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Jaspermom · 12-06-2005, 04:13 AM

Oh, Amanda, this is so tragic! I am so sorry to hear that your little Macey is no longer by your side. I am sure that you are so unhappy and confused, and probably pretty angry right now. I cannot give you any advice on how to move forward with any action towards the vet. Most vets have people sign a release saying that you understand there are dangers involved in surgery, and that releases them from liability.

As far as getting another furbaby is concerned, I highly recommend it. In August one of my babies died in an unfortunate accident, and her best fur friend was heart broken and passed away 6 weeks later. We got our Wosie immediately, and she is indeed the best medicine for my heartache. Wosie is now 5 months old, and the light of my life. But give yourself time to grieve first, and wait until after the holidays so that you can give your new puppy a calmer environment for their welcome into your home.

Welcome to YT, Amanda. I wish that you had found us under happier circumstances, but am very glad you are here.

rrosenberry · 12-06-2005, 05:25 AM

First thing Welcome, I hope you stick around. I think alot of things on here could help you to heal. I'm so sorry for your loss, I think it is surprising that you can loss your baby with a vet and in his care, But is does happen, and I feel so bad for you and your horrible loss, you're in my thoughts today,and my prayers tonight.

Bentley&BitsysMom · 12-06-2005, 05:37 AM

So sorry for your loss. This is a great place to find support and encouragement during these times.

Zeus' Mom · 12-06-2005, 05:38 AM

I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

txshopper73 · 12-06-2005, 05:41 AM

Such terrible news. I'm so sorry for your loss.

WV~Yorkies · 12-06-2005, 05:43 AM

I am so sorry...

Diego · 12-06-2005, 05:46 AM

Welcome to YorkieTalk .

I am very sorry for your loss . You and your mom will be in my thoughts and prayers .

lily · 12-06-2005, 05:59 AM

So sorry abouy your loss!This happen sometimes. I hold my breath everytime they have to put one of my under! I have a good relationship with our vets and most of the time I'm right there with them watching! But that doesn't save either if they have a reaction. I'm so sorry! Take your time in getting another ,noone can erplace your baby! lily

baili's mom · 12-06-2005, 06:35 AM

I am so sorry for your lose. I am glad you found YT, I hope it helps
to have some one to share your feelings with who truley understand the
love you have for Macey!

toninm · 12-06-2005, 07:26 AM

I will be short and sweet here as right now nothing will take away the pain of your sudden unexpected loss. I am so sorry that this has happened.....I know no other dog will take the place of Macey, but I do think that getting another dog is a good idea....

Lexi Rae · 12-06-2005, 08:15 AM

oh my, this is so sad,. i am so sorry for your loss, you and your mom will be in my prayers...

Kenzies Grandma · 12-06-2005, 08:27 AM

I'm so sorry that you lost your little one, I know what a terrible gap it leaves in your life. Please know that you were only looking after her in having her spayed and it was in no way your fault, I don't really know how you can find out if there was any malpractice involved. Some people don't believe in havng dogs spayed unless absolutely necessary and they have the right to their opinion but for myself I will never have another female and not have her spayed. I recently (in Aug.) lost a little girl to cancer and from all my research I think she would have had a better chance if she had been spayed.

Again I'm so sorry for your loss and you and your Mom will be in our thoughts.
Kathy, Tango and Gypsy

p.s. I also think it is a good idea to get another dog as soon as you feel ready. Gypsy (I've had her for 6 wks. now) has definitely helped to fill the empty spaces in my heart.

Marie · 12-06-2005, 09:57 AM

Im so sorry for your loss.My deppest sympathies. RIP little Macey. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers.

red98vett · 12-07-2005, 04:27 AM

Oh Amanda I am so so sorry for your loss....We are entrusted to love and cherish our yorkies.... and while sometimes these things happen.... I want to tell you that the pain will always be there no matter what you find out... and I am very sorry for the loss of your little Macy - she sound very special. There are millions of these surgeries performed without complications and it's so so sad that you had to experience the loss of your little angel when you were doing something to protect her...

I'm very very sorry....and when your heart is ready.... I WOULD see if there is another little puppy for you to love - it can really help you thru your pain of losing your Macy. It doesn't mean you're replacing her - you would be paying her a tribute ....it shows how much you loved her.

ttreatsyorkies · 12-07-2005, 06:27 AM

Welcome to YT, we are always hee for you. I am so sorry that you suffered such a thing. You should know that even if you do get another pup it wont replace your baby, it will just help fill the whole that was left behind.

12-06-2005, 04:13 AM	#16
Jaspermom Yorkies Rock My World! Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: North Carolina Posts: 4,721	Oh, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Oh, Amanda, this is so tragic! I am so sorry to hear that your little Macey is no longer by your side. I am sure that you are so unhappy and confused, and probably pretty angry right now. I cannot give you any advice on how to move forward with any action towards the vet. Most vets have people sign a release saying that you understand there are dangers involved in surgery, and that releases them from liability. As far as getting another furbaby is concerned, I highly recommend it. In August one of my babies died in an unfortunate accident, and her best fur friend was heart broken and passed away 6 weeks later. We got our Wosie immediately, and she is indeed the best medicine for my heartache. Wosie is now 5 months old, and the light of my life. But give yourself time to grieve first, and wait until after the holidays so that you can give your new puppy a calmer environment for their welcome into your home. Welcome to YT, Amanda. I wish that you had found us under happier circumstances, but am very glad you are here. __________________ Glad Mom to Jasper, Wosie & Dreama, RIP sweet babies.

