raped while not appropriately covered, the blame is on the woman! Because, of course, men cannot control themselves at the sight of an uncovered woman.

And in literature, Ulysses heard the call of the Sirens. Any man who heard them was positively unable to resist.

The idea that women tempt men and men are unable to control themselves has been perpetuated throughout human history. But I don't buy it. These ideas pit women against other women as rivals (not a good thing) and make men less accountable.
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You are being too hard on yourself. If your husband cheated, why would you automatically assume that YOU failed in some way or lacked something? Your reaction is not unusual, by the way. Why do women do this???? What is this self-loathing that women have? THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU!

And why are women so quick to hold a grudge against another woman, a woman she may not even know, and yet forgive the man who is supposed to love and honor her???.


look at it this way....if you clawed out the eyes of the other woman, would that make things better between you and your husband? Of course not. Because the problem is not the other woman--the problem is your husband.
He will just find someone else to cheat with.

Men are not stupid, nor are they defenseless against the wiles of an attractive, seductive woman. I think some men would like women to think this, because it takes away their accountability, and puts all the fault on the evil temptresses....women. If a man cheats, he is doing it because he has chosen to do so. Plain and simple.

fyi, this does not mean I think women should go out and have affairs with married men. I would never recommend that because it is a waste of time, and very rarely do such relationships lead to committed, stable relationships. The woman usually gets hurt and feels used, and the man is not available to be with her when she might really need him to help through a tough time, etc. AND a man who will cheat on his wife will later cheat on his mistress. Rule of thumb: Once a cheater, always a cheater.

First off I didnt say that I would be ready to FORGIVE my husband. I said I would still love him. I would feel nothing for this woman, no love for sure! I didnt say I would have thought I failed. I said, I would wonder what she did for him? You can angle this way 10 ways. Bottom line is, EVERY woman would care. You can try to convince me you wouldnt, but you are human, you get mad, you get angry & in that moment, I dont think you would only blame your husband. You can believe that, but I don't. Ellin Woods has already contacted 1 of the women! Why do you think that is? Because she cares and she has something to say to her! AGAIN--what he did was wrong, but no worse than the trash that has been on TV telling their stories. One of them ticked off Kathie Lee on the morning show, did yall hear about that? These women are TRASH. If you wanna believe they didnt have motives and they didnt know who he was....go ahead and continue to be snowed. lol
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If a woman have done the same , you would have shout your mouth and placed the history under the rug.
Yea right, Paris Hilton, Brittney Spears are just 2 that come to mind. Women are not hidden under the rug. When you become a PUBLIC Figure You better wear the pants and be prepared. Look at Sarah Paylan how she's been attacked by the public because her daughter was pregnant! Please....
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HOW can you NOT know that TIGER WOODS is married? She is on the field ALL the time when he plays. That woman is full of crap! These women know what they were doing! Looking for CASH. I think they are equally wrong. I dont see how Tigers sins are worse than theirs. They are all wrong and all Ho's!



Not a Tiger seems like a Cheetah because he's been Lion.

I really feel for his wife. The kids are too young now to even know what's happening, but one day they will hear about it. She has not been the average showboat celebrity wife, by keeping more of a private lifestyle and not blasted in the media everyday. I have admired her for that. She seems to be a beautiful person. He's now shown us that he's a fool. I guess since his father passed he thinks he doesn't have to play by rules anymore. What a jackazz!!! The main thing it's not anyone's business and the media are ho's too. Their phony concern makes me sick. He and his wife have to deal with this problem. Not the media and nor fans.

Me personally...I would have hit him with a golf club, seriously, but not to do any serious damage, for my kids sake. They will need their father.
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You know, just as an interesting side note, women throughout history have repeatedly taken the blame for a man's succumbing to temptation. Eve is pretty much blamed for gettting herself and Adam thrown out of Eden.

In Islamic cultures, women are told to cover up to various degrees (from a headscarf to a burkah), and if they happen to be raped while not appropriately covered, the blame is on the woman! Because, of course, men cannot control themselves at the sight of an uncovered woman.

