My world has turned upside down

[marcerella02]

Originally Posted by YorkieShadow

Well I was supose to be getting another female from the Durrer line, but I had phoned and told them I just cant.

It's good that you recognize that you are not ready for a puppy- sometimes people jump into that hoping it will heal their hearts and never end up dealing with the grief. The day will come when you feel 100% ready and then it will be the perfect time.

How is Mickey doing tonight?

[Yorkiekids]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that the two of you will pull together to get through this grieving period.

[Yorkiedaze]

How sad for Mickey and all of you to have to go thru such a terrible time after losing a precious family member. I'm truly so very, very sorry.

[YorkieShadow]

Originally Posted by marcerella02

It's good that you recognize that you are not ready for a puppy- sometimes people jump into that hoping it will heal their hearts and never end up dealing with the grief. The day will come when you feel 100% ready and then it will be the perfect time.

How is Mickey doing tonight?

Hes better today then he was last night. hes not looking for her, but hes just laying on the couch watching everyone, once in awhile he will go look out the window . hes still eating good, Im so thankful for that. but he keeps looking for her ball and we let the ball go with Minnie. Im going to have to find him one that was just like that one, I think it was called a moutain ball, it was pink easy for them to grip. V had sent it to Minnie for Christmas 2 years ago. and Minnie has never been with out it. She loved that ball. ( Thanks V for getting it for her)

[Breny]

I'm so sorry Your post just had me in tears. I just can't imagine. They say time heals but still...it hurts. I hope you and he heal and you will be in my thoughts. Huggs.

[amandawash]

My heart is seriously breaking for Mickey. For you too, but for Mickey because he sounds so lost and just doesn't understand. I am so sorry you are having to deal with this, I can't even imagine the grief your family is feeling. I pray that you and Mickey's heart begins healing soon, but never forget the precious memories of Minnie that will always be in your heart.

[YorkieShadow]

OHMYGOSH. I just found that ball on line, it was the first site I came to.
its was called a JW Tanzanian Mountain Balls
Im going to get one for Mickey, maybe the green one.
heres where I found it at.
Balls for Dogs and Puppies from Little River Pet Shop

[BubblPopElectrc]

I'm very sorry.

[jp4m2]

Your post was so hard to read, I weep just trying to get through it.....I feel so sad for Mickey....hoping he understands.....hoping he will cope.....hoping he will adjust.......that poor baby.......


When this happened to us I was just so consumed with regrets and I couldn't stop "why-ing?" and "what if-ing?" things over and over again.....The sadness was just soooo deep, and it was just so hard to make it through a day.....Part of me wanted to hang on so desperately to that pain and sadness because that was all I had left, and to let go of that feeling meant my Joey was really gone......I don't wish this on anyone...You and Mickey will be in my thoughts and well wishes ......

[YorkieShadow]

Originally Posted by jp4m2

Your post was so hard to read, I weep just trying to get through it.....I feel so sad for Mickey....hoping he understands.....hoping he will cope.....hoping he will adjust.......that poor baby.......


When this happened to us I was just so consumed with regrets and I couldn't stop "why-ing?" and "what if-ing?" things over and over again.....The sadness was just soooo deep, and it was just so hard to make it through a day.....Part of me wanted to hang on so desperately to that pain and sadness because that was all I had left, and to let go of that feeling meant my Joey was really gone......I don't wish this on anyone...You and Mickey will be in my thoughts and well wishes ......

Yes I have been doing alot of the whys and what ifs too. She had always been such a healthy girl. it just came on that fast. I also question why the Hospital didnt keep her and try. I was told because they knew it would be her last night and she would grieve and be gone with in hours if I left her. and I guess theres just nothing they could do for a brain tumor. or could they? or was it just to late.

[YorkichonBella]

I am so sorry for the loss of yr precious Minnie. She was Beautiful! Yr story though so sad, was just so sweet!! Mickey's devotion & Love shows through!! They truly are little angels! HUGS to you & Mickey!! You were so Loved sweet angel Minnie!!

[marcerella02]

Originally Posted by YorkieShadow

OHMYGOSH. I just found that ball on line, it was the first site I came to.
its was called a JW Tanzanian Mountain Balls
Im going to get one for Mickey, maybe the green one.
heres where I found it at.
Balls for Dogs and Puppies from Little River Pet Shop

what a great toy- I am sure it will really lift his spirits- even for a little bit- if a new toys came in the mail just for him- and one that reminds him of Minnie!

[Nikki+2]

I am so sorry for what you are going through. Every post about Minnie makes my heart just ache for you. Something about Minnie's sweet little face reminds me so much of my Sugar that reading about her just brings tears to my eyes. You have been in my thoughts- I'm sending hugs and Sugar sends kisses to Mickey.

[JeanieK]

That is so sad. There is just no way to explain to him. I know it breaks your heart. I'm so sorry.

[AprilLove]

Your post has me in tears. I am so very sorry for your loss. I can relate to your pain and grieving, and to Mickeys. It is hard to watch them go through this. I have a little Maltese that was attached at the hip to my oldest who went to the bridge on Jan 2nd. They were a pair their entire lives, and she wouldn't eat for the first 3 days after he was gone. It was hard to deal with my own grief and help her at the same time, but I focused on giving her a lot of attention and finally was able to get her to start eating again. She still looks for him, but is not as sad as she was. Even with the younger dogs here, she didn't find any solace with them, as her and Bailey were a team. She is coming around now though.
I just wanted to offer some words of hope for you. Mickey will just need time to go through the grieving process too, just like we do.
We will keep you and your family in our thoughts, Rest In Peace, sweet Minnie