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Tillys_mom · 02-07-2008, 10:15 AM

I wouldn't miss her recital. Yeah, she may have more recitals but one day she will be all grown up and I think I would kick myself in the butt for missing out. Also, I wouldn't trust my hubby to get my daughter ready for a recital. He sure would try but you know how guys get. I'm sure there will be another meet-up. I wish you the best with your decision.

TootiesMom · 02-07-2008, 10:23 AM

I would never miss my babies "first" anything... you should go to the recital, IMHO..... She may not remember, but there will always be photos and momento's that you will have missed....
Good Luck!
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Mybabyboymax · 02-07-2008, 10:24 AM

I know you are in a tough spot but I would go to see my daughters recital. You will never forgive yourself, and she might not remember in the years to come but she will be sad the day of the recital when her mommy isn't there. Im sure everyone on YT will understand

autumn star · 02-07-2008, 10:30 AM

I would of loved to go to the meetup but my daughter is having her first comp (she is on the gymnastics team) and there is no way I will miss that after all the hours of practice and dedication she has put into it!
Hopefully next year! I will see you there Denise!

DENISE517 · 02-07-2008, 10:30 AM

I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

Mybabyboymax · 02-07-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by DENISE517

I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

good choice

Too Cute Teddy · 02-07-2008, 10:32 AM

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Originally Posted by autumn star

I would of loved to go to the meetup but my daughter is having her first comp (she is on the gymnastics team) and there is no way I will miss that after all the hours of practice and dedication she has put into it!
Hopefully next year! I will see you there Denise!

aww that's a tough spot, but I would go to your baby's first recital. I danced for years and the little ones in their first recitals were always so precious - they watch each other and copy the other's movements and always dance to a song like "you are my sunshine" - too sweet! I would hate to miss that

pepe mint · 02-07-2008, 10:34 AM

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Originally Posted by DENISE517

I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

good

sexiixtc · 02-07-2008, 10:37 AM

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Originally Posted by DENISE517

I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

Good decision Denise.. although we will really miss you.. We'll all have other chances to meetup.. Lexi only gets one first recital

Tiger's Mom · 02-07-2008, 10:37 AM

I cannot give you advise as I think you already know deep down what you feel is the right thing . . . .she only gets to be 3 once and the first recital will always stick to her mind. . . so, although I will miss you AGAIN, I am sure this will turn out into a yearly event for YT members (as I cannot see it being other than a huge success) . . .

and so lots of opportunities for you to come

Darn it, I was soo excited give Maddie a really hard squeeze

yougetthesmiles · 02-07-2008, 10:54 AM

As disapointed as I am, I understand where you are coming from. I'm a mother as well and my kids are my everything.

I don't know what I'm going to do now, cause I can't go by myself (drive) I would be a mess and would get lost lol and I can't fly, I'm not paying $160 to bring 1 baby on plane, that is nuts! So now I don't know if I will be going, it just depends on if I can find a driving buddy.

DENISE517 · 02-07-2008, 02:01 PM

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Originally Posted by yougetthesmiles

As disapointed as I am, I understand where you are coming from. I'm a mother as well and my kids are my everything.

I don't know what I'm going to do now, cause I can't go by myself (drive) I would be a mess and would get lost lol and I can't fly, I'm not paying $160 to bring 1 baby on plane, that is nuts! So now I don't know if I will be going, it just depends on if I can find a driving buddy.

I think Jodie was trying to get people in Michigan and Indiana together...ck with her they are driving and renting a van. How were you going before I was going? I'm extremely sorry.

mstplumeria · 02-07-2008, 02:10 PM

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Originally Posted by DENISE517

I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

yougetthesmiles · 02-07-2008, 02:15 PM

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Originally Posted by DENISE517

I think Jodie was trying to get people in Michigan and Indiana together...ck with her they are driving and renting a van. How were you going before I was going? I'm extremely sorry.

I was going to fly, but when i found out that they were going to charge me $80 one way, then I was like NO WAY! Then you said something about driving and that all sounded good lol

I'm sure i will be able to find someone, if not, then hubby will just have to go lol

Ellie May · 02-07-2008, 02:20 PM

I'm sorry you had to make such a hard decision.

Are you sure you can't beg the instructor to change the date?

02-07-2008, 10:15 AM	#16
Tillys_mom Spoilin' Tilly & Jack Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,227	I wouldn't miss her recital. Yeah, she may have more recitals but one day she will be all grown up and I think I would kick myself in the butt for missing out. Also, I wouldn't trust my hubby to get my daughter ready for a recital. He sure would try but you know how guys get. I'm sure there will be another meet-up. I wish you the best with your decision. __________________ Momma Tilly Money will buy you a pretty good dog, but it won't buy the wag of his tail.

02-07-2008, 10:23 AM	#17
TootiesMom and Hopeys Mom Too Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Louisiana Posts: 4,109	I would never miss my babies "first" anything... you should go to the recital, IMHO..... She may not remember, but there will always be photos and momento's that you will have missed.... Good Luck! d __________________ Donna's little herd.... Tooties Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?271687 Hopeys Dogster http://www.dogster.com/?448723 and Tinker, TBone(RIP) Laci .. OH, and Me-Kitty(RIP)

02-07-2008, 10:24 AM	#18
Mybabyboymax Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: NYC Posts: 1,859	I know you are in a tough spot but I would go to see my daughters recital. You will never forgive yourself, and she might not remember in the years to come but she will be sad the day of the recital when her mommy isn't there. Im sure everyone on YT will understand __________________ Its SummerTime!

02-07-2008, 10:30 AM	#19
autumn star Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Long Island Posts: 6,095	I would of loved to go to the meetup but my daughter is having her first comp (she is on the gymnastics team) and there is no way I will miss that after all the hours of practice and dedication she has put into it! Hopefully next year! I will see you there Denise! __________________ *PROUD MOM OF (SKIN KIDS) LEXI & HUNTER AND (FUR KIDS) AUTUMN, BLAZE & CHANCE (OUR RESCUE)*

02-07-2008, 02:20 PM	#30
Ellie May And Rylee Finnegan Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: Metro Detroit, MI Posts: 17,928	I'm sorry you had to make such a hard decision. Are you sure you can't beg the instructor to change the date? __________________ Crystal, Ellie May (RIP), Rylee Finnegan, and Gracie Boo🐶

02-07-2008, 10:30 AM	#20
DENISE517 No Longer a Member Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 4,449	I'm going to the recital. Its what i want to do and know I'd never forgive myself for not going. Family comes FIRST. My kids are my world.

02-07-2008, 10:37 AM	#25
Tiger's Mom Donating YT 8000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Spokane, WA Posts: 9,339	I cannot give you advise as I think you already know deep down what you feel is the right thing . . . .she only gets to be 3 once and the first recital will always stick to her mind. . . so, although I will miss you AGAIN, I am sure this will turn out into a yearly event for YT members (as I cannot see it being other than a huge success) . . . and so lots of opportunities for you to come Darn it, I was soo excited give Maddie a really hard squeeze

02-07-2008, 10:54 AM	#26
yougetthesmiles BANNED FOR NOT MAILING PRODUCTS PURCHASED Join Date: Feb 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 9,295 Blog Entries: 3	As disapointed as I am, I understand where you are coming from. I'm a mother as well and my kids are my everything. I don't know what I'm going to do now, cause I can't go by myself (drive) I would be a mess and would get lost lol and I can't fly, I'm not paying $160 to bring 1 baby on plane, that is nuts! So now I don't know if I will be going, it just depends on if I can find a driving buddy.