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Charlie09 · 01-20-2012, 11:24 PM

Hi everyone. It's been a while since I last wrote. Thank you all so very much for your kind words and prayers. Unfortunately, my neighbors did not cooperate the way I hoped they would. We went ahead and gave them the bill of sale for what we paid for our sweet Charlie, along with the medical bill. That did not go over well with them. They were upset that we called animal control and that they had to pay the city for the citations they got. So we had to go to court and file a law suit against them.

On to some better news... I am so appreciative of all your comforting advice and loving thoughts. That really means a lot to me. I am thankful to God that as i write this, my heart is beginning to heal. Well, we got another puppy! His name is Peanut and he has helped us through this difficult time. Our house was just not the same without a dog. We missed Charlie so very much and wanted another little furbaby to love. I have to say, the first few days with Peanut were pretty rough. I cried a lot because he reminded me of my baby, but I am so thankful to have him in our lives. We tell him about his big brother often. My heart still has an emptiness for Charlie, I still miss him so much! I look at his pictures daily. I miss my sweet boy. I often ask God to give him a kiss for me and blow kisses to heaven. I can't tell you guys thank you enough, yorkie talk has been a huge help. Thanks for listening and understanding.

BabyFidgette · 01-20-2012, 11:50 PM

I just read your original post. So sorry about Charlie. It's one thing when they are older and you know it's their time. But when it's such a tragedy, uh, I can't imagine.

On a lighter note, congrats on Peanut. Is that him in your avatar? Whomever that is, he's a cutie! I know he won't replace Charlie, but he sure will help ease the heart. Congratulations!

SophieandZiggy · 01-21-2012, 07:13 AM

Congratulations on your new little addition, Peanut. I'm glad he's helping to heal your heart.

_Chrissy_ · 01-21-2012, 06:41 PM

I am so very sorry for your loss.

I am crying just reading all that happened.

Loving Furgie · 01-22-2012, 10:01 PM

It wasn't till your update of the post that the water works broke with tears streaming down my face! I so sorry for the loss of your Charlie...absolutely horrible, heart breaking! I think it was when you tell Peanut about (his/her) brother is when the tears really came down

So happy your heart is healing....I am sure Charlie is watching over and is happy you guys are healing.....take care, enjoy your little love Peanut!

kalina82 · 01-22-2012, 10:30 PM

I'm sorry I did not see this when your first posted so I could offer my condolences. I am so sorry that poor little Charlie had to go through what he did. While reading your first post and this latest one I can feel so much grief and heartache in your words that it breaks my heart as well.

I'm happy you and your family got another puppy to help heal your empty home and hearts. While Peanut will never replace Charlie he will help you move forward.

RIP Charlie

Buster Brown · 01-31-2012, 02:23 PM

I am sorry that your neighbors are being difficult about the money. I would think they would be so upset about the horrible attack on poor Charlie and the suffering you poor family has gone through. It is sad so many people these day have no personal accountability for actions brought on by their mistakes.
Congratulations on Peanut he will bring that special joy back into your life but there will always be that special place in your heart that belongs only to Charlie. Your little fur angel will always be watching over you and your family. Best wishes.

tinknpiper · 02-04-2012, 10:07 AM

I am sorry sorry you lost your baby the way you did and at such a young age. I understand the heartbreak you are going through as I lost my baby the same way and the same age. I feel for you and I am terribly sorry at how horrible the situation is.

Charlie09 · 02-06-2012, 06:37 PM

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Originally Posted by BabyFidgette

I just read your original post. So sorry about Charlie. It's one thing when they are older and you know it's their time. But when it's such a tragedy, uh, I can't imagine.

On a lighter note, congrats on Peanut. Is that him in your avatar? Whomever that is, he's a cutie! I know he won't replace Charlie, but he sure will help ease the heart. Congratulations!

The avatar picture is of Charlie when he was an itty bitty baby. He was such a handsome boy! He has and will always have a huge part of my heart. Thanks for your post.

