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Passionfruition · 07-07-2005, 09:18 PM

Oh girl that's sooooo scary. My hubby and I got married young too (we were 22) and well we're still young, I mean we've been married 16 months. But gosh I can't imagine how freaked out I'd be if I were in your position. I think you've done a good job thus far...I just want that horrible landlord to be behind bars! What a horrible thing to do to someone! Invasion of privacy, peverted and.....and everything horrible, oh man!

My thoughts and prayers are with you guys....hopefully things will work out in the end and you can look back on this section of your life and consider yourself stronger!

babi1542 · 07-07-2005, 09:36 PM

There sure are a lot of sick people in this world! What a story and you would not say it, it is unbelievable. I hope he gets what is coming to him sooner or later. May God be with you! I was going to tell you to ask SoCal but I see she already answered your thread.

pixiepooh · 07-07-2005, 09:45 PM

Thank you guys. I told my husband about the wonderful and assuring replies I've gotten from you all. There are alot of kind hearted people left after all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

pixiepooh · 07-11-2005, 06:30 PM

We've spent the weekend moving some of our stuff. We're so tired that our hands are still trembling from the heavy lifting. We hired movers to move all the other heavy stuff. I'd usually be grumpy and moody after all the work but I can't find that in my heart right now... I'm just so relieved and grateful.

The detective assigned in the case seem to work too slow. My husband and I are considering a private investigator to work with us on pining the pervert down.

Just an update you guys

lycansmom · 07-11-2005, 06:37 PM

thanks for the update keep them coming i hope you nail that bastard (pardon my french) but who does he think he is i mean that is so vile and nasty

orinskye · 07-11-2005, 09:43 PM

waht are the issues on slander............???? socal do you know, ? maybe if you say in the newspaper that "the police are looking at several possibilities including (perverts name here) as a possibel suspect"
that way you arent pointing fingers and making an accusation that the police arent ready to defend......... and that sentence is very vague and doesnt actually implicate him as doing those things it just lists him as a possibility (but everyone will come to their own conclusions ).........hehehe

Marie · 07-11-2005, 10:10 PM

Oh my god,Im so angry at your landlord

. Im so happy that your moving from there. Please keep your head up and be positive this man is going to get what he deserves. He might think that he is in the clear but you know what sooner or later he will make a mistake and he will get caught. I will have you guys in my prayers for everything to work out for you. Sue the landlord for everything he has and keep on top of the police to find the quilty party. Good luck.

kewtee · 07-11-2005, 10:32 PM

What a scary experience!
I can understand that you are upset and beside yourself in these days and I am so glad you and your husband have each other!

You might want to consider seeing a professional anyway - not a psyciatrist as they might give you medication and you don't need medication.
But a nice psychotherapist who can guide you and your husband emotionally through this crisis

Good luck - I'll be thinking of you!

wendybee · 07-11-2005, 11:45 PM

you poor thing, i no its hard to live like this at the moment but you WILL be ok your ex landlord is a sick b*****d and your very brave to take him to court, we need more brave people like you to stop monsters like that.

i married when i was 18 and 23 years later we are still together with 2 grown boys and very very happy, so take no notice of what other people say, if the 2 of you can get through this you can get through anything.

when i first got married we were refused a loan for a house 3 times so we gave up for a few years and rented, then when we both had work experience behind us we were able to get a mortgage for our 1st home now 10 years on we are buying a lovely tudor house.

so you be strong and positive my prays are with you and your husband

wendy and rosie

iheartyorkies · 07-12-2005, 04:59 AM

Oh I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your husband. Did you know there was a TV movie made on this very situation? It's eerie. Maybe that's where the SOB got the idea. I think a PI would be in order. Keep us posted and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.

eensor · 07-12-2005, 05:11 AM

Keep your chin up Baby! Y'all are in the right! When you sue him, go for emotional stress damages! Ask for a LOT of money!!! Also, his ex-wife can get her real estate license taken away if she has acted inapropriately! Talk to your attorney first, and then turn her in to the Office of Banks and Real Estate!!!!

