I cannot give you advise as I think you already know deep down what you feel is the right thing . . . .she only gets to be 3 once and the first recital will always stick to her mind. . . so, although I will miss you AGAIN, I am sure this will turn out into a yearly event for YT members (as I cannot see it being other than a huge success) . . .

and so lots of opportunities for you to come
Darn it, I was soo excited give Maddie a really hard squeeze