Charlie09 · 02-06-2012, 06:42 PM

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Originally Posted by tinknpiper

I am sorry sorry you lost your baby the way you did and at such a young age. I understand the heartbreak you are going through as I lost my baby the same way and the same age. I feel for you and I am terribly sorry at how horrible the situation is.

I am so sorry to hear that you too have gone through what we did with our Charlie. It's a horrible thing to go through.

Lyric · 02-16-2012, 01:53 AM

I am so sorry about what you and your family and sweet little Charlie had to go through. So unbelievably traumatic! I am glad, though, that little Peanut is warming your hearts back up again. Each time I lose a precious furbaby, I don't think I can go through the suffering again of loving (and eventually losing) another one. But, usually within days, I succumb to another adorable little terrier.

I think it's really good that the vet let you go in to be with Charlie and say good-bye to him. That had to help somewhat. When my darling Squwigr was dying, we rushed him to the emergency vet in the middle of the night, and we were not allowed to stay there with him. In fact, we weren't even allowed to stay in the waiting room of the hospital to be close to him. He had to die (in an oxygen chamber) alone. It's one of the deepest regrets of my life.

lynzy420 · 02-16-2012, 08:39 PM

Words seem so inadequate, truthfully I can't even find any right now other than "I am truly, truly sorry"

And I will tell you this, I have been in this same situation; however, my dog then was a black lab, not a yorkie - rarely a day goes by that I don't briefly remember, somedays more than others - but mostly now I only reflect on the good things and the "remember when Shine did this, and when Shine did that etc" I keep a beautiful pic of him on the wall.

I did immediately go get another puppy to bring new life and chase the "tragedy" away for my children, the new puppy helped all of us.

Soon the awful "mind movies" will stop playing honey, I promise.

Bless you and your family

p.s. anger, revenge, helpless, all those feelings are natural and part of the grieving process and are valid.
Please make sure those "owners" are held accountable financially and wouldn't hurt to have a lawyer to look in to the legalites etc.

veraglo · 02-22-2012, 07:03 PM

You were and are loved Charlie I am so so so sorry this is just sad so so sad. I am heartbroken for you. I will pray for peace in your heart .

tinalove · 02-23-2012, 07:41 AM

I think is so thoughtless for people to allow their animals to run loose. The individual should have been willing to pay medical costs and the original cost for Charlie. This still could never replace him. I had to call animal control on my neighbor/cousin also. His dogs would snap and growl at my dog in her own yard. They would also leave their mess by my steps. I didn't care if he got upset because his pack of dogs never go to the vet and never get any shots. I don't want those diseases passed on to my dog and family. I don't blame anyone for calling animal control and I certainly can understand suing in the case of a lost or hurt pet. No sum of money can replace a pet because they are our family but having to pay some money may make thoughtless owners think twice about letting their pets run loose on other people's property. I am sorry that poor Charlie lost his life . Also I am sorry for all the other wounded and deceased pups.

Tnmtngrl · 03-13-2012, 07:00 AM

I just read your post about Charlie and sat here and cried.I went through the same exact thing about 3 weeks ago on Feb 24th.I lost my beloved Cooper to a tragic coyote attack.My family was devastated.Cooper sounded so much like charlie it is unreal.I did exactly what you did my husband went and bought me another Yorkie "Gunner".He is now 10 weeks old and a bundle of joy.Gunner will never take coopers place but will get all the love I can give him. R.I.P COOPER and CHARLIE

