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Fran42478 · 07-13-2005, 08:26 AM

Prayers are coming your way!

You and your family will be in our thoughts

Lots of love and hugs
Fran and Sammi

Ashantay · 07-13-2005, 08:27 AM

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Originally Posted by luzangela428

That is ridculous.... I don't understand how in America someone can just come and take your house???

They can take your house in any country... pretty sad but even if you own a house you don't really because ultimately the government can come and take it off you if they feel they need the property for something or if they believe something illegal was done to obtain the house.

Having said that...

I am really sorry to hear this news and will be praying that things get sorted out for your family and good news comes your way soon. BIG HUGS and LOTS of prayers

tarawood · 07-13-2005, 08:27 AM

Nobella, I'm so sorry about all this. I wish I could do something to help on the legal end, but I am only a 3rd year law student, not an attorney yet. However, I think there are at least 3 attorneys here on YT, so maybe they will see this and can at least offer another legal perspective.

Although I don't know all the details, I still don't understand how they can take your parent's house until your brother in law has been found guilty of the alleged crime and even if he is found guilty, I still think they have trouble taking it unless they can prove your parents knew about or participated in something illegal having to do with the house.

Also, the only thing this should be affecting is your parent's ability to put the house up for collatteral for a loan, other than that, their credit and yours should be fine. Keep trying, maybe there are other avenues to help the financial situation. You know the saying ..........when God closes one door he opens another.

LoveMyBabies · 07-13-2005, 08:29 AM

What a terrible situation!!! I know how stress can affect everyone's health, stay strong! I did some looking online for low-cost legal help and found some links for you:
http://www.clsepa.org/index.php
http://sfpl4.sfpl.org/librarylocatio...gic/lawyer.htm
http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/referenc...lresources.htm

Your dogster profile said you were in Concord, CA so that's where I based my search. I hope some of this info helps. My family's business had something similar happen to it a few years back (luckily everything turned out fine), so if you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.

Deegan's mom · 07-13-2005, 08:33 AM

Vainchick5, I am so terribly sorry to hear that you and your family has to go through this extremely rough time. I will include you in my prayers.
It's so awful that this is happening to your sister and brother-in-law, but to add your parents house to the mix is a hundred times worse.

I hope & pray that a miracle will happen for all of you.

vainchick5 · 07-13-2005, 08:36 AM

Thank you so much for all of your kind words. It's amazing that even though we've never met each other, we can still care about one another. I am crying as I read your loving and supportive responses. I just want my family back, house and all. I see people happy on the street or on vacation and get so envious because I used to have that with my family. I am still grateful for a lot of things but it's just hard. It's hard to see my dad cry when I've never seen him do so. I've been ok, but since we got the news of the $60k yesterday, it's brought me down a lot. I know we don't have even a close amount to that. I don't know whats going to happen, but I am praying every minute of the day for a miracle. I hope God can hear me. I don't think my family or their health could take any more bad news.

Zeus' Mom · 07-13-2005, 08:37 AM

Nobella, I am so sorry for all that you are going through. I wish I had some advice or guidance to offer, but unfortunately I don't. Please know that little Zeus and I are thinking of you and your family and praying that this will all be resolved soon, and that you and your family come out on the winning end.

chewysmom · 07-13-2005, 08:40 AM

Nobella:
i don't know wht to say. this is an awful situation. I am wishing your family all the best and hope you can work it out. Chin up and go give little coco a hug.

txshopper73 · 07-13-2005, 08:43 AM

Wow! This is horrible. My prayers are with you and your family during this trying time.

JCarlson2004 · 07-13-2005, 08:44 AM

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Originally Posted by Cudda84

Can we have some sort of raffle or something to help?

I'm so sorry to hear this. Stuff like this makes me sick because I work in a law firm and I see twisted stuff happen all the time. It's really a crime when innocent people are made to suffer. Please know that we all love you and you have our support.

I agree with Cudda, is there something we can all do to help?

YorkieRose · 07-13-2005, 08:48 AM

We come here to have fun and talk about our Yorkies..but we all have real life's and need to support one another.

