[sophiedog]

Oh, I am so sorry for you and your family, but I'm not in the least bit surprised by it. I live in a small town in KY, down around here you are guilty until proven innocent. I have seen more lives destroyed and families torn apart since moving here in 90 than I had in all the years I lived up north outside of Detroit. Here, your name is put in the paper upon arrest! A nice couple I go to church with is moving to Mexico because they arrested their son on pornography charges, and although the charges were dismissed everyone thinks he's guilty. His mother had to quit her job with the school, and they just can't live here anymore now. I have so little faith in the judicial system anymore.
I will pray for you guys and spread the word, it's all I can do for you and your family. Try to remember though, everything, and I mean everything happens for a reason, you just can't always see it until later. Right now, that doesn't help much, I know. But you have to hang in there and stay healthy for those that need you!