You will be able to buy a house before you know it! Just hang in there and NEVER give up fighting this guy in court until you win! His lawyers will drag it out for years hoping you will get tired of it and go away....but don't! See it through no matter how long it takes!

rrosenberry · 07-12-2005, 05:14 AM

Well first of all Im sorry for all your problems.
Second,,, I can relate to all the home, buying problems, I too, had one problem after another when I was house hunting, but I can say,, everything happens for a reason, I had gotten my hopes up numerous times and it always fell through,some at the last min. ( after Im all packed and ready to move) My realtor said she had never seen anyone with worse luck, when buying a house, I was fine, and all pre approved, it was always the sellers,, Yet in the end, I ended up with a the best house out of all the others, and when it did finally work , it all fell into place,, SO it was meant to be,
So thats my point,, when its meant to be it will all work out, and all this your dealing with is getting you to that point,, Something worth having is worth the wait and hassle... I know its hard though when ya want it NOW!! Ive been there, but hold out it will work out.
I hope your attorney does something in the end with the landlord,,about those camera..that is just CREEPY!!

sophiedog · 07-12-2005, 05:32 AM

All I can say is hang in there. Eventually you will get what you want and your landlard will get what he deserves. There are a lot of sick people out there, but remember for every jerk you find, if you keep looking you will find more good people than bad. I know the financial part sucks, but I'm guessing your faith and serenity has been severely damaged. Don't let this heartless man make you any less of a wonderful person!

pixiepooh · 07-12-2005, 10:00 AM

I'm just about in tears right now. Thank you so much for the support.

whispersmom2 · 07-12-2005, 09:37 PM

PixiePooh, You must feel so violated in what was to be your own ome. That bas+++d has taken so much from you and he deserves to be held accountable..Did he make any sound recordings? In my state, that is the crime..pics are a non issue..words a big NO-NO!! I am so glad your hubby found the camera before that jerk had too many chances to video you..
I just had a vision about how funny it would have been if y'all had sprayed black pant up thru the hole in the ceiling and proved that his camera was indeed in the attic cause the pattern of the black spray would have been a mirror image (sort of) of the hole..Too many crimestopper shows.... lol
My son and his family are going thru the same situation--renting with option to buy..Hope all works out for you..

07-07-2005, 09:18 PM	#16
Passionfruition Proud of my Sully! Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: beautiful CHARLESTON, S.C. Posts: 5,454	Oh girl that's sooooo scary. My hubby and I got married young too (we were 22) and well we're still young, I mean we've been married 16 months. But gosh I can't imagine how freaked out I'd be if I were in your position. I think you've done a good job thus far...I just want that horrible landlord to be behind bars! What a horrible thing to do to someone! Invasion of privacy, peverted and.....and everything horrible, oh man! My thoughts and prayers are with you guys....hopefully things will work out in the end and you can look back on this section of your life and consider yourself stronger! __________________ - - - - - - - - - - - - I love my Sully (the Wonderdog!)

07-07-2005, 09:36 PM	#17
babi1542 Double Trouble Donating Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: FLORIDA Posts: 4,658	There sure are a lot of sick people in this world! What a story and you would not say it, it is unbelievable. I hope he gets what is coming to him sooner or later. May God be with you! I was going to tell you to ask SoCal but I see she already answered your thread. __________________ PEBBLES AND SASHA MY DOGS ARE NOT SPOILED...I'M JUST WELL TRAINED!

07-11-2005, 06:37 PM	#20
lycansmom Luna_Bug's Chew Toy Donating YT Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Tulsa Posts: 1,199	thanks for the update keep them coming i hope you nail that bastard (pardon my french) but who does he think he is i mean that is so vile and nasty __________________ "some people without brains do an awful lot of talking dont they?"

07-11-2005, 10:10 PM	#22
Marie Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 6,427	Oh my god,Im so angry at your landlord . Im so happy that your moving from there. Please keep your head up and be positive this man is going to get what he deserves. He might think that he is in the clear but you know what sooner or later he will make a mistake and he will get caught. I will have you guys in my prayers for everything to work out for you. Sue the landlord for everything he has and keep on top of the police to find the quilty party. Good luck. __________________ Huggies, Gucci and Marie http://www.dogster.com/?132187 "I have been egged"

07-11-2005, 10:32 PM	#23
kewtee Donating YT Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Skagen, Denmark Posts: 769	What a scary experience! I can understand that you are upset and beside yourself in these days and I am so glad you and your husband have each other! You might want to consider seeing a professional anyway - not a psyciatrist as they might give you medication and you don't need medication. But a nice psychotherapist who can guide you and your husband emotionally through this crisis Good luck - I'll be thinking of you! __________________ Mette - proud mother of Kali - 6 lbs, born on March 18th 2004 Mare - 4 lbs, born on January 28th 2005

07-07-2005, 09:45 PM	#18
pixiepooh Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 231	Thank you guys. I told my husband about the wonderful and assuring replies I've gotten from you all. There are alot of kind hearted people left after all. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

07-11-2005, 06:30 PM	#19
pixiepooh Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 231	We've spent the weekend moving some of our stuff. We're so tired that our hands are still trembling from the heavy lifting. We hired movers to move all the other heavy stuff. I'd usually be grumpy and moody after all the work but I can't find that in my heart right now... I'm just so relieved and grateful. The detective assigned in the case seem to work too slow. My husband and I are considering a private investigator to work with us on pining the pervert down. Just an update you guys