And in literature, Ulysses heard the call of the Sirens. Any man who heard them was positively unable to resist.

The idea that women tempt men and men are unable to control themselves has been perpetuated throughout human history. But I don't buy it. These ideas pit women against other women as rivals (not a good thing) and make men less accountable.



So true especially when it was MEN who wrote these historic rules and tales.

What's worse are the sleazy women who are in this mess. They make it easy for foolish men. And foolish men prey on weak women to lower their standards and put up with this nonsense.
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You know, just as an interesting side note, women throughout history have repeatedly taken the blame for a man's succumbing to temptation. Eve is pretty much blamed for gettting herself and Adam thrown out of Eden.

In Islamic cultures, women are told to cover up to various degrees (from a headscarf to a burkah), and if they happen to be raped while not appropriately covered, the blame is on the woman! Because, of course, men cannot control themselves at the sight of an uncovered woman.

And in literature, Ulysses heard the call of the Sirens. Any man who heard them was positively unable to resist.

The idea that women tempt men and men are unable to control themselves has been perpetuated throughout human history. But I don't buy it. These ideas pit women against other women as rivals (not a good thing) and make men less accountable.
I so agree...it was interesting yesterday when Kathy Lee had a panel of 4 young men (20-30 yrs) to talk about this and that is what one of the men said...It was crap that men can't help themselves...they can if they want.
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What about other celebs like Steven Speilburg! I never really hear gossip about his family. Some people just know when to keep you know what in their pants.
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Tiger Woods to take 'indefinite' leave from golf - Yahoo! News

Looks like Tiger is taking a break. I hate that. I will miss watching him play. But, I hope he works out his marriage. Looks like both of their hearts are in the right place. I hope the media can chill out and give them some peace.
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Looks like Tiger is taking a break. I hate that. I will miss watching him play. But, I hope he works out his marriage. Looks like both of their hearts are in the right place. I hope the media can chill out and give them some peace.

Too many money grubbers out there for that.
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eh....I'm tired of hearing about Tiger Woods. Lousy husband, lousy role model, good golfer. I wish the media would stay out of the lives of celebrities when stuff like this goes down. Sometimes they need to learn when to back off and let families take care of their problems in private.
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Not a Tiger seems like a Cheetah because he's been Lion.


I really feel for his wife. The kids are too young now to even know what's happening, but one day they will hear about it. She has not been the average showboat celebrity wife, by keeping more of a private lifestyle and not blasted in the media everyday. I have admired her for that. She seems to be a beautiful person. He's now shown us that he's a fool. I guess since his father passed he thinks he doesn't have to play by rules anymore. What a jackazz!!! The main thing it's not anyone's business and the media are ho's too. Their phony concern makes me sick. He and his wife have to deal with this problem. Not the media and nor fans.

Me personally...I would have hit him with a golf club, seriously, but not to do any serious damage, for my kids sake. They will need their father.
omg how funny, I just caught this....
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The public is fascinated with celebs - our fault. They're no better than you or I, just paid waaaaay more.

What is surprising in his case is he did keep a private life - (now we know why) and was a huge role model ....he opened up a sport that was pretty restricted (and boring to watch till he came along)

That never made him a good person - just an amazing golfer. Our own PRESIDENT got caught cheating so really - what he did isn't too shocking.

yes it's sad that his character is ruined but Tiger Woods & family will never hurt for money - even if he loses his endorsements and when he comes back - he'll be even more watched just because of all this.

Compared to the really bad things people do - cheating hurts everyone involved but it's not like he beat or killed his wife.

but I have a feeling that's what his wife felt like doing to him. Seemed like she knows how to swing a gold club too .....only she didn't swing it on the golf course.
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good one vilette lol
and alison,, this one is for you.. How can u say that your not a pretty girl.
ARE YOU CRAZY WOMAN!!!!!! I've seen you girlfriend, and you happened to be the cutest girl on earth.. So stop that and never say that again.
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I don't know what I will call him.
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how about (((( a low life)))!!!!!!
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