Oh boy... (actually GIRL) - What have I DONE????

[ace611]

Originally Posted by Gizmo's Mom

Dena~How is the princess this morning? Sending a hug and a smile yer way .

[a2luckygirl]

well, that's a simple plan!

[a2luckygirl]

Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

Personally, I think THIS IS the continental divide right here. It's the issue of personal donations. If donations were made directly to a vet, or a neutral third party - I think everyone would then be on the same page. The issue that is making others speak up so vehemently is that of personal donations. If you could put that issue to rest, Dena, I think you'd save yourself a world of pain - and have some peace. A neutral funds-holder would probably smooth a lot of feathers.

really simple plan- to bad someone did not post this 30 pages ago! LOL!!

[Mom2BabyNatalie]

Originally Posted by Wylie's Mom

Personally, I think THIS IS the continental divide right here. It's the issue of personal donations. If donations were made directly to a vet, or a neutral third party - I think everyone would then be on the same page. The issue that is making others speak up so vehemently is that of personal donations. If you could put that issue to rest, Dena, I think you'd save yourself a world of pain - and have some peace. A neutral funds-holder would probably smooth a lot of feathers.

Ann, I don't even WANT donations from YT..... I would be perfectly content to have this whole donation thing just go away!! Sending a gift to Emma is one thing... and we're happy to accept.... I told everyone and anyone who contacted me from the start, that wanted to send a financial donation - NOT TO.... to send a little something especially for Emma if they wanted to support her... (a blanket, a toy, etc.)

Finally at the urging of others, I agreed to accept the donations being offered.

THIS happened..... I decided to STOP donations and have any returned that had already been given..... that was done.....

Another upset... this time of the people who I so care about and value... this time of the people who had been called by their own hearts to help Emma... and feelings were hurt.

Again, at their urging.... I threw my hands up and told Tracy (Beabble) that the entire thing was in her hands. Accept or don't accept.... whatever she wanted to do... but I wanted nothing to do with the dealings of any of it.

I have NEVER had "control" in this aspect.... never wanted it! The paypal account is NOT mine... it's Tracy's.... she was kind enough to set it up when I was talking to some LOCAL folks here and they inquired as to where they could donate. The myspace page is NOT mine.... again, Tracy was kind enough to do that for Emma.

The new forum for Emma... is NOT mine.... this, a gift from Sammi....

I put together the youtube video.... and yes, at the end, I put information and links to the available contacts to help Emma.... because THIS IS WHAT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN SUPPORT OF HER WANT!!!

To anyone else who has such "concerns".........

Do you (not directed at anyone in particular) think that the 400.00 (or close to that, give or take) that we received in donations towards Natalie's care last year - kept me from getting the 6,000.00 treatment she needed??? NO! People gave because they WANTED TO HELP... and help, they did.

I don't feel the need to continue to try to prove anything to anyone here.... I've never asked for a thing financially... merely did I post Emma's story in search of information and prayer... Emotional support... and friendship... and if you all (again, not directed to any one person) need written documentation and financial stats to extend yourselves to offer that.... frankly, I don't want it.....

[Wylie's Mom]

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[a2luckygirl]

Originally Posted by ace611

sorry off topic!!

But I love the last line in your siggy!!!!

[BamaFan121s]

Originally Posted by a2luckygirl

really simple plan- to bad someone did not post this 30 pages ago! LOL!!

It WAS suggested 30 pages ago...unfortunately the person who suggested it was criticized for it and accused of having other motives.
In any case, I'm glad to see the suggestion was headed.

[ace611]

thanks...just wanted to show Bella and I are rooting for lil Emma! yours is nice as well! i actually got the idea from you! haha

[a2luckygirl]

Originally Posted by Mom2BabyNatalie

Ann, I don't even WANT donations from YT..... I would be perfectly content to have this whole donation thing just go away!! Sending a gift to Emma is one thing... and we're happy to accept.... I told everyone and anyone who contacted me from the start, that wanted to send a financial donation - NOT TO.... to send a little something especially for Emma if they wanted to support her... (a blanket, a toy, etc.)

Finally at the urging of others, I agreed to accept the donations being offered.

THIS happened..... I decided to STOP donations and have any returned that had already been given..... that was done.....

Another upset... this time of the people who I so care about and value... this time of the people who had been called by their own hearts to help Emma... and feelings were hurt.

Again, at their urging.... I threw my hands up and told Tracy (Beabble) that the entire thing was in her hands. Accept or don't accept.... whatever she wanted to do... but I wanted nothing to do with the dealings of any of it.

I have NEVER had "control" in this aspect.... never wanted it! The paypal account is NOT mine... it's Tracy's.... she was kind enough to set it up when I was talking to some LOCAL folks here and they inquired as to where they could donate. The myspace page is NOT mine.... again, Tracy was kind enough to do that for Emma.

The new forum for Emma... is NOT mine.... this, a gift from Sammi....