07-11-2005, 09:43 PM	#21
orinskye YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: California Posts: 2,990	waht are the issues on slander............???? socal do you know, ? maybe if you say in the newspaper that "the police are looking at several possibilities including (perverts name here) as a possibel suspect" that way you arent pointing fingers and making an accusation that the police arent ready to defend......... and that sentence is very vague and doesnt actually implicate him as doing those things it just lists him as a possibility (but everyone will come to their own conclusions ).........hehehe

07-11-2005, 11:45 PM	#24
wendybee BANNED! Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 966	you poor thing, i no its hard to live like this at the moment but you WILL be ok your ex landlord is a sick b*****d and your very brave to take him to court, we need more brave people like you to stop monsters like that. i married when i was 18 and 23 years later we are still together with 2 grown boys and very very happy, so take no notice of what other people say, if the 2 of you can get through this you can get through anything. when i first got married we were refused a loan for a house 3 times so we gave up for a few years and rented, then when we both had work experience behind us we were able to get a mortgage for our 1st home now 10 years on we are buying a lovely tudor house. so you be strong and positive my prays are with you and your husband wendy and rosie

07-12-2005, 04:59 AM	#25
iheartyorkies Boppin' Bo! Donating Member Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Indiana Posts: 2,719	Oh I am so sorry that this has happened to you and your husband. Did you know there was a TV movie made on this very situation? It's eerie. Maybe that's where the SOB got the idea. I think a PI would be in order. Keep us posted and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you. __________________ ~~~ i yorkies ~~~ Cynthia Turbo and Suri!

07-12-2005, 05:11 AM	#26
eensor YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Effingham, Illinois Posts: 2,535	Keep your chin up Baby! Y'all are in the right! When you sue him, go for emotional stress damages! Ask for a LOT of money!!! Also, his ex-wife can get her real estate license taken away if she has acted inapropriately! Talk to your attorney first, and then turn her in to the Office of Banks and Real Estate!!!! You will be able to buy a house before you know it! Just hang in there and NEVER give up fighting this guy in court until you win! His lawyers will drag it out for years hoping you will get tired of it and go away....but don't! See it through no matter how long it takes! __________________ I'd rather be in Mexico!

07-12-2005, 05:14 AM	#27
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	Well first of all Im sorry for all your problems. Second,,, I can relate to all the home, buying problems, I too, had one problem after another when I was house hunting, but I can say,, everything happens for a reason, I had gotten my hopes up numerous times and it always fell through,some at the last min. ( after Im all packed and ready to move) My realtor said she had never seen anyone with worse luck, when buying a house, I was fine, and all pre approved, it was always the sellers,, Yet in the end, I ended up with a the best house out of all the others, and when it did finally work , it all fell into place,, SO it was meant to be, So thats my point,, when its meant to be it will all work out, and all this your dealing with is getting you to that point,, Something worth having is worth the wait and hassle... I know its hard though when ya want it NOW!! Ive been there, but hold out it will work out. I hope your attorney does something in the end with the landlord,,about those camera..that is just CREEPY!! __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

07-12-2005, 05:32 AM	#28
sophiedog YT Addict Join Date: May 2005 Location: Kentucky Posts: 496	All I can say is hang in there. Eventually you will get what you want and your landlard will get what he deserves. There are a lot of sick people out there, but remember for every jerk you find, if you keep looking you will find more good people than bad. I know the financial part sucks, but I'm guessing your faith and serenity has been severely damaged. Don't let this heartless man make you any less of a wonderful person! __________________ Windy and Lida Rose "Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." Dr. Seuss

07-12-2005, 10:00 AM	#29
pixiepooh Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: May 2005 Location: Austin, Texas Posts: 231	I'm just about in tears right now. Thank you so much for the support.

07-12-2005, 09:37 PM	#30
whispersmom2 Inactive Account Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: MD Posts: 2,985	PixiePooh, You must feel so violated in what was to be your own ome. That bas+++d has taken so much from you and he deserves to be held accountable..Did he make any sound recordings? In my state, that is the crime..pics are a non issue..words a big NO-NO!! I am so glad your hubby found the camera before that jerk had too many chances to video you.. I just had a vision about how funny it would have been if y'all had sprayed black pant up thru the hole in the ceiling and proved that his camera was indeed in the attic cause the pattern of the black spray would have been a mirror image (sort of) of the hole..Too many crimestopper shows.... lol My son and his family are going thru the same situation--renting with option to buy..Hope all works out for you..