01-20-2012, 11:24 PM	#76
Charlie09 Yorkie Talker Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: texas Posts: 16	Update Hi everyone. It's been a while since I last wrote. Thank you all so very much for your kind words and prayers. Unfortunately, my neighbors did not cooperate the way I hoped they would. We went ahead and gave them the bill of sale for what we paid for our sweet Charlie, along with the medical bill. That did not go over well with them. They were upset that we called animal control and that they had to pay the city for the citations they got. So we had to go to court and file a law suit against them. On to some better news... I am so appreciative of all your comforting advice and loving thoughts. That really means a lot to me. I am thankful to God that as i write this, my heart is beginning to heal. Well, we got another puppy! His name is Peanut and he has helped us through this difficult time. Our house was just not the same without a dog. We missed Charlie so very much and wanted another little furbaby to love. I have to say, the first few days with Peanut were pretty rough. I cried a lot because he reminded me of my baby, but I am so thankful to have him in our lives. We tell him about his big brother often. My heart still has an emptiness for Charlie, I still miss him so much! I look at his pictures daily. I miss my sweet boy. I often ask God to give him a kiss for me and blow kisses to heaven. I can't tell you guys thank you enough, yorkie talk has been a huge help. Thanks for listening and understanding.

01-20-2012, 11:50 PM	#77
BabyFidgette Learn Yorkie CPR! Donating Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: New Jersey Posts: 6,855	I just read your original post. So sorry about Charlie. It's one thing when they are older and you know it's their time. But when it's such a tragedy, uh, I can't imagine. On a lighter note, congrats on Peanut. Is that him in your avatar? Whomever that is, he's a cutie! I know he won't replace Charlie, but he sure will help ease the heart. Congratulations! __________________ Nicole & Baby "The more men I meet, the more I love my Yorkie!"

01-21-2012, 07:13 AM	#78
SophieandZiggy and Bear too! ♥ Donating Member Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: West Virginia Posts: 1,603 Blog Entries: 2	Congratulations on your new little addition, Peanut. I'm glad he's helping to heal your heart. __________________ ZIGGY, SOPHIE, BEAR, LEO & ELLA RUSTY 8/12/08- 9/19/11

01-21-2012, 06:41 PM	#79
_Chrissy_ Donating YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Maryland Posts: 1,561	I am so very sorry for your loss. I am crying just reading all that happened. __________________ Max (the Morkie) & Mickey (the Yorkie)

01-22-2012, 10:01 PM	#80
Loving Furgie Senior Yorkie Talker Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: Tucson, AZ, USA Posts: 217	It wasn't till your update of the post that the water works broke with tears streaming down my face! I so sorry for the loss of your Charlie...absolutely horrible, heart breaking! I think it was when you tell Peanut about (his/her) brother is when the tears really came down So happy your heart is healing....I am sure Charlie is watching over and is happy you guys are healing.....take care, enjoy your little love Peanut! __________________ Mindy and Furgie

01-22-2012, 10:30 PM	#81
kalina82 Phantom Queen Morrigan Donating Member Join Date: May 2006 Location: with my yorkie baby Posts: 10,141 Blog Entries: 1	I'm sorry I did not see this when your first posted so I could offer my condolences. I am so sorry that poor little Charlie had to go through what he did. While reading your first post and this latest one I can feel so much grief and heartache in your words that it breaks my heart as well. I'm happy you and your family got another puppy to help heal your empty home and hearts. While Peanut will never replace Charlie he will help you move forward. RIP Charlie __________________ Kellie and Morgan

01-31-2012, 02:23 PM	#82
Buster Brown Donating YT 1000 Club Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Toluca Lake, CA Posts: 5,491	I am sorry that your neighbors are being difficult about the money. I would think they would be so upset about the horrible attack on poor Charlie and the suffering you poor family has gone through. It is sad so many people these day have no personal accountability for actions brought on by their mistakes. Congratulations on Peanut he will bring that special joy back into your life but there will always be that special place in your heart that belongs only to Charlie. Your little fur angel will always be watching over you and your family. Best wishes. __________________ CarolynBuster Brown "The happiest people don't have the best of everything, they just make the best of everything."