12-06-2005, 05:25 AM	#17
rrosenberry & Bailey & Bella Donating Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Ohio Posts: 8,164	First thing Welcome, I hope you stick around. I think alot of things on here could help you to heal. I'm so sorry for your loss, I think it is surprising that you can loss your baby with a vet and in his care, But is does happen, and I feel so bad for you and your horrible loss, you're in my thoughts today,and my prayers tonight. __________________ Rhonda, Bailey, Josie and my angel Bella Rue' "Until one has loved an animal, a part of one's soul remains unawakened." ~Anatole France~

12-06-2005, 05:37 AM	#18
Bentley&BitsysMom Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Charlotte Posts: 2,836	So sorry for your loss. This is a great place to find support and encouragement during these times. __________________ Michelle BENTLEY, BITSY, CHARLIE, & BAILEY'S Mommy Dogster Pagehttp://www.dogster.com/?145000

12-06-2005, 05:38 AM	#19
Zeus' Mom Enja's Mom too! Donating Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: Raleigh, NC Posts: 2,765	I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Farrah, Zeus, Enja & Riley

12-06-2005, 05:41 AM	#20
txshopper73 Donating YT 14K Club Member Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Texas Posts: 14,226 Blog Entries: 1	Such terrible news. I'm so sorry for your loss. __________________ As always...JMO (Just My Opinion) Kimberley

12-06-2005, 05:43 AM	#21
WV~Yorkies Donating YT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: WV Posts: 3,605 Blog Entries: 2	I am so sorry... __________________ Melissa Wvyorkies

12-06-2005, 05:46 AM	#22
Diego Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Canada Posts: 3,617	Welcome to YorkieTalk . I am very sorry for your loss . You and your mom will be in my thoughts and prayers .

12-06-2005, 05:59 AM	#23
lily YT Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: paris crossing,indiana Posts: 377	So sorry abouy your loss!This happen sometimes. I hold my breath everytime they have to put one of my under! I have a good relationship with our vets and most of the time I'm right there with them watching! But that doesn't save either if they have a reaction. I'm so sorry! Take your time in getting another ,noone can erplace your baby! lily

12-06-2005, 06:35 AM	#24
baili's mom Donating Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Orlando,FL Posts: 147	I am so sorry for your lose. I am glad you found YT, I hope it helps to have some one to share your feelings with who truley understand the love you have for Macey! __________________ Judi Baili,Blushi & Bourbi's mommy

12-06-2005, 07:26 AM	#25
toninm My Yorkie is my life Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Houston, Texas Posts: 1,187	I will be short and sweet here as right now nothing will take away the pain of your sudden unexpected loss. I am so sorry that this has happened.....I know no other dog will take the place of Macey, but I do think that getting another dog is a good idea.... __________________ Toni & Dollar http://www.dogster.com/pet_page.php?i=212581

12-06-2005, 08:15 AM	#26
Lexi Rae Gina, (Lexi's Mommy) Donating Member Join Date: May 2005 Location: LONG ISLAND,NY Posts: 10,455	oh my, this is so sad,. i am so sorry for your loss, you and your mom will be in my prayers... __________________ Gina & Lexi CLICK HERE for our Photo Album ...

12-06-2005, 08:27 AM	#27
Kenzies Grandma YT Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: AB, Canada Posts: 387	I'm so sorry that you lost your little one, I know what a terrible gap it leaves in your life. Please know that you were only looking after her in having her spayed and it was in no way your fault, I don't really know how you can find out if there was any malpractice involved. Some people don't believe in havng dogs spayed unless absolutely necessary and they have the right to their opinion but for myself I will never have another female and not have her spayed. I recently (in Aug.) lost a little girl to cancer and from all my research I think she would have had a better chance if she had been spayed. Again I'm so sorry for your loss and you and your Mom will be in our thoughts. Kathy, Tango and Gypsy p.s. I also think it is a good idea to get another dog as soon as you feel ready. Gypsy (I've had her for 6 wks. now) has definitely helped to fill the empty spaces in my heart.

12-06-2005, 09:57 AM	#28
Marie Mom loves Gucci Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: New York City Posts: 6,427	Im so sorry for your loss.My deppest sympathies. RIP little Macey. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers. __________________ Huggies, Gucci and Marie http://www.dogster.com/?132187 "I have been egged"

12-07-2005, 04:27 AM	#29
red98vett Yorkie Kisses are the Best! Donating Member Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: Houston TX Posts: 33,590 Blog Entries: 1	Oh Amanda I am so so sorry for your loss....We are entrusted to love and cherish our yorkies.... and while sometimes these things happen.... I want to tell you that the pain will always be there no matter what you find out... and I am very sorry for the loss of your little Macy - she sound very special. There are millions of these surgeries performed without complications and it's so so sad that you had to experience the loss of your little angel when you were doing something to protect her... I'm very very sorry....and when your heart is ready.... I WOULD see if there is another little puppy for you to love - it can really help you thru your pain of losing your Macy. It doesn't mean you're replacing her - you would be paying her a tribute ....it shows how much you loved her. __________________ Villette, Chanel & Cheri www.DesignsByVillette.net Custom Address Labels and Note Cards using YOUR Photos! Just Click HERE!

12-07-2005, 06:27 AM	#30
ttreatsyorkies YT Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: Frisco TX Posts: 430	Welcome to YT, we are always hee for you. I am so sorry that you suffered such a thing. You should know that even if you do get another pup it wont replace your baby, it will just help fill the whole that was left behind. __________________ yorkies are the key to the heart of happiness