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IluvLucy · 10-12-2008, 09:31 AM

Bobbi, you are SO kind hearted! I've gotten messages from you here and elsewhere, and I LOVE it!

I always think of Halloween as being for children. There's nothing more cute than seeing little kids dressed up for trick or treating.

You can send your messages to me anytime! I enjoy it.

luv_my_yorkies · 10-12-2008, 09:38 AM

Halloween is our FAVORITE!!!! We love your comments and look forward to them, so please keep 'em comin!!!!

Darlin Beauxs · 10-12-2008, 09:41 AM

I feel the same way everyone else does, if you don't like it, delete it!

The only thing I don't like about Halloween is the safety issue. There are a lot of weirdos out there, and I want everyones skin and furkids to be safe. I like the idea of a fall festival. When we were kids, we only trick or treated around my Grandmother's cul-de-sac, but she bought us tons of candy and inspected it before we ate it. I come from a small town and the elementary kids had a "parade" where they walked us around the block to show off our costumes.

A pet peeve I have is when people spell Christmas "X-Mas". Why celebrate this Holiday, or expect people to buy from you when you won't recognize the meaning of the Holiday? It is NOT about sales, gifts, or a big meal!

Nancy1999 · 10-12-2008, 10:22 AM

I just want to be clear that Halloween is not a religious holiday, and people who enjoy it are not involved in the occult.

Ashley V · 10-12-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by MissSophie

I remember one time visiting one of my adoptive families around Halloween and asked one of their daughters (about age 5) what she planned to be for the holiday. She pointedly told me that "Halloween is the devil's holiday", and I immediately felt stupid.

I am really careful now, but I totally love Halloween, and I forget that there are people who don''t.

I hate that when people say that because actually, if they read into the history, Halloween is based on christian beliefs. People have turned it into something completely different than what it really is. As a child, I was allowed to celebrate halloween, but I was only allowed to be something good like a princess or a ballerina or something.

My cousin is born on halloween and we used to live in this little itty bitty "christian" town. Some children were actually not allowed to play with him because he was born on the "devil's day" and he was a "spawn of satan" and all that.

Nancy1999 · 10-12-2008, 10:36 AM

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Originally Posted by Darlin Beauxs

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A pet peeve I have is when people spell Christmas "X-Mas". Why celebrate this Holiday, or expect people to buy from you when you won't recognize the meaning of the Holiday? It is NOT about sales, gifts, or a big meal!

This is a pet peeve of many people, but you may be interested to know that this is not a recent thing, and has been going on over a thousand years. The letter X in the Greek alphabet stands for Chi, which stands for Christ. Early Roman Catholic priests wrote out "X", which means "Christ", and "mas" which means "mass". It wasn't meant as taking Christ out of Christmas. However, few people know that, and it still bother me when stores do this, but now they won't even say Christmas trees or Xmas trees, they say "Holliday trees, and I are refuse to purchase from stores who dishonor Christmas in this way.

veguroev · 10-12-2008, 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Ashley V

My cousin is born on halloween and we used to live in this little itty bitty "christian" town. Some children were actually not allowed to play with him because he was born on the "devil's day" and he was a "spawn of satan" and all that.

That's mean!!! poor cousin!!

donnarod · 10-12-2008, 11:01 AM

I can't believe that anyone could be offended.
I am sorry that happened to you.

MeganS · 10-12-2008, 11:23 AM

Bobbi, I don't think you should feel bad at all. Many people DO celebrate Halloween, and though a few don't, I bet you made all the people that DO very happy.

and if someone wished me a happy holiday that I don't celebrate, I'd be thankful that they thought of me at all. You are one of the sweetest people on here! I've noticed that the ones who don't really need to apologize are the ones that usually do.

Hugs!
Megan

and as a side note, it really irritates me when you aren't allowed to wish someone a Happy ____ or you can't say the word "Christmas" without an "X" because you might offend people. How about the people that DO celebrate that holiday or who DO take offense to the "X?" Why is the general public only concerned about hurting the feelings of the minorities?

MindieRose · 10-12-2008, 12:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Nancy1999

I just want to be clear that Halloween is not a religious holiday, and people who enjoy it are not involved in the occult.