02-04-2012, 10:07 AM	#83
tinknpiper Yorkie Yakker Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: Oklahoma City, Oklahoma Posts: 56	I am sorry sorry you lost your baby the way you did and at such a young age. I understand the heartbreak you are going through as I lost my baby the same way and the same age. I feel for you and I am terribly sorry at how horrible the situation is. __________________ Tinkerbell 2/4/05 Lotus(g.sheperd) 10/13/11 Piper 2/4/08-10/23/10

02-16-2012, 01:53 AM	#86
Lyric YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 7	So sorry I am so sorry about what you and your family and sweet little Charlie had to go through. So unbelievably traumatic! I am glad, though, that little Peanut is warming your hearts back up again. Each time I lose a precious furbaby, I don't think I can go through the suffering again of loving (and eventually losing) another one. But, usually within days, I succumb to another adorable little terrier. I think it's really good that the vet let you go in to be with Charlie and say good-bye to him. That had to help somewhat. When my darling Squwigr was dying, we rushed him to the emergency vet in the middle of the night, and we were not allowed to stay there with him. In fact, we weren't even allowed to stay in the waiting room of the hospital to be close to him. He had to die (in an oxygen chamber) alone. It's one of the deepest regrets of my life.

02-16-2012, 08:39 PM	#87
lynzy420 Donating YT 3000 Club Member Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: USA Posts: 7,652	Words seem so inadequate, truthfully I can't even find any right now other than "I am truly, truly sorry" And I will tell you this, I have been in this same situation; however, my dog then was a black lab, not a yorkie - rarely a day goes by that I don't briefly remember, somedays more than others - but mostly now I only reflect on the good things and the "remember when Shine did this, and when Shine did that etc" I keep a beautiful pic of him on the wall. I did immediately go get another puppy to bring new life and chase the "tragedy" away for my children, the new puppy helped all of us. Soon the awful "mind movies" will stop playing honey, I promise. Bless you and your family p.s. anger, revenge, helpless, all those feelings are natural and part of the grieving process and are valid. Please make sure those "owners" are held accountable financially and wouldn't hurt to have a lawyer to look in to the legalites etc. __________________ The Above advice/comments/reviews are my personal opinions based on my own experience/education/investigation and research and you can take them any way you want to......Or NOT!!!

02-22-2012, 07:03 PM	#88
veraglo YorkieTalk Newbie! Join Date: Feb 2009 Location: florida Posts: 4 Blog Entries: 1	Goodbye Charlie You were and are loved Charlie I am so so so sorry this is just sad so so sad. I am heartbroken for you. I will pray for peace in your heart .

02-23-2012, 07:41 AM	#89
tinalove YT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Orangeburg SC Posts: 567	I think is so thoughtless for people to allow their animals to run loose. The individual should have been willing to pay medical costs and the original cost for Charlie. This still could never replace him. I had to call animal control on my neighbor/cousin also. His dogs would snap and growl at my dog in her own yard. They would also leave their mess by my steps. I didn't care if he got upset because his pack of dogs never go to the vet and never get any shots. I don't want those diseases passed on to my dog and family. I don't blame anyone for calling animal control and I certainly can understand suing in the case of a lost or hurt pet. No sum of money can replace a pet because they are our family but having to pay some money may make thoughtless owners think twice about letting their pets run loose on other people's property. I am sorry that poor Charlie lost his life . Also I am sorry for all the other wounded and deceased pups.

03-13-2012, 07:00 AM	#90
Tnmtngrl Yorkie Talker Join Date: Mar 2012 Location: Sevierville TN Posts: 18	so sorry I just read your post about Charlie and sat here and cried.I went through the same exact thing about 3 weeks ago on Feb 24th.I lost my beloved Cooper to a tragic coyote attack.My family was devastated.Cooper sounded so much like charlie it is unreal.I did exactly what you did my husband went and bought me another Yorkie "Gunner".He is now 10 weeks old and a bundle of joy.Gunner will never take coopers place but will get all the love I can give him. R.I.P COOPER and CHARLIE