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12-29-2007, 10:41 AM | #1 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| In need of some guy help. Theres this guy that I like, and he like to take things really slow.. which is understandable.. Im not looking for a relationship, just a guy friend to talk to and hang out with. Well I have this friend, and I think that she likes him too.. but Im not sure. But shes ALWAYS talking to him. So when I get on IM I always have him IM me first, which he does. But everytime he gets on she always IMs him.. so I don't know what to do.. she knows that I like him in a way, but not a BF way, as of now.. I feel like shes competing with me and we are good friends.. I have been wanting to ask him if she ever says anything about me, but I feel that would be to childish.. Any advice? |
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12-29-2007, 10:48 AM | #2 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | I would speak to your friend, the only way to get it resolved and know if she truly has feelings for him is to talk about it with her. I've had that problem before, way back in middle school with a best friend. It was frustrating
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12-29-2007, 10:49 AM | #3 | |
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12-29-2007, 10:50 AM | #4 |
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| I am interested.. But shes "talking to this other guy" you know how that is.. but he takes things soo slow, that I dont want to invite him out for dinner I would feel wierd doing that.. I just don't know if he has feelings for me,, I don't know if I should ask.. or just wait a while.. Im soo confused. |
12-29-2007, 10:51 AM | #5 | |
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I feel like im in middle school too.. geeze you would think that she wouldn't do this, but who knows. I think im goign to ask him if hes looking for a relationship. . Last edited by Superstarkba; 12-29-2007 at 10:53 AM. | |
12-29-2007, 11:35 AM | #6 |
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| in my experience which may or may not be of any help to you... friends are more important then any guy and more likely to stick by you in the end. i don't know how close you and your girlfriend are? but i wouldn't let ANY guy come between me and any of my girlfriends. i've only had 1 boyfriend in my entire life and we're getting married in june (although i've referred to him as my husband since we got engaged last yr) BUT i've seen many of my friends go through similar situations. my best friend since i was like three thought i had feelings for and was "flirting" with a boyfriend she had a year ago. i thought he was a great guy and i would talk to him and get to know him because she is such an important person to me and i love her like a sister so anyone who shes dating is very important to me (i NEVER had any feelings for anyone other then my hubby) so this came as quite a shock. they ended up dating for 3 motnhs and her and i ended up not speaking for 6. a few months ago we ran into each other at the mall and both of us started crying uncontrollably, although what she did hurt me pretty bad she's my best friend. i know she feels the same and she knows now no guy could even come between that. i feel like if he's starting problems between you and a girlfriend i'd quickly walk away from the entire situation. there are so many fish in the sea.
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12-29-2007, 01:12 PM | #7 | |
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Also, it's ultimately HIM that will have to decide who he likes. Hopefully he's not playing both of you, kwim? Talking with your friend is the way to go Don't ever let any man come between you and a girlfriend.
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12-29-2007, 01:16 PM | #8 |
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| I don't think he has come between us.. I talked to her earlier.. and she was tlaking about this other guy.. |
12-29-2007, 01:52 PM | #9 |
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| That is good that he has not came between you and your friend. Perhaps you should tell your friend that you would like to see where things could go with this guy then she would know that you are interested in him. Also ask her to keep it between you two since you don't seem ready to disclose that to the guy just yet. Good luck....keep us posted!!!
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12-29-2007, 01:58 PM | #10 |
Aubrey's Mom Donating Member Join Date: May 2007 Location: Georgia
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| I have she said that she hasn't told me. Im in such a good mood.. I came home from shopping and he Imd me. Yah!! lol, I sound like a kid getting candy. I also told him earlier that he should come to the movies with me sometime and he said " he needs to" |
12-29-2007, 07:48 PM | #11 |
Donating YT 11K Club Member | That's good Just talk with him casually and in the conversation bring up the question if he wants a gf or not but don't ask it like you want to kno, just make it sound casual
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