I think perhaps that should be worded to say that most people do not celebrate it as a religious holiday and not all people that celebrate it are involved in the occult. I have several celtic wiccan relatives as well just know some down right scarey people that celebrate it as a religious holiday and view it and celebrate it as an occultic holiday.
The Celtic Irish actually observed this day as a holiday before the Catholic church delcared it All Hallows day.
Here is more about it at this link.Click Here

Like I said, I do not take offense to someone sending me a halloween greeting or saying happy halloween. My kids dress up and have fun at our church thing, and we arent judgemental toward others that are out having fun with it.

missj2007 · 10-12-2008, 01:39 PM

Grandma Bobbi I don't celebrate Halloween but you did not offend me at all. No way so keep on posting! ((hugs)0

Stella's mom · 10-12-2008, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Nikki+2

That is so sweet of you to post this. I can't imagine you offended anyone. For example, since I'm not jewish I don't celebrate Rosh Hashanah but if someone sent me a Happy Rosh Hashanah message I would just be happy that they thought about me at all and since that would tell me that they probably are observing Rosh Hashanah, I would send them a happy Rosh Hashanah message right back.

For the record, I love Halloween so consider this an open invitation to my profile.

I totally agree with you

delisa2850 · 10-12-2008, 02:46 PM

Bobbi -

I LOVE everything you send. Know why? Because you send it with genuine love for each and every one of us. You have made my day countless times with an uplifting message in my messages. PLEASE don't stop!

To be honest - I am not the biggest fan of Halloween either. The devils and witches, etc. make me a little nervous. But I truly believe that 95% + of the people are not celebrating anything evil - they are just having fun with their friends and family. And I suppose it makes me a pretty big hypocrit that I already have Roxy's costume all ready for our get together next weekend!!

You are one of the kindest hearted and least offensive people I have ever met. I respect that someone politely asked you to not include them in Halloween postings. I know that it is not easy to stand up when you are in the minority. But please keep me included in ALL of your postings - you really are a blessing in my life!

Can't wait to see you Saturday! Give Sandy and TJ extra hugs from us!
Love ya!
DeLisa and Roxy

missj2007 · 10-12-2008, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by delisa2850

Bobbi -

I LOVE everything you send. Know why? Because you send it with genuine love for each and every one of us. You have made my day countless times with an uplifting message in my messages. PLEASE don't stop!

To be honest - I am not the biggest fan of Halloween either. The devils and witches, etc. make me a little nervous. But I truly believe that 95% + of the people are not celebrating anything evil - they are just having fun with their friends and family. And I suppose it makes me a pretty big hypocrit that I already have Roxy's costume all ready for our get together next weekend!!

You are one of the kindest hearted and least offensive people I have ever met. I respect that someone politely asked you to not include them in Halloween postings. I know that it is not easy to stand up when you are in the minority. But please keep me included in ALL of your postings - you really are a blessing in my life!

Can't wait to see you Saturday! Give Sandy and TJ extra hugs from us!
Love ya!
DeLisa and Roxy

I agree! Grandma Bobbi always makes my day. I am unable to post like I want recently but I do log on and I am greeted with beautiful comments, personalized to me! Also you let me call you grandma

that let me know you are a wonderful person and you also give me awesome advice! Love ya grandma Bobbi. Post away!

RowdysMom · 10-12-2008, 03:28 PM

Bobbi, my eyes light up when I see a message from Grandmatoall on my profile page - please please please don't ever stop sending me messages!!! I love ALL OF THEM! If someone is offended, just delete it - the sender meant no harm!!!

I want you to know that I love your messages, please keep sending them!

10-12-2008, 09:31 AM	#16
IluvLucy Lovin' Lucy & Rebel Donating Member Join Date: Aug 2006 Location: Georgia Posts: 4,438	Bobbi, you are SO kind hearted! I've gotten messages from you here and elsewhere, and I LOVE it! I always think of Halloween as being for children. There's nothing more cute than seeing little kids dressed up for trick or treating. You can send your messages to me anytime! I enjoy it. __________________ Kim , Rebel ,and baby Dixie RIP my sweet Lucy

10-12-2008, 09:38 AM	#17
luv_my_yorkies Love at first bark Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Philadelphia Posts: 677	Halloween is our FAVORITE!!!! We love your comments and look forward to them, so please keep 'em comin!!!! __________________ My loves, my angels, my Yorkies. Valentino, Lolita, and Coquette!

10-12-2008, 10:22 AM	#19
Nancy1999 I ♥ Joey & Ralphie! Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Arizona Posts: 25,396 Blog Entries: 2	I just want to be clear that Halloween is not a religious holiday, and people who enjoy it are not involved in the occult. __________________ NancyJoey Proud members of the CrAzYcLuB and YAP! ** Just Say No to Puppymills – Join YAP! Yorkshire Terrier Club of America – Breeder Referrals

10-12-2008, 11:01 AM	#23
donnarod "Owned" by Miss Tricksie Donating Member Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: Riverview, FL Posts: 3,737	I can't believe that anyone could be offended. I am sorry that happened to you. __________________ Donna, Tricksie and Peanut

10-12-2008, 11:23 AM	#24
MeganS Donating YT 7000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 12,016 Blog Entries: 1	Bobbi, I don't think you should feel bad at all. Many people DO celebrate Halloween, and though a few don't, I bet you made all the people that DO very happy. and if someone wished me a happy holiday that I don't celebrate, I'd be thankful that they thought of me at all. You are one of the sweetest people on here! I've noticed that the ones who don't really need to apologize are the ones that usually do. Hugs! Megan and as a side note, it really irritates me when you aren't allowed to wish someone a Happy ____ or you can't say the word "Christmas" without an "X" because you might offend people. How about the people that DO celebrate that holiday or who DO take offense to the "X?" Why is the general public only concerned about hurting the feelings of the minorities? __________________ Megan "I have my dreams, I have made plans." - The Pirate Queen All Gave Some; Some Gave All Last edited by MeganS; 10-12-2008 at 11:25 AM.

10-12-2008, 09:41 AM	#18
Darlin Beauxs Donating Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Monroe, La, Us Posts: 1,326 Blog Entries: 1	I feel the same way everyone else does, if you don't like it, delete it! The only thing I don't like about Halloween is the safety issue. There are a lot of weirdos out there, and I want everyones skin and furkids to be safe. I like the idea of a fall festival. When we were kids, we only trick or treated around my Grandmother's cul-de-sac, but she bought us tons of candy and inspected it before we ate it. I come from a small town and the elementary kids had a "parade" where they walked us around the block to show off our costumes. A pet peeve I have is when people spell Christmas "X-Mas". Why celebrate this Holiday, or expect people to buy from you when you won't recognize the meaning of the Holiday? It is NOT about sales, gifts, or a big meal!

10-12-2008, 01:39 PM	#26
missj2007 YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Florida Posts: 698 Blog Entries: 11	Grandma Bobbi I don't celebrate Halloween but you did not offend me at all. No way so keep on posting! ((hugs)0 __________________ I have lost my bestfriend, Poppy my angel,my protector March 29,2008-June 14,2009.

10-12-2008, 02:46 PM	#28
delisa2850 YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Pocatello, ID, USA Posts: 414	Bobbi - I LOVE everything you send. Know why? Because you send it with genuine love for each and every one of us. You have made my day countless times with an uplifting message in my messages. PLEASE don't stop! To be honest - I am not the biggest fan of Halloween either. The devils and witches, etc. make me a little nervous. But I truly believe that 95% + of the people are not celebrating anything evil - they are just having fun with their friends and family. And I suppose it makes me a pretty big hypocrit that I already have Roxy's costume all ready for our get together next weekend!! You are one of the kindest hearted and least offensive people I have ever met. I respect that someone politely asked you to not include them in Halloween postings. I know that it is not easy to stand up when you are in the minority. But please keep me included in ALL of your postings - you really are a blessing in my life! Can't wait to see you Saturday! Give Sandy and TJ extra hugs from us! Love ya! DeLisa and Roxy __________________ DeLisa Roxy and Oakley

10-12-2008, 03:28 PM	#30
RowdysMom Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: Central Texas Posts: 2,624	Bobbi, my eyes light up when I see a message from Grandmatoall on my profile page - please please please don't ever stop sending me messages!!! I love ALL OF THEM! If someone is offended, just delete it - the sender meant no harm!!! I want you to know that I love your messages, please keep sending them! __________________ Rex & Rowdy's Mom