You are not alone, none of us are..GOD loves you and cares for your every concern...we all care about you.

vainchick5 · 07-13-2005, 08:53 AM

You know the ironic thing is that my parents have always been so giving and nurturing of others in their hard times. They have devoted their whole lives and taught my sister and I to help others and donate. Right before all of this happened, my sister and her husband donated over 3 million dollars to the local churches and hospitals. Now our whole community has completely turned their back on us. We are like outcasts in our own town. Sometimes we can't even go grocery shopping without being bombarded by reporters. They live in a small town where everyone knows each other. My family was like the example family of the town, now we're just the butt of the jokes. I guess you always know who really loves you when you don't have money.

LoveMyBabies · 07-13-2005, 08:59 AM

We know you didn't post for donations, but YT is a family. I've only been here a short while, but already people have showed how caring they can be. Having gone through something like this personally, I'd love to do whatever I can to help.

Lexi & Oliver send Coco lots of hugs and puppy kisses

sophiedog · 07-13-2005, 09:21 AM

Oh, I am so sorry for you and your family, but I'm not in the least bit surprised by it. I live in a small town in KY, down around here you are guilty until proven innocent. I have seen more lives destroyed and families torn apart since moving here in 90 than I had in all the years I lived up north outside of Detroit. Here, your name is put in the paper upon arrest! A nice couple I go to church with is moving to Mexico because they arrested their son on pornography charges, and although the charges were dismissed everyone thinks he's guilty. His mother had to quit her job with the school, and they just can't live here anymore now. I have so little faith in the judicial system anymore.
I will pray for you guys and spread the word, it's all I can do for you and your family. Try to remember though, everything, and I mean everything happens for a reason, you just can't always see it until later. Right now, that doesn't help much, I know. But you have to hang in there and stay healthy for those that need you!

chachi · 07-13-2005, 09:23 AM

You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

07-13-2005, 08:26 AM	#16
Fran42478 Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Staten Island, NY Posts: 1,731	Prayers are coming your way! You and your family will be in our thoughts Lots of love and hugs Fran and Sammi __________________ Fran, Sophia Rose and Jake We Miss You Always Sammi 11/29/03 - 8/20/06

07-13-2005, 08:27 AM	#18
tarawood YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Lubbock, TX Posts: 540	Nobella, I'm so sorry about all this. I wish I could do something to help on the legal end, but I am only a 3rd year law student, not an attorney yet. However, I think there are at least 3 attorneys here on YT, so maybe they will see this and can at least offer another legal perspective. Although I don't know all the details, I still don't understand how they can take your parent's house until your brother in law has been found guilty of the alleged crime and even if he is found guilty, I still think they have trouble taking it unless they can prove your parents knew about or participated in something illegal having to do with the house. Also, the only thing this should be affecting is your parent's ability to put the house up for collatteral for a loan, other than that, their credit and yours should be fine. Keep trying, maybe there are other avenues to help the financial situation. You know the saying ..........when God closes one door he opens another. __________________ Tara

07-13-2005, 08:33 AM	#20
Deegan's mom YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Windsor, ON Posts: 1,271	Vainchick5, I am so terribly sorry to hear that you and your family has to go through this extremely rough time. I will include you in my prayers. It's so awful that this is happening to your sister and brother-in-law, but to add your parents house to the mix is a hundred times worse. I hope & pray that a miracle will happen for all of you. __________________ Jayde, Deegan & Trooper ~Be the change you wish to see in the world - Adopt a rescue pet~

07-13-2005, 08:36 AM	#21
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	Thank you so much for all of your kind words. It's amazing that even though we've never met each other, we can still care about one another. I am crying as I read your loving and supportive responses. I just want my family back, house and all. I see people happy on the street or on vacation and get so envious because I used to have that with my family. I am still grateful for a lot of things but it's just hard. It's hard to see my dad cry when I've never seen him do so. I've been ok, but since we got the news of the $60k yesterday, it's brought me down a lot. I know we don't have even a close amount to that. I don't know whats going to happen, but I am praying every minute of the day for a miracle. I hope God can hear me. I don't think my family or their health could take any more bad news. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