I put together the youtube video.... and yes, at the end, I put information and links to the available contacts to help Emma.... because THIS IS WHAT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN SUPPORT OF HER WANT!!!

To anyone else who has such "concerns".........

Do you (not directed at anyone in particular) think that the 400.00 (or close to that, give or take) that we received in donations towards Natalie's care last year - kept me from getting the 6,000.00 treatment she needed??? NO! People gave because they WANTED TO HELP... and help, they did.

I don't feel the need to continue to try to prove anything to anyone here.... I've never asked for a thing financially... merely did I post Emma's story in search of information and prayer... Emotional support... and friendship... and if you all (again, not directed to any one person) need written documentation and financial stats to extend yourselves to offer that.... frankly, I don't want it.....

I never worried about it going to you

all this,because someone made some bad assumptions!

[chachi]

Originally Posted by Mom2BabyNatalie

Ann, I don't even WANT donations from YT..... I would be perfectly content to have this whole donation thing just go away!! Sending a gift to Emma is one thing... and we're happy to accept.... I told everyone and anyone who contacted me from the start, that wanted to send a financial donation - NOT TO.... to send a little something especially for Emma if they wanted to support her... (a blanket, a toy, etc.)

Finally at the urging of others, I agreed to accept the donations being offered.

THIS happened..... I decided to STOP donations and have any returned that had already been given..... that was done.....

Another upset... this time of the people who I so care about and value... this time of the people who had been called by their own hearts to help Emma... and feelings were hurt.

Again, at their urging.... I threw my hands up and told Tracy (Beabble) that the entire thing was in her hands. Accept or don't accept.... whatever she wanted to do... but I wanted nothing to do with the dealings of any of it.

I have NEVER had "control" in this aspect.... never wanted it! The paypal account is NOT mine... it's Tracy's.... she was kind enough to set it up when I was talking to some LOCAL folks here and they inquired as to where they could donate. The myspace page is NOT mine.... again, Tracy was kind enough to do that for Emma.

The new forum for Emma... is NOT mine.... this, a gift from Sammi....

I put together the youtube video.... and yes, at the end, I put information and links to the available contacts to help Emma.... because THIS IS WHAT THE PEOPLE WHO ARE IN SUPPORT OF HER WANT!!!

To anyone else who has such "concerns".........

Do you (not directed at anyone in particular) think that the 400.00 (or close to that, give or take) that we received in donations towards Natalie's care last year - kept me from getting the 6,000.00 treatment she needed??? NO! People gave because they WANTED TO HELP... and help, they did.

I don't feel the need to continue to try to prove anything to anyone here.... I've never asked for a thing financially... merely did I post Emma's story in search of information and prayer... Emotional support... and friendship... and if you all (again, not directed to any one person) need written documentation and financial stats to extend yourselves to offer that.... frankly, I don't want it.....

Dena the reason why anyone receiving donations get scrutinized is because there have been instances where people have gotten taken advantage of on here and from people that had heart wretching stories. This is just an online forum and anyone can say anything and by what process can it be screened?
Thats why I think it is best that the forum have the rules about the donations. Now like I said before if you get donations from another site and how they are collected/distributed to is no concern of mine

[a2luckygirl]

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

It WAS suggested 30 pages ago...unfortunately the person who suggested it was criticized for it and accused of having other motives.
In any case, I'm glad to see the suggestion was headed.

sorry , misseed that one!

[Mom2BabyNatalie]

Originally Posted by Gizmo's Mom

Dena~How is the princess this morning? Sending a hug and a smile yer way .

Fat, happy and ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL!!!!

[Beabble]

Originally Posted by BamaFan121s

Ann--

The opotion and information has been added to send the money directly to the vet's office. But again, as soliciting for donations isn't allowed here, I don't think it's being made a widely known fact here...as it should be.

Which is exactly why the info wasn't posted here. I have already spoken with the admin about it and was told no about what her and I discussed so I didn't put that info here. My hands were tied.... So, check out her My Space daily for any updates on things like that.

[Mom2BabyNatalie]

Originally Posted by chachi

This is just an online forum and anyone can say anything and by what process can it be screened?

Oh I don't know........... maybe by the HOLE IN HER FACE???

Regardless..... doesn't matter..... some people are so distrusting that they feel even GOD is a threat to them.... (JMO: not personally directed)

[Beabble]

Originally Posted by Txgurl06

Maybe Dena can give Beabble (sorry but your #1 fan) control of the paypal site so no money comes out except to help Emma. All she has to do is fax her papers of proof from the vet as to how much was needed and then beabble send her the money through paypal.

How can yall actually try to take Help away from Emma?

I did not say one thing offensive in here so if yall want to ban me then hop on it. I dont get on here that much anyways.

Sorry to but in here, just wanted to let ya know that "Beabble, the 1# fan has been handling the PayPal account. Beabble is the one who set it up, and that's all I got to say about that, lol.