07-13-2005, 08:37 AM	#22
Zeus' Mom Enja's Mom too! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 2,765	Nobella, I am so sorry for all that you are going through. I wish I had some advice or guidance to offer, but unfortunately I don't. Please know that little Zeus and I are thinking of you and your family and praying that this will all be resolved soon, and that you and your family come out on the winning end. __________________ Farrah, Zeus, Enja & Riley

07-13-2005, 08:29 AM	#19
LoveMyBabies Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: N/A Posts: 175	What a terrible situation!!! I know how stress can affect everyone's health, stay strong! I did some looking online for low-cost legal help and found some links for you: http://www.clsepa.org/index.php http://sfpl4.sfpl.org/librarylocatio...gic/lawyer.htm http://www.courtinfo.ca.gov/referenc...lresources.htm Your dogster profile said you were in Concord, CA so that's where I based my search. I hope some of this info helps. My family's business had something similar happen to it a few years back (luckily everything turned out fine), so if you ever need to talk, feel free to PM me.

07-13-2005, 08:40 AM	#23
chewysmom My Precious Pup Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: New York City Posts: 2,092	Nobella: i don't know wht to say. this is an awful situation. I am wishing your family all the best and hope you can work it out. Chin up and go give little coco a hug.

07-13-2005, 08:43 AM	#24
txshopper73 Donating YT 14K Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 14,226 Blog Entries: 1	Wow! This is horrible. My prayers are with you and your family during this trying time. __________________ As always...JMO (Just My Opinion) Kimberley

07-13-2005, 08:48 AM	#26
YorkieRose No Longer a Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: South Florida Posts: 8,577	Prayers for you.... We come here to have fun and talk about our Yorkies..but we all have real life's and need to support one another. You are not alone, none of us are..GOD loves you and cares for your every concern...we all care about you.

07-13-2005, 08:53 AM	#27
vainchick5 YT 6000 Club Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: CA Posts: 6,588	You know the ironic thing is that my parents have always been so giving and nurturing of others in their hard times. They have devoted their whole lives and taught my sister and I to help others and donate. Right before all of this happened, my sister and her husband donated over 3 million dollars to the local churches and hospitals. Now our whole community has completely turned their back on us. We are like outcasts in our own town. Sometimes we can't even go grocery shopping without being bombarded by reporters. They live in a small town where everyone knows each other. My family was like the example family of the town, now we're just the butt of the jokes. I guess you always know who really loves you when you don't have money. __________________ Mommy to Coco and Rocco

07-13-2005, 08:59 AM	#28
LoveMyBabies Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: N/A Posts: 175	We know you didn't post for donations, but YT is a family. I've only been here a short while, but already people have showed how caring they can be. Having gone through something like this personally, I'd love to do whatever I can to help. Lexi & Oliver send Coco lots of hugs and puppy kisses

07-13-2005, 09:21 AM	#29
sophiedog YT Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 496	Oh, I am so sorry for you and your family, but I'm not in the least bit surprised by it. I live in a small town in KY, down around here you are guilty until proven innocent. I have seen more lives destroyed and families torn apart since moving here in 90 than I had in all the years I lived up north outside of Detroit. Here, your name is put in the paper upon arrest! A nice couple I go to church with is moving to Mexico because they arrested their son on pornography charges, and although the charges were dismissed everyone thinks he's guilty. His mother had to quit her job with the school, and they just can't live here anymore now. I have so little faith in the judicial system anymore. I will pray for you guys and spread the word, it's all I can do for you and your family. Try to remember though, everything, and I mean everything happens for a reason, you just can't always see it until later. Right now, that doesn't help much, I know. But you have to hang in there and stay healthy for those that need you! __________________ Windy and Lida Rose "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." Dr. Seuss

07-13-2005, 09:23 AM	#30
chachi I Love My Yorkies Donating Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Indianapolis, Indiana Posts: 37,147	You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Chachi's & Jewels Mom Jewels http://www.dogster.com/?132431 Chachi http://www.dogster